TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[impatient1]

I think it was Vickie who asked but not sure, I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant is on TLC.

Vickie - great scan picture! You could continue telling people the same date as you have already been given. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to have the same due date but maybe it is something happy that is supposed to happen on that day.

Meggs it is never to late to do something you enjoy, if it is something you are interested in and think you would enjoy go for it.

I feel bad when talking to other people about pregnancy and talking about symptoms I had before because I feel like they are just thinking... well hers ended in misscarriage so that must not be normal then.

 

[Megg33k]

I think we all feel that way, impatient... Feels odd calling you that. Never noticed before! LOL Anyway... I think we all feel like telling someone about OUR experiences with pregnancies that ended in loss is going to scare them. But, in the same respect, its not fair to deny ourselves the opportunity to discuss our pregnancies, even if short lived. I don't want to discount what I felt during it... because it was an experience... and they will always be my 1st and 2nd pregnancies. Our lost beans still deserve the right to be talked of and have our time with them reflected upon.

I feel like all I've done today is cry. I think its a good thing though.

 

[Fergie89]

Tasha - It does pour, sweetheart! Always!

Vickie - Our tests much run a lot faster! I imagine its tricky to think of your EDD being Isabella's birthday! But I'm sure she's looking out for this little one and perhaps its her gift to you on such a hard day.

bbhopes - You did it just fine, honey! I'll add you! I'm sorry for your losses though!

Fergie - Yep! Very normal! I have a thread called "TTCAL Chart Stalkers Anonymous Meeting"... There's a ton of fab ladies who've been temping for ages in there. And, I can link to your chart on the first page for opinions as your cycle progresses... if you like!

Pheww! lol... i thought that was high :L ... Oh is there .. i never even saw it ... yeh that would be great! thanks ...xoxoxox

If you can just post a link to your chart in there, I'll get it all taken care of! And, no... That's no too high. Mine used to run about that pre-O... now it runs closer to 36.4.

how do i post a link ? lol..X

 

[impatient1]

So Megg when are you going back to school? I want to wish you luck on your applications hehehe

You are right they definately deserve to be talked about, I think the best thing I did was got a tattoo for my angel. Not only did it help my grieving it also gave me something real to remember, iykwim.

 

[Megg33k]

Tasha - It does pour, sweetheart! Always!

Vickie - Our tests much run a lot faster! I imagine its tricky to think of your EDD being Isabella's birthday! But I'm sure she's looking out for this little one and perhaps its her gift to you on such a hard day.

bbhopes - You did it just fine, honey! I'll add you! I'm sorry for your losses though!

Fergie - Yep! Very normal! I have a thread called "TTCAL Chart Stalkers Anonymous Meeting"... There's a ton of fab ladies who've been temping for ages in there. And, I can link to your chart on the first page for opinions as your cycle progresses... if you like!

Pheww! lol... i thought that was high :L ... Oh is there .. i never even saw it ... yeh that would be great! thanks ...xoxoxox

If you can just post a link to your chart in there, I'll get it all taken care of! And, no... That's no too high. Mine used to run about that pre-O... now it runs closer to 36.4.

how do i post a link ? lol..X

Are you using Fertility Friend? If so, go to "sharing" then "homepage setup" and there will be a url at the top of the page.... something like https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/SomeRandomLetters&NumbersHere

Well... That's the link to it!

So Megg when are you going back to school? I want to wish you luck on your applications hehehe

You are right they definately deserve to be talked about, I think the best thing I did was got a tattoo for my angel. Not only did it help my grieving it also gave me something real to remember, iykwim.

I love the memorial tattoos... I haven't plucked up the courage for that yet! LOL Not sure when I'll start back to school! I'll have to look into it more!

 

[Fergie89]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/homepage_module.php

im not sure if thats it or not lol.X

 

[Fergie89]

ACTUALLY

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/30649c

^^ that probably is it ..X

 

[Fergie89]

ACTUALLY

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/30649c

^^ that probably is it ..X

is there an easier website than that one to use? im finding that all quite confusing tbh .....X

 

[Tigerlilies]

Fergie, you don't want to copy the address freom the web browser, after you log into FF, click on 'Home Page Settings' on the left hand side, then click on 'Getting Sharing Codes/Buttons' in the middle, you can copy HTML code shown and paste that to your signiture which you'll find when you click on 'User CP' at the left top of BnB.

 

[Megg33k]

Nope, FF is the easiest! That 2nd link is correct, but your chart isn't showing... I'm confused!

 

[Fergie89]

i amconfused lol..iv not gt a clue what im s'pose 2 be doing on it :L..X

 

[Vickieh1981]

Tasha - It does pour, sweetheart! Always!

Vickie - Our tests much run a lot faster! I imagine its tricky to think of your EDD being Isabella's birthday! But I'm sure she's looking out for this little one and perhaps its her gift to you on such a hard day.

bbhopes - You did it just fine, honey! I'll add you! I'm sorry for your losses though!

Fergie - Yep! Very normal! I have a thread called "TTCAL Chart Stalkers Anonymous Meeting"... There's a ton of fab ladies who've been temping for ages in there. And, I can link to your chart on the first page for opinions as your cycle progresses... if you like!

I was already expecting the due date to be the day they told us she had died but don't really like it being on her actual birthday even though baby will likely come earlier.

I think it was Vickie who asked but not sure, I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant is on TLC.

Vickie - great scan picture! You could continue telling people the same date as you have already been given. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to have the same due date but maybe it is something happy that is supposed to happen on that day.

Meggs it is never to late to do something you enjoy, if it is something you are interested in and think you would enjoy go for it.

I feel bad when talking to other people about pregnancy and talking about symptoms I had before because I feel like they are just thinking... well hers ended in misscarriage so that must not be normal then.

I am not sure I have that channel.

I will try and stick with my due date.

Vicki, that is a great scan! Is two days really that big of deal developmentally or do they just keep mentioning it for the due date? Regardless of what the predicted due date is, it doesn't mean this little baby will born on Isabella's due date so try not to think about it to much, you could always tell other ppl another date, it really doesn't matter until that baby is ready to come out.

No it's not a big deal. They didn't mention it but it just says the gestation on the scan report.

Oh Megg It is so unfair, but you know sometimes it is better to find these things because it 'allows' us to cry and crying is a good thing. That is fab news about the tests.

Deb I love that sort of programme, never seen that one though. I didnt know about Honey until I was over 20 weeks pregnant, I know not as far those girls but still far enough and the guilt I felt was huge even though I dont drink, smoke or take medicines apart from paracetamol I was still wondering if I would of done anything to adversely affect her and then my waters went at 28 weeks so I thought it must of been something I did, and then when she was born sleeping at 36+6 the guilt was there too, even though I knew it was medical negligence.

dietrad congratulations, that is fab

Vickie I am glad I am not alone in feeling like that. Have you asked them about your tests? My original ones done after Honey were back in a few weeks, when I got pregnant with Kaysie the doctor wanted to do his own tests (we moved hospitals) and within a week they were back saying I have Factor V Leiden.

Thank you for the support girls, you are right about people separating my losses to there's. I think it is cos I know TTCAL and PAL is so scary any way and then I keep reading things round the forum and people refer to my sort of story as a 'horror' story. Plus I just think I am extra sensitive right now, in the past three weeks my aunt has died, waiting for this miscarriage, been having blood transfusions cos of my iron and then yesterday solicitor rang to say another report into Honey's case say she could and should be here if we were cared for right. Never rain's but it pours right? LOL.

Did they admit liability for Honeys death? My friend lost her daughter at nearly 10 months due to medical negligence and it took years to settle.

They said when they took them that it would take 8 weeks for the results. Its 8 weeks in mid August so I am going to start chasing them as the appt they gave me was 24th September and if there is something I will need more than just the aspirin that I am on.


I am back from my scan. All looked absolutely great. The guy who did the scan is lovely (he was the one who told me Jessica was a girl at my 20 week scan). He said that a bleed that looks big next to a tiny 6 week embryo doesn;t look very big next to a 9 week embryo.

I said that I get terrified before each scan and he said they could cure that by not scanning me anymore lol. Unfortunately that wouldn't change anything if things had gone wrong

Next scan is booked for the 24th August as I couldn't do exactly 2 weeks as I am away.

That means I need to change my 12 week scan to 13 weeks otherwise there will only be a week between the two.

Baby is measuring 2 days behind still as it has been all along but they date you at the 12 week scan. If it's still 2 days behind then they will change my due date to Isabellas birthday. I'm not sure how I feel about that.

Anyway one gorgeous little baby (he said another one hasn't popped up lol) and it is measuring 2.2cm head to bum.
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I'd like to make the first official gender guess! If your scan was external (over the tummy) then girl... If it was internal (transvag) then boy!

Why the difference between the two? lol. It was an external scan, I was nearly wetting myself before lol

 

[Fergie89]

Can any of you guys help me out here ,, i am LOST lol... and no good ith charting things ,, my first day of my last period was 2nd May ( had miscarriage on the 5th July ) .... & they last for abt 4-5 days , could anyone tell what my fertile days would be , based on that info ?..X To Every one! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

 

[MissMaternal]

Can i CAUTIOUSLY take spot #102...?? Got my this morning
Am praying it's sticky.... to everyone xx

 

[selina3127]

fergie how long are your cycles (from the first day of your period to the day your next period starts?) xxx

 

[Fergie89]

fergie how long are your cycles (from the first day of your period to the day your next period starts?) xxx

28-29 xoxox

 

[impatient1]

Can i CAUTIOUSLY take spot #102...?? Got my this morning
Am praying it's sticky.... to everyone xx

Congratulations! Stick baby stick!

 

[Fergie89]

fergie how long are your cycles (from the first day of your period to the day your next period starts?) xxx

28-29 xoxox

Congratulations !


xoxoxoxoxox

 

[svetayasofiya]

WOW congratulations to all the new BFP's!!!!

 

[SunShyn2205]

Congrats MissMaternal!!