ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

i have a naive question... ive googled it but im not too sure, i dont want to mess my body about but at the same time i do lol.. with me thinking this cycle is going to anovulatory.... i was thinking about waiting until im on cd30.. which is way past normal for me for ovulation, and i was reading about how people take soy isoflavones to speed up ovulation? would it be worth me doing this to kind of bring on ovulation ? So at least i know when af is going to show up and just count this cycle out?? what are your opinions xxx

 

[Storked]

Angel, I have kind of sort of used OPKs but not really hehe. I have just been BD every day until the hubby leaves tomorrow
As for Mayan calendar...I reckon they just got lazy by the time they reached that point

Natasha, it is totally unfair in regards to your cousin
Oh I would do the soy isoflavones on your period. You just take them for a few days during your period. I did during my first few cycles after the loss to normalize but haven't since. And some girls on here swear that it actually delayed ovulation for them :-/

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thats what i mean, i dont want to EFF my body up any more i dont wanna play about with it but i need AF before christmas not during, the last thing i need on top of this bad mood is pms over christmas ! xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[Storked]

Natasha, I wouldn't take the soy any other time except for those first cycle days. It will probably do more damage than good :-/

Angel, I have no idea when to BD. it made my head hurt hehe.
DH is leaving tomorrow for south Texas and has no idea when he'll be back. Hopefully soon because I have some markets I want us to go to!
What did Dr. Google say?

Last night for me to get it on! DH also told me that if he doesn't build up experience for Thailand fast enough that we may be here in Houston for TWO years instead of one. Gah I hope not. If him being gone a lot means more experience then I can learn to be solo for as long as it takes!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

Bethany so good to have you back!! Sorry DH has to go for experience and be away. I really hope it goes fast for you and that you enjoy the time you have together!! You are so positive!!! As for gaming chair good steal!! Love how kitty claimed his old one! I love seeing your kitty pics on fb!!

Angel Great steals!! So glad you finally got your +opk!! and Fxd this is your month!

Natasha im so so sorry about your sister It feels like only yesterday you where telling us about her and her situation and she is already pregnant. The way she is talking about hiding it for 12weeks because she knows a loss is possible sounds suspicious. Thats just me though Just think your healthy LO WILL come and you will be an amazing mom and be able to provide for YOUR own child and not depend on the state or anyone for help. This guy will not leave his wife for her but it may cause a divorce if she is She is tearing a family apart intentional and god will not let that go unpunished. On both their behalf it was a sin and wrong but please dont beat yourself up over it sweety. We love you and are here for you anytime you need us!

Amy Hi!! So glad the bleeding stopped! Heres to a fast AF and good doctors to get you a healthy sticky bean quickly!!!

Jess I hope your doing well with your LO and your DD is doing okay with your DH teaching her

Laura how are you?? Sounds like your doing good and feeling positive about possibly starting back at work part-time. Fixed that things go well for you there. How is your LO being for you?

I cant remember who I missed.... Its really late here and this thanksgiving was very crazy since I cant be on my feet really. My husband decorated the house exactly as I asked him to for Christmas. He did wonderful. We got into a HUGE HUGE fight on thanksgiving but after a long long night of crying and listening to him opening up we BDed and made up. It was really upsetting but after everything we been going thru and are going thru it was probably very much needed... Tomorrow I work 4hrs against doctors orders... Weds 8hr day... and fri 4 hr day We really really need the money but we are worried about the baby and pressure on cervix. Dec 3 I can see the high risk doctor. I called the insurance company seems like they will not cover the procedure atm The surgery is not life threatening for me so they will not do the procedure without payment up front. Next monday feels so far away to discuss options. For now my feet are up im sleeping alot bored and had family visit and my dh cleaned and decorated the house (since his fam came over he deemed it necessary) Bonus for me. Reallly not much going on here.

I am really hoping for more BFP miracles soon that stick

 

[Storked]

Jen, what have I missed?! *Do you need surgery for an incompetent cervix? BIG PRAYERS!

Angel, get busy! Never TMI when TTC
I have no idea how long DH will be gone on this trip but because it is within US they should keep him away months. But if he is working on something overseas, it could be months.
The markets are international ones. Asian, Middle Eastern and Russian. Hoping to score all kinds of goodies for my family

I am in a pretty good mood guys. I wish you all the same

 

[jen435]

Angel bd asap. Ovulation could be happening now!!! 12 hrs afterfirst bd too cant hurt then bd next 2-3 days start if possible


Yes bethany :,(

 

[Storked]

Jen! I had no idea honey. Keep on your back as much as you can. I love you honey!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

Angel, i dont know what is happening.. ive had 5 days of ewcm, and another abundance of it today.. ive never had ewcm before and now i think ive got my lifetimes worth all in one cycle xxx

thats a good sign hon, when i get it, which i do every cycle i always get a few days of it, it never just lasts a day r anything. bd every second day while u have it and no matter then when u do actually Ov u will have spermies to catch it , xxxxxxx
keep it up for few days after as well just inc ase xxx
hoep this is ur month honey, xxxx
i totally understand why u r angry babe but anger only harms u , not her.
try ur best to ignore her and calm urself, hard i know but will be much better for u xxxxxxxx she will soon learn the error of her ways when she gets no sleep and has full looking after bub responsiblities on her own xxxx
let karma take care of her xxxxxxx
xxx

 

[lilesMom]

I cannot believe I am drawing a blank on the answer to this with a +ve OPK this morning, what is the best time to BD tomorrow? (We've taken care of yesterday and today)

(You have the luxury of reading this at your own pace, note it was written will rambling-like intentions) I know I am over thinking this..egg releases 24-36 hours after a +ve OPK. With the prospect of Oing 24 hours after a +ve, wouldn't it stand to reason that we should BD in the morning? Or do I give the eggy a jump start and send the in the afternoon? IF I lean toward the 36th hour of the egg being released shouldn't I wait for the afternoon or would that be evening...do you now see how I am over thinking this? I need Dr Google.

ur covered sweetie dont worry xxxx
Bd before realease of egg is more important, it gives sperm a chance to be up there waiting for the egg so less chance of missing it. xxxx
might be to late t say but if u could bd both i would , if not id favour morning but only just because bd at all that day and days before gives u d best chance hon xxxxxxxxxxxx fx xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hi bethany, sorry dh is goin away for awhile, we wil keep u company xxxxxx
glad u r in good form hon xxxxx

jen sorry u have to work and sorry about insurance, hope it all gets better for u soon, xxxxxxx
hows ur sickness? xx
mine is much better since sat, hope it lasts xxx

amy , hope ur ok sweetie, u have gone quiet, xxxxxx
love and xxxxxxxxxxxx

hi to all
and to all xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi ladies... hope everyone had a great weekend.

Im doing ok.. bleeding stopped for about 3 days and now Im spotting (I think). Its kind of wierd and I dont know if I can even call it spotting but when I wipe I have cm with a SLIGHT tint of light brownish stuff. Im thinking its residue from the mc but still very strange. I did get bloodwork done on sat so I just left a message for my nurse to call me back with those results.

We had my bff and her now husband. Found out that they got married two months ago and didnt tell anyone. I wasnt too happy about but thought as long as she's happy all is well. LONG story short, come to find out this guy tells stories about his life as a marine and how he has PTSD and he witnessed his friends get killed and its all a LIE. I dont think she knows who she married . My hubby is a vet and they went to get pizzas on wed night and dh told me that this guy was telling him things about his time in the marines and it didnt add up. DH did some research and this guy is a crook. Now we are just trying to figure out how to tell her because I cant not say anything. DH told me to prepare to lose my bff I dont want that to happen but I wouldnt be able to live with myself if I didnt say anything to her. I have never been around this kind of drama or anything so this is all new to me. After they left on sat morning and we found out all of this stuff late sat night, we changed all of our locks on the house and sighed up for a secutity system. This is the last thing I need...

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

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[mommylov]

Holy mackerel Amy! What an odd position this guy had put you and your BFF in! Have you hinted around yet that things with him don't add up? I would be in shock and certainly would have to tell her. A good friend is going to listen to you...she might get mad for a bit, but eventually she'll come back around.

As for your spotting...I did that too. It was so annoying not knowing what was going on. It was my understanding that once the HCG drops back to 0, then spotting is normal. Hope that helps. Hurry up nurse and call us back!

Thanks! I figured as much regarding the spotting so Im not going to worry too much about it.. just want to be back to ttc again.
DH and I were actually getting a bit annoyed with him and I think she could sense that. She did give a bit of "tude" that day but whatever. We didnt know any of the things we found out about him until after they left. I know that I have to tell her and will once we get all the facts straight. I just keep thinking this is something that you see on TV. Never would I have ever thought I would witness something like this is real life. Funny thing is she is glued to the ID channel and I think there is some show called "Who did I marry?" or something like that. Watching all of this you would think she would see all the red flags but I guess not.

On a side note.. just saw that you got your +OPK.. yay!!!!! Catch that eggy!!!

Despite all of this drama this past weekend, I was thinking of you all ~

Bethany, so glad to see you back and hope that DH doesnt have to leave for too long but if he does then hope he gets the xp he needs.

Laura, so glad your scan went well and you and LO are doing well.

Jess, where are you?? Any updates??

Horsey, did you O?

Tash, lots of love to you! Hope you catch your eggy too!!

Jen, so sorry about the ins not wanting to cover your surgery.. grr ins companies! I hate that you are having to work against drs orders too..

Sorry if I missed anyone... hugs to everyone!

 

[xoxo4angel]