TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Fergie89]

i still havent had my period yet ,, how soon after a miscarriage should this come? i had a natural miscarriage & was quite early on in the pregnancy ...X

 

[Vickieh1981]

Thanks again girls

Vickie you probably felt so bad because it was a sudden loss of blood etc so your iron dropped quite quickly whereas mine is a gradual thing so your body gets use to it really, apart from tiredness, breathlessness walking up stairs etc and being really pale I am fine. They dont know why I am so anaemic, it happened Feb 09 as well (got as low as 3.4 then), so I am now under the haematologist, she said something about being two cells when there should be one, so had more tests and am back on the 17th. I hope everything is going well with you?

Megg I am so glad it looks like you have some answers

Yeah maybe that's what it was. Plus emotionally I was still in shock at being told she had died.

hi everyone ...i'm new to this site & thought id give it a bash

I miscarried on the 5th July This year ,,, & was wondering , is it true what they say that you ARE more fertile after a miscarriage ? i know they say to wait at least one cycle ,, but this is only for there own benefit ...thanks ..X

Sorry that you have cause to have to be on this thread. I hope you get a speedy bfp. I fell the month after my early loss with Isabella.

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[Fergie89]

that does give me hope when i hear of ppl falling pregnant so quick again Thank You ...X

 

[Tasha]

Am I alone in feeling like I cant reply to people for fear of worrying/upsetting them? Even to you girls, like just then I tried to reply to Fergie that I have fallen quickly three times after my losses, once first month trying after we loss Honey and now we have her sister, miscarried in Feb this year got pregnant in the May (so two months trying), miscarried in the June and that first cycle we got pregnant again but am now waiting to miscarry again. I just dont want to scare any of you that one miscarry means multiple or that if you get pregnant again quickly it is going to result in another loss, does that even make sense? I read every single post on here but dont really reply because of this.

 

[Tulip]

I know what you mean Tasha I feel like that on the main boards sometimes... But in ttcal we should feel able to be open. I'm sure that although positives would male Fergie feel good, we all like to hear both sides and all posibilities. I'm so sorry you're still in limbo darling xxx

 

[Fergie89]

Am I alone in feeling like I cant reply to people for fear of worrying/upsetting them? Even to you girls, like just then I tried to reply to Fergie that I have fallen quickly three times after my losses, once first month trying after we loss Honey and now we have her sister, miscarried in Feb this year got pregnant in the May (so two months trying), miscarried in the June and that first cycle we got pregnant again but am now waiting to miscarry again. I just dont want to scare any of you that one miscarry means multiple or that if you get pregnant again quickly it is going to result in another loss, does that even make sense? I read every single post on here but dont really reply because of this.

OMG ...iv been through one ,, and cant even begin to imagine what that must have been like for you my thoughts are with you at this hard time it is just the most awful thing for anyone to go through... If you dont mind me asking , did u have natural miscarriages or did you have to get D&C ? xoxox

 

[Tasha]

Thank you Tulip

Fergie thank you for your thoughts, I am so sorry for your loss All six of my miscarriages have been natural, but we are unsure what will happen with this one, I have been booked in for a d&c twice now and for various reasons it hasnt happened, so it is just a wait and see thing right now.

 

[VGibs]

that does give me hope when i hear of ppl falling pregnant so quick again Thank You ...X

I got pregnant two weeks after my MC and am almost at 15 weeks now and everything looks fine for us. So it can happen really really quick!

 

[Fergie89]

aww tasha its the not knowing that really eats away at you Chin up Mrs

VGibs ,,so u fell pregnant before AF ? ..X

 

[debgreasby]

Tasha , coz i don't know what else to say!!

I'm watching I didn't know i was pregnant ... i was thinking at first, how nice, not to have all this stress and worry, just one day oh look you're having a baby ..... but OMG these stories are soooo scary!

I have already cried 3 times and it's only been on half an hour lol

 

[Fergie89]

that does give me hope when i hear of ppl falling pregnant so quick again Thank You ...X

I got pregnant two weeks after my MC and am almost at 15 weeks now and everything looks fine for us. So it can happen really really quick!

forgot to say ...CONGRATS! lol..xoxoxoxox

 

[impatient1]

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Congrats on the

Sorry for your loss Fergie

Meggs I am so glad you finally got some answers and I agree with what someone else said, you should become a fertility specialist as you know so much already. I think it would be something you would enjoy.

to everyone!

 

[roonsma]

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Congrats! x

 

[Megg33k]

Thank you so much girls!!!!!

Meggs, I MC once April 25th @ 8wks.....Fergie, overall we've been trying since January.

I'm really happy! But until I get blood work that says this little bean is okay and will be for April 18th, I'm still going to worry....

Gotcha added! Also added you to the "Chart Stalkers" graduates section. Hope you don't mind me telling you both in one post! LOL Congrats again, love!

Congrats again Dietrad!

Hey Megg, am I on the list? I can't remember lol

You weren't!!! I'm sorry! You are now!

 

[Megg33k]

Am I alone in feeling like I cant reply to people for fear of worrying/upsetting them? Even to you girls, like just then I tried to reply to Fergie that I have fallen quickly three times after my losses, once first month trying after we loss Honey and now we have her sister, miscarried in Feb this year got pregnant in the May (so two months trying), miscarried in the June and that first cycle we got pregnant again but am now waiting to miscarry again. I just dont want to scare any of you that one miscarry means multiple or that if you get pregnant again quickly it is going to result in another loss, does that even make sense? I read every single post on here but dont really reply because of this.

Oh, sweetie! I know what you mean! I feel that way when I post in the Soy thread. I tell people that I got 2 BFP's from it... and they get all excited... but then I have to say that I lost both and go on to explain that it wasn't due to the Soy. I don't know how to tell people of my successes without scaring them! But, I think its always good to hear other people's stories! Don't be afraid to post... ever! Especially not in one of my threads! I give you permission to say whatever you like. Everyone HAS TO realize that your pregnancies and theirs are separate things and one outcome doesn't determine the next! One of my dear friends on here lost 4 in a row, but has just entered 2nd tri now. She knew she'd lose this one, but she hasn't! The past does NOT determine the future... I'd stop trying all together if it did!

Tasha , coz i don't know what else to say!!

I'm watching I didn't know i was pregnant ... i was thinking at first, how nice, not to have all this stress and worry, just one day oh look you're having a baby ..... but OMG these stories are soooo scary!

I have already cried 3 times and it's only been on half an hour lol

It really is scary! I think it would be nice in one sense, but terrifying in another! I also think they should rename it "Who Needs Prenatal Care Anyway?" You'd think they'd show one or two cases where the lack of care harmed the baby? But no!

I'm !!!!!!!

Congrats on the

Sorry for your loss Fergie

Meggs I am so glad you finally got some answers and I agree with what someone else said, you should become a fertility specialist as you know so much already. I think it would be something you would enjoy.

to everyone!

Thanks, honey! I really do think I'd enjoy it. I just don't know how to even think of starting! Plus, I'm almost 30! A little late to choose a career that involves a PhD, isn't it?

 

[Tigerlilies]

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Okay, I got DH to link it for me. https://www.picvalley.net/u/2470/6329885568955056112810489591rhjciHB7vZVmf0e3JZb.JPG

 

[Tigerlilies]

i still havent had my period yet ,, how soon after a miscarriage should this come? i had a natural miscarriage & was quite early on in the pregnancy ...X

for Fergie
It varies, perhaps as soon as two weeks since it was an early MC, but six weeks isn't uncommon.

 

[Tigerlilies]

Am I alone in feeling like I cant reply to people for fear of worrying/upsetting them? Even to you girls, like just then I tried to reply to Fergie that I have fallen quickly three times after my losses, once first month trying after we loss Honey and now we have her sister, miscarried in Feb this year got pregnant in the May (so two months trying), miscarried in the June and that first cycle we got pregnant again but am now waiting to miscarry again. I just dont want to scare any of you that one miscarry means multiple or that if you get pregnant again quickly it is going to result in another loss, does that even make sense? I read every single post on here but dont really reply because of this.

I'm so sorry Tasha, it's so heart breaking to read that any one person should go through so much! Keep faith, even if you feel hesitant about posting something, remember, we're all here for you, and if you need to get something out, do it, just do it, it's okay.

I'm constantly thinking about if my next pregnancy will be carried through, if it's going to be okay this time, can I handle losing my baby later in my term or early in birth? It's a reality that can happen and I bet you it's something every single woman on this thread thinks regardless of it being one loss or multiple losses.

My prayers go out to every single woman on this site daily.

 

[Megg33k]

Fantastic digi!

 

[Lucy1973]

Dietrad, I am praying your little one will go all the way....it is stressful to be pregnant after a miscarriage, but try and relax as much as poss...