ttc after a d&c

[aaronswoman79]

Yes, they confirmed it. My levels are at 200 now. I don't think I made it past 600.

Dr worry Jess, the us tech just told me today that they usually can't see anything until 1500-2000. Your levels are rising great.

Ok Amy, I don't want to sound overly optimistic, but they only confirmed miscarriage because of low hcg levels? Did they do an actual ultrasound? Remember your blood tests having been showing kinda wacky from the beginning. Are they 100% sure?

 

[TTCSecrets]

I agree with Jess Amy, youve had an up and down rollercoaster since your BFP, could they be wrong about this? What did the scan show?? xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy if this is true (just don't want to believe it, because you have had prior issues with the docs and blood tests), I offer you and your husband my deepest condolences. Words can't express how bad I feel right now. Who knows, I might be on the same boat in a couple of days. Its so early on, I guess nobody can know. Hon, I really hope you can have some company there, your husband or maybe a good friend. I wish I could give you a big hug right now, you are such a sweetheart.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy, i too dont want to believe it All i can say is im here for you, we all are, we all know better than anyone that nothing we say will make it any better but we are here for you always << xxx

 

[mommylov]

Yes, they confirmed it. My levels are at 200 now. I don't think I made it past 600.

Dr worry Jess, the us tech just told me today that they usually can't see anything until 1500-2000. Your levels are rising great.

Ok Amy, I don't want to sound overly optimistic, but they only confirmed miscarriage because of low hcg levels? Did they do an actual ultrasound? Remember your blood tests having been showing kinda wacky from the beginning. Are they 100% sure?

Ya they did an ultra sound too.. I'm pretty sure of it.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh babe
Im actually heartbroken and lost for words for you Xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Wish there were words to explain how deeply sorry I am that you find yourself in this situation...

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

Yes, they confirmed it. My levels are at 200 now. I don't think I made it past 600.

Dr worry Jess, the us tech just told me today that they usually can't see anything until 1500-2000. Your levels are rising great.

Ok Amy, I don't want to sound overly optimistic, but they only confirmed miscarriage because of low hcg levels? Did they do an actual ultrasound? Remember your blood tests having been showing kinda wacky from the beginning. Are they 100% sure?

Ya they did an ultra sound too.. I'm pretty sure of it.

Amy, I am so sorry. Like Angel said, hopefully they look into what is going on. Please get some rest hon, I know you this past week has been a roller coaster for you. I wish I could help you in some way to make you feel better.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks girls. These past two weeks have been so rough but I guess I just have to move on. Dh is with me and I have bern home from work since wed afternoon. My boss understands since his daughter in law and daughter have and ate going through this too. This new dr is great and sounds optimistic. She said since we got pregnant pretty fast both times that it might just be a matter of getting me on progesterone earlier it something. She wants me to come in for follow up work next week and then she said we can monitor and go from there. She was sweet and said "we are going to get you pregnant and carry a healthy baby full term" and I really believe her so time will tell.

Angel, not that we didn't share a pain for loss already but going through 2 in about the same amount if time as you makes my heart go out you. This is tough but our rainbow babies are coming.

Love you all and thank you so much for caring and checking on me

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks girls. These past two weeks have been so rough but I guess I just have to move on. Dh is with me and I have bern home from work since wed afternoon. My boss understands since his daughter in law and daughter have and ate going through this too. This new dr is great and sounds optimistic. She said since we got pregnant pretty fast both times that it might just be a matter of getting me on progesterone earlier it something. She wants me to come in for follow up work next week and then she said we can monitor and go from there. She was sweet and said "we are going to get you pregnant and carry a healthy baby full term" and I really believe her so time will tell.

Angel, not that we didn't share a pain for loss already but going through 2 in about the same amount if time as you makes my heart go out you. This is tough but our rainbow babies are coming.

Love you all and thank you so much for caring and checking on me

Love you Amy. I wish we lived close by. You are a very loyal friend, that I can tell just by knowing you on here. And you will have your healthy lo. You just need a little more TLC, and every woman deserves that. So glad you have dh with you, you shouldn't be alone right now. I am so happy that you have such a good husband, you chose good hon!

AFM, I have to say I don't have much hope for my pregnancy, I don't know why, maybe it has something to do with the late term miscarriage. I am so negative right now, and I know I have to change that and be more positive. I felt more optimistic for you, than even myself. I am scared to embrace this, because I don't want the lo to be take away. Hon, I really wish that we all could be bffs in real life, not just on here. We all have such a special bond, that most people cannot understand. I can imagine all of us living close by and all taking care of each other when pregnant. I love all of you.

 

[horseypants]

i'm so sad for you amy hang in there aaronswoman

 

[jen435]

Amy I am in tears reading your posts I am so very sorry you and ur dh have to go thru this again I will be praying that with the help of ur new obgyn u will have a heathly baby Nd I am extremely angry at ur last ob for not watching out for u to save ur next pregnancy. I wish I could visit u and ur dh and comfort u. I would bring comfort food and give u lots of hugs. Im so sorry my heart goes out to u. Please stay strong sweety you will have a rainbow baby you must.

 

[jen435]

Bethany im so sorry af came. Ugh this whole ttc is exhausting I really pray everyone of u are blessed with healthy LOs..... This is getting so depressing. I hope you and dh will be ok and stay stromg as ur due date approaches. Praying u have good news when you return. We will really miss you but understand how hard this is for you. love you

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

Jessica 1000 hcg is good! You arent high enough to see a sac. I couldnt see one til over 2000 for both pregnancies. Ill be praying. This thread has so much sadness atm I hope we can get some pma hear and some good news

 

[mommylov]

Thanks, I wish we all lived closer too! I feel very close to you too! Xoxo

 

[Kaylee44]

Hi everyone, I am new here and found the forum by searching for answers to some of the issues I have been dealing with. First, I am so sorry for all of the heartache many of you have gone through. There are some heartbreaking stories here, but also a lot of hopeful stories as well. And best of all, there are so many supportive people. I myself had a miscarriage around 11 weeks in May. It was really sad since I had seen the heartbeat and my dr said my chance of a miscarriage was now less than 3%. I had to have a D&C and then had some retained tissue so recovery (getting my HCG levels back down) took about 9 weeks. I finally got pregnant again in early October. I was so excited. My dr HCG was rising nicely, but my dr put me on progesterone to be safe. The very next day I started to get bad cramps. I went in for another blood test that day and told the nurse I was having very bad cramping, none like I ever had before. She told me so long as there was no bleeding to just take tylenol, that it was normal. Well, it wasn't. I endeared bad cramps off and on until Tuesday morning. I woke at 5 am in severe pain. I was scheduled for an ultrasound that day at 10 and couldn't wait. I thought about going to the ER but was able to wait until the clinic opened at 8. Long story short, they sent me to the ER and I had emergency surgery for an etopic pregnancy. At this point I was in a dangerous state with a high temp and a lot of blood in my stomach (sorry if too much info). They had to remove a tube. I am so bummed by yet another very unlikely and completely unrelated instance of bad luck (as the dr says). I am mad they didn't take me more seriously on Friday and mad at myself for not pushing since at that time my hcg was over 3000 and we might have been able to avoid surgery and save my tube. At first I was just happy that I was no longer in excruciating pain and that I was ok, but now I am devastated again. I am tired of all of the tests, the doctor's appointment, two surgeries and being back to square one. I know it will all be worth it, but I doesn't make it easy. I have an amazing husband, great parents, brother and friends who have all been supportive, but I don't feel like anyone I know really understands what I am going through. Hence, my long, venting post

 

[mommylov]

Hi kaylee, I just found out today that I am in the process of miscarrying for the second time so my apologies for not writing too much. I'm so sorry for your loss but you came to the right place. You have found the best group of girls for support. We all share the pain of loss and even though we are all currently in different phases post mc, everyone here just gets it. I hope you find some comfort here

 

[lilesMom]

amy hon i am sos sorry , i have no proper words to let u know how mad and sorry i am that this has happend to u , love and hugs babe xxxxxxxxxxxxx
glad u have a great Dh , lean on him, and us and look after urself and thank god u have ur new doc who is rootin for u as much as we r xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx