ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

if its distraction or being bothered less, it doesnt matter its all good, ur energy isnt goin into stressing any more which makes u a more efficient baby making machine ha ha xx
thats cool ur gona study ,what did u decide to do was it child care ?
im not up that early im in ireland so same time zone
we def all ahve to meet some day, wouldnt it be cool if we all meet with LOs running around us, sont be too long now xxxxxx
rainbow babies everywhere.
im a daw ive been thinking what to put on bedroom walls to amke it more baby like (later obvs when im sur ethings r ok ) but rainbows is perfect

 

[TTCSecrets]

Im not sure what you could do to your bedrooms walls before baby is born, but i was thinking when i have a Lo, of getting three small square canvas, and put DH habd prints on one, then mine on another, then LO's handprints on the third one, and putting them on the walls, but using the same colour pains to match the bedroom

Or you could get someone to do a really artistic bump picture later on in pg? They always look lovely, and plus its a memory then.

Theres loads of ideas online, you should google it I google everything. Ive even googled what shall i have for dinner tonight just for the fun of it lol!

Not child care, im going to study to be an audiologist, well id like to anyway, its if i can get through the pre courses , because i have no A Levels, i have to do one or two before i cna even apply for uni lol! Xx

 

[lilesMom]

google is the best isnt it, what did it tell u to have for dinner ?
the prints idea is lovely i always loved rainbow brite when iw as younger so ranbows have gotta be there somewhere im horribly unartistic so i will be buying stickers and stencils i think
forgive me for being adumbass but i presume that an audiologist is hearing testing ?
unusual choice but a very good one, they will always be needed . ts hard to find something in recession times that u r sure of the job staying around.
im sure u will do great chick, well done for goin back xxx
i was gonna do abck and do child care i sep but with all that was happenin i didnt but i will do it soon

 

[lilesMom]

i gotta go eat im ravenous il be back xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

haha it told me to have ham egg and chips so i did lol!
Yeah i like rainbows too, it will look pretty, you can google it and they are loads of ideas on google!

Yeah audiologist is hearing and balance and dizziness etc, there are always jobs going for it, i originally wanted to work in the newborn hearing department but realised its more diverse to work as an adult one .
Yeah u got plenty of time to go into child care etc i hope you do!! xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

um ham, egg and chips i like
that sounds like an interesting job hon.
im all full now, i feel much more normal yest and today , hope its just cos im heading for second tri, cant wait till my scan

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls, hope you all are doing well. Thank you so much fog your sweet words. Dh has been a gem and is trying up make me laugh and pick up my spirits. He has been cooking and cleaning and letting me rest which has been nice. I still haven't gotten that "gush" I'm waiting for and am now scared because I go back to work tomorrow. My boss said I can stay home if I need to but one more day won't do much and I don't really want to be home alone .

Laura, tash, Jess, angel, Jen, Bethany, horsey... You guys are dolls and just know what to say to warm my heart. I love you girls loads!

Jess, praying for you and rest up. Lots if women cramp and I'm hoping that you are one if them and that you and lo are healthy and doing great.

Tash, glad you are getting your bding in! Fx!!!

Angel, horsey, tash, and Bethany and anyone flaw I missed.... Fx for those bfp!!

Jen, hope you got dh to clean the oven and that you're resting.

Laura, hope you're feeling great too and love you tons!

Lots of love to you all and

 

[TTCSecrets]

hey angel glad you are getting rest and dh is being a lovely Us girls need it sometimes ..

Yes getting bding in, no positive opk yet but it is only cd10 , last cycle was cd 17 so im trying to relax about it lol!

I would like a BFP before christmas, i wouldnt ask for nay presents off anybody cos id have the best one already xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy u r so strong and have a great attitude xxxxxx
i would prob stay home from work but i know what u mean , sometimes distraction is better xxxx hope things r d best they can be whatever u decide , xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hope you get that Xmas present!!!!

 

[mommylov]

amy u r so strong and have a great attitude xxxxxx
i would prob stay home from work but i know what u mean , sometimes distraction is better xxxx hope things r d best they can be whatever u decide , xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks Laura, my thank you button has disappeared.

 

[TTCSecrets]

i meant amy not angel lol oops!

Glad u okay amy, well aswell as canbe... lets al hope for xmas babies xxx

 

[jen435]

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[jen435]

Amy so glad dh is being amazing with you! We love you and want you laughing and smiling too but we also know what ur going thru and since we cant be there in person as we want to so badly be there for you. We.are here for u online sweet amy! Im sorry tomorrows monday. Dh cant stay home one more day with u? I can understand in a sense going back. praying u can move forward quickly and concieve by christmas like u said. What an amazing bday gift that would be amy. I went to church last night and said a special prayer individually for each of u. I hope u all dont mind! u ladies!

Angel u and natasha are full of pma atm it seems! I love the relaxed approach idea natasha! I know ur both temping too. Fxd for this cycle girls. I feel terrible for amy and pray every bfp is viable here on out. as it should be.



Horsey hi sweety! How are you? Miss u!



Laura umm still thinkin boy your craving of breakfast reminds me of liam. I craved salty foods (not a fan of usually) your scans approaching soon right? Next week?? I cant recall date im sorry. Im excited for you!

Jessica as I said befor your levels are rising great! Praying they are much higher now and all is well. Ur fear is perfectly normal. Cramping is normal to an extent also. As I have cramping still. If it makes me severe pain then id go to er. Praying for great news on your bloodwork! This lo must stay. You been thru sooo much trama its so hard to think this one wont be ok but rest assure u can have a beautiful healthy baby sweety!!!! Everyone here deserves to and I wont stop praying til it happens.

Atm no house is a mess laundry isnt done I bought paper plates bowls plastic forks spoons knifes and cups.,he wont use em. stuff is piled all over. My husband is lazy no help at all. All well cant do anything feeling way I do. I hate messes too and smells bother me badly (entire house but bathroom spare rooms and bedroom is gross) so I hangout in bedroom.

I ended up getting iv fluids helpped they gave me antinausea med too. I go for quad screen tom I cant help it im very scared. I know im in my 11wk and I cant help but think bad news is coming. These losses scar us.. I dont know I feel as if I can lose liam so far into my pregnancy how can this be dif. I am not sure if I told u ladies I told my boss im pregnant and what happened. one thing I dont want is stress havent had any yet except with my obgyn and hospitsl sending stuff to wrong lab and me being stuck to flick the bill. I am fighting tooth n nail its not my fault they didnt use my lab. Ugh im tired of aetna and my doctors being lazy!!! I am the one stressed in the end. Anyways I go to see new obgyn and hospital tom about switching possibly. I think I have to at this point though.. This past mon threw me over the edge. I keep thinking my baby wont have a heartbeat tom that somethings wrong. I have to stop be positive. Think my baby is fine. Its so hard to when u are at the point things started to go down hill last time. Baby is smaller though this time so I knoe my true anwsers wont get said yet.... Still scares me.

 

[lilesMom]

jen my fear is creeping back a little too when i think of my scan and then i just try to remind myself that im stil sicky at times and tired so its a good sign too long between scans isnt good. xxx
my sacn is thurs week chick, not too long but seems really long at same time , iykwim.
all we can do is try ad focus on bright side, we r preg again which we wanted for so long and we have the best chance of healthy LO, we deserve it and am hoping we both get what we deserve like al the ladies here, im looking forward to a yr r so when we all have our Los and we r comparing notes on their behaviour xxxxxxxxx
yeah is still think im having a boy too, part of me would love a girl like lile but i would be so happy to get either
thank god u got fluids and med to help hon, u sound like u had it really bad xxxx
my OH is abit of a mess monster too i claened d house before he got up this morn and its messy again i often wait till mon to clean cos he is off weekend and it can be pointless cleaning unless he is at work
yeah i hear ya on the smells though, i think ive turned into a sniffer dog
im gettin smells from the next room and all
my car had a slight pong to it to me now and no one else can get the smell at all
i have envelopes that i think the glue on them smells like someone has been sick on um
they actually make me feel really sick
have u told ur Dh how sick the smells amke u, i guess u have but it didnt work, men !!!!
show him or tell him about me amd my nose so he knows its a real thing for us.
sometimes OH thinks im making up preg symptoms cos some of the symptoms r kinda bizarre xxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy thinking of u all the time honey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

angel r u ok, its unlike u to not be here, xxx
hope its just a nice weekend for u xxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi ladies, just checking up on all of you. Amy, hope this ordeal is over for you sooner than later, so you can start to focus on your next healthy lo. Sending positive thoughts for you hon.

Jen, so glad you got the IV, it must have helped a lot. And for all the bs you are dealing with the hospitals, labs and health care provider. I wish I could just tell all of them off for you. I hope you lo is growing perfectly and is nice and healthy hon.

Natasha, your getting close to baby making time!! yay!! And everything is going better with dh. He sounds like a sweetheart. No more arguing not healthy for bd time. You need some nice passionate love making, I hear its better to make babies. Sending you lots of love Tash!

Angel, thanks for thinking about me. I am a bit nervous about tomorrow, just trying to stay positive though. I know feeling like this will get me nowhere.
Hope you had fun last night with hubby and good wine. Oh how I love a nice glass of wine.. If things go well, hopefully I won't need to have any wine for the next 7 to 8 months!

Laura, I understand you worry, it is perfectly natural, when or is I get to the point your at, I am sure I will be feeling the same. FX your lo is perfectly healthy. And good news about the morning sickness subsiding.

AFM. Took my blood test today for hcg levels, so I get results tomorrow and hopefully my ob can see me, and do a scan. I feel better today other than my back hurting, but that is getting better too.

Love you all. !! to all!!