ttc after a d&c

[Storked]

Amy, get in the BED AND DO IT

 

[mommylov]

Lol... Yes ma'am!!

 

[Storked]

You know if you don't you'll regret it

 

[jen435]

I was about to say the same thing! Pause it he wont mind! Bd every night ladies!

 

[jen435]

Bethany glad your excited bc its going to happen for all of us sooner then later

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks guys, hope you are all okay?

Im in an excited mood today, really positive, can't wait til i start coming on here and one by one seeing those BFPS! Really excited for everyone!

DH is going to work for a week tonight so will probably go on a bit of a downer later but at least i have you girls. And after finding two massive spiders in my bed last night i physically refuse to sleep in that bed so until he gets home im gonna go and stay with my mum or something lol! I am not sleeping with huge spiders lol!!

xxx

 

[Storked]

Aw Natasha your spouse is going away for a week? I hate being left alone. Even as a teenager I was always climbing into my mom's bed just so I wouldn't sleep alone lol. She hated it
Spiders! Eek! What kind?
Not kidding, we have freaking tarantulas all over our yard. So it makes sense that we also have hawk wasps to eat them. I honestly can't figure out which scares me more.

 

[Storked]

Oh and glad that you are excited

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah hes got a weeks work in birmingham so im just gonna go to my mums i think

Im not sure what kind of spiders they were but they ahve big thick legs and big heads and bodies and all brown and black, very very fast at running, i was crying and it tried to run at me so i ran back screaming and ran into the door frame NOT COOL lol, but my boyfriend doesnt like spiders either and he had to do the Be a Man thing and get them cos i was crying bless him Just having a nice cuppa tea , not got anything to do today, should clean my room but im not while spiders are in there, so im just going to sit in my pyjamas today.. Gotta go back to work tomorrow after three weeks bereavement leave, oh gosh xxx

 

[lilesMom]

jen thats great ur moving onwards and upwards. xx i finally feel ready to let lile go too, i thought i had but i really hadnt xxx i must check out fb for Us pics, i have framed one of lile but u cant make out stuff properly, she is my little blob but i can see her which is the main thing.
you r so right im gonna just let my body decide when its ready to be pregnant. i had afriend who had cervical cancer while pregnant and her boy is perfect so i think my body can handle it

natasha yuck on the crying, for ages everything and anything set me off too, its much better now, it will be for u too soon hon xxx

angel we would all do whatever we can to get our bfp go for it on the saving up the sperm xxx is ur name danni, im gettin confused xxx

amy thanks honey xxi m glad im with ye too, fx fpr all bfps and happy growing bumps glad ur OH is totally on board xx

bethany thats great that Oh will keep trying, looks like there is something in the air and all OH startin to co operate we bd yest and today, will jump him again tonight i think cos it should be Ov today or do ye reckon once a day? x
natasha going back to work isnt half as bad as u think it will be, i built it up in my head but it actually was ok. i had 2 people ask me how i was getting along and asking me how far i was now but apart from that it wasnt too bad xxx best o luck xxx

 

[mommylov]

Natasha, spiders scare the bageezus out of me!!! No matter thier size and dh knows if he sees me stop in my tracks and just freeze, he doesn't even ask what's wrong. He will just say "ok where is it" and I just point lol. So glad you're feeling better today and we'll be here for ya when he had to work. The week is going go by fast!!

Bethany, I did the same thing and still do lol! My patents came out last December to visit and both dh and I got sick so she took care of us and I was laying on the couch with my head on her lap. Same when we go back to Cali, I'll watch tv withy head on her lap under a blanket. We were joking the last time I was there and she said "31 and married and you still cuddle up with mommy" my response "ya and you thought you got rid of me lol. Just wait till next year. It wonr be just me anymore, dh and grand kids will join". Her response "it's what I've looked forward to my whole life" I love my parents!!!! Lol

So after all that talk last night, I came up to the room and dh said he would be right up. He said by the time he came to bed, I fell asleep Um like you took too long. He said he was up here literally within 10 mins. Oh well, bd today for sure maybe even twice!!!

to you all!!!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks lilesmom... Ill get there i guess, its still raw, three weeks later, i cannot physically wait to come on here and slowly over hte nest few months start seeing all our BFPS , will be amazing, we all deserve it and clearly have so much love for the children we've lost and for the children we arent blessed with YET It sounds daft im not even pregnant yet but i love it already lol!
Ive actually given up with the ovulation kits, ive been using them twice sometimes three times a day and holding my wee in and still getting negatives.. I cant stop peeing, im going every 45 minutes so its really hold for me to hold it in for a few hours so im probably not getting accurate results anyway! What will be will be xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks Danni.. I hate them too, just found another three in the bedroom but al hanging off the ceiling so i just ran downstairs n told chris im not sleeping in that room this week im going to mums lol!! Go n stay in bed with my sister ( have a thing about sleeping on my own i panic :/) A 21 year old whos still scared of hte dark on her own lol ridiculous!

Hopefully this week will go by quick, but i cant take my laptop to mums as she has no internet :/ So might not be on here much unless i keep coming home n checking in to see how everyone is

Mind u i got a couple of u on facebook so if i do crack up this week i can always message on FB on my phone, that might be easier htan coming back and forwards.

Im debating and wondering whether that spotting i had on wednesday could have been ovulation bleeding which ive never had rather than IB.. God only knows i guess, i think im just oging to test next week ( 4 weeks post dnc) and if negative, wait another two weeks for either a period or BFP xx

 

[lilesMom]

ur so right babe , its gonna be exciting few months for us all i cant wait either and i feel the same i cant to cuddle my little one , gettin a bit ahead of myself but feck it we have to allow ourselves to enjoy it too
3 weeks is very soon, i was still in bits at that stage but honest it does get easier xxx
i only used opks for a little bit i got sick of um fast, im gonna try for month r 2 and if no luck il go back to using them

amy i always do that, i say to OH will u come up for cuddles, im goin to bed, he gives me time to get into bed and half the time im sound asleep by the time he comes up

 

[mommylov]

I had some spotting at about that time but it was just my body padding what was left from the d&c. Dr told me not to count that which I didn't agree with but then af came two weeks later do I guess she knew what she was talking about hehe

 

[mommylov]

ur so right babe , its gonna be exciting few months for us all i cant wait either and i feel the same i cant to cuddle my little one , gettin a bit ahead of myself but feck it we have to allow ourselves to enjoy it too
3 weeks is very soon, i was still in bits at that stage but honest it does get easier xxx
i only used opks for a little bit i got sick of um fast, im gonna try for month r 2 and if no luck il go back to using them

amy i always do that, i say to OH will u come up for cuddles, im goin to bed, he gives me time to get into bed and half the time im sound asleep by the time he comes up

Lol, I know he says I do it a lot. I'm like ok them come up here faster then!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

yeah, i guess in some ways it would be better to expect my AF , even though i want a bfp it would make trying easier because my cycles are normally a perect 28 days and i mean, i used to come on on the same day every month at the same time, im hoping that resumes. Still took me ten months to conceive though :/

Ooo you ladies get me excited!! That sounds rude, but you know what i mean!! Then when all the BFPs come through, we can all share our journey too, cant wait.

But yeah the opks are really doing my head in, i mean i have enough of them so its not like i dont wanna waste them, im just sick of that dissappointment every day, and we BD every other night if not more so im sure we will catch it when it happens xxx

 

[lilesMom]

maybe forget the opks till after first af cos i think they come out a bit weird for first while . my first af took 5.5 weeks but my second and third were on time, which is great. im same as u always 28 days, so its great it came back so fast. it doesnt for some. it is really nice to haave someone to get excited with cos i havent told anyone im trying again to take pressure off me

amy i say the same thing to my OH , i do fall asleep really fast though, i love my sleep

 

[lilesMom]

jen i just went on fb, liam is gorg hon, he was so perfect looking. u can make out everything on it xxxx its lovely to have xxxx big hugs x

 

[mommylov]

Im sure we will too! I get excited too. When I came on here it was just after my d&c. I was all over the place but reading what these girls write about just put me in great spirits. Not only was the info very helpful, it was exciting to read about what they were going through and everytime they mentioned something, it happened to me a few days or weeks later. Plus we are able to have some good laughs which is therapeutic as well! I just love these ladies and too can't wait until we are sharing bump and baby stories!!!