ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Laura think your okay! soo excited for you!! Let faith and your body decide if its ready. Our bodys are amazing for everything it handles!

As for decorations our leaves are falling and changing so i figured it was time to decorate halloweens oct 31st but besides ill have them down thinksgiving night and christmas stuff up right away. I like to enjoy them and my window was boring. I finally accepted liam not being with us and shared him with the world too. (well fb). I never showed his us pics to anyone except my parents mil sil and dh. So next time family asks i think im ready to share. I have lots of great us pics of him! His anatomy was so perfect. Its hard to beleive his lil heart and organs werent. But hes at peace and not suffering amen to that!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey girls, hope you are all okay

Tonights been quite bad :/

First of all i cried halfway through the baby dance for no reason

I then calmed down, i then cried because i had a nose bleed which i have never had
I again,calmed down, i then cried because there was a spider on my big that was huge, i am not exaggerating though.

I feel really sorry for chris (partner)

Wow leftover hormones really are something :/

xxxx

 

[jen435]

Natasha im so sorry i hope those hormones balance out and shed some light on whats happening. Fxd for you. I know women can get very emotional during pregnancy and i will admit i was after d&c also... hope u feel better soon.

 

[jen435]

Amy bethany danni horseypants how are you?

Hope all u ladies are having a good day!

Natasha i hope urs is better tom!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey Jen, im fine now i have a cup of tea Crying is done and im actually tlaking openly to my brother for the first time about the MMC, which im tkaing as a positive sign because im doing it without crying, hope youre okay? xx

 

[jen435]

So glad your feeling better im good Today was a good day. Dh is watching football and im relaxing waiting to bd tonight

 

[Storked]

Did you see my post Jen?

Sorry Natasha. It sucks!

 

[jen435]

Bethany yes! Read all the posts you lovely ladies anwsered us so was asking how you where.

 

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[mommylov]

Hi girls! Just got back from running errands with dh... Went to home depot and furniture stores. Trying to get some stuff for the house. Was hoping to be looking at baby furniture by now but I guess we were meant to have this time to get blinds and furniture. Dh said he is up for bd tonight even though we are both do tired but determined to catch that egg! It was so cute, he told me that he was looking up ways to try for a boy. He is really into this not that he wasn't last time but I think he wants a lo evening now.

Natasha, Sorry you were so emotional tonight hun. It will get better as time goes. You'll never forget but will come to the point where you are able to talk about it and feel love instead of sadness for your baby, atleast that is where I am now.

Laura, Jen, Bethany, danni, Jessica... Everyone..how are you ladies?!! Hope you are having a great weekend do far!!!

Again, so glad you are ttc with us this month Laura!!!!!

Xoxoxo

 

[Storked]

Angel you are so strong lady! I still can't do baby showers or even baby blessings. Makes me too bitter.
And thank you so much for the info about storing swimmers!
May take the fun out of it but also may save time (winks wildly)
And as for supportive partners- don't worry my husband has his moments. I remember crying over an update saying that I (should) be 20 weeks and when I told him why I was crying he said "you aren't one of those people who will celebrate it's birthday are you?" in a very snooty fashion. Completely hurt me. He was extremely cold after the loss. He is only now warming up and being sweet. I don't understand men sometimes.
and can't wait to hear about the royal jelly!

Jen, I am so much better today. I love you girls

Amy, that is awesome that your DH googled that. My DH told me that even if I miscarried again...that he would be willing to try again which is major for me! I am happy lol

 

[mommylov]

Angel, yes you are very strong for going to a baby shower. Don't know that I would be able to do that right now even if I were pg again... Just so hard. Xo

 

[Storked]

I really want to feel out this cycle. For some reason I feel more optimistic planning TTC than waiting to see if it has paid off. Goofy no?

 

[mommylov]

Not at all... The waiting is the worse!!!! It's the longest two weeks but by planning ttc it kinda takes yourind off it it in a weird way and if it doesn't happen this cycle (which I think it will) then you don't get too crushed. Make sense? Atleast that's what I'm trying to myself too.

 

[Storked]

Then we can make plans together lol. Just in case

 

[mommylov]

Exactly!

 

[jen435]

So glad your dh shows so much Interest in the process! Closer bd to ovulation leads to a son they swim faster so beat female to egg if they arent up there already. Also they claim steak and potasium favor boys. Idk if it holds true. Also they say caffine stimulate male swimmers if a can is drank an hour by dh before bd. They said pepsi. so glad your having a good weekend amy

Bethany thats so sweet of dh to be by your side no matter what! You both want your lo and are staying strong together. Its beautiful to hear! I know youll be okay with your next baby though. I agree its so easy to planfor ovulation yet so hard to wait. Hopefully its your last wait. I still feel very positive for us this cycle!

Laura I still cant get.over the excitement we will be testing at the same time so glad all is okay and your ttc with us! That rainbow was.incredible!

Angel your so very strong I couldnt of went to a baby shower that soon. Not even sure I could go now. Glad you were okay though. Our rainbows are coming hang in there. Thank you for the info. Let me know how it works for u. Ill try it next cycle if I dont get bfp. Hopefully I do though!

Just bd tonight love that he is doing this for us and our soon to be child. It means so much. well its bedtime ladies. Goodnight!

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jen!! Dh said he is looking forward to Pepsi and bananas tomorrow hehe. So we bd last night, he is watching a movie and I'm so tired... Do yiu think it would hurt to miss one night? It's cd10 for me so not sure if I should hit pause on his movie or not, thoughts?

 

[Storked]

Jen you are getting me excited again!
girls! We all deserve those rainbows