TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Lucy1973]

Thank goodness Amos, very happy to hear it!

 

[reversal]

congratulations lindyloo hope you have a healthy happy 9 months

 

[foxforce]

Amos my god hun fantastic loads of love xx

Well my own news..

I have ben accepted on a trial to look at NK cells by Prof Siobhan Quenby and they got me in tomorrow to take a sample of my endometriem now the problem.

I received the letter at 2 DPO but it says use barrier methods the month befpre as it has a very slight chance of causing a mc.

Well I am 9dpo and mid afternoon did a clear blue (not a digi) guess what ladies?

Yup thats it a BFP. Never got one this early I think I implanted about 6 DPO no spotting.


But what do I do i want the test to make sure I don't need the steroids. But what happens if this is my time and this does cause a MC?

I feel so guilty its mine and my OH 4 year anniversary this weekend WTF do i do?

Congrats Lindyloo and Lawla Wish you both happy and healthy 9 month and lots of sticky baby dust

Lawla see you dr like said earlier and discuss with u and your OH

Take care x

 

[roonsma]

Amos my god hun fantastic loads of love xx

Well my own news..

I have ben accepted on a trial to look at NK cells by Prof Siobhan Quenby and they got me in tomorrow to take a sample of my endometriem now the problem.

I received the letter at 2 DPO but it says use barrier methods the month befpre as it has a very slight chance of causing a mc.

Well I am 9dpo and mid afternoon did a clear blue (not a digi) guess what ladies?

Yup thats it a BFP. Never got one this early I think I implanted about 6 DPO no spotting.


But what do I do i want the test to make sure I don't need the steroids. But what happens if this is my time and this does cause a MC?

I feel so guilty its mine and my OH 4 year anniversary this weekend WTF do i do?

I'd speak it through with them Lawa, I'm sure there is a way round it! Would it do harm for you to have the steriods anyway? I dunno hun but the best of luck to you xx

 

[Lawa]

HUn I dont know if they would because it is a trial!

Oh well only got to wait untill tomorrow afternoon.

 

[CJSG1977]

Hello Ladies,

Hope you dont mind me joining your thread. I m/c number 6 on sunday I always m/c at between 5 and 6 weeks. My doc is useless! My last test showen low progesterone and negligable hcg (m/c likely started already) But I had positive hpt for days after. The doc refused to help me because my pregnancy was unconfirmed! And left me to miscarry! I am now on a waiting list to go back to the specialist. This month I am trying preseed, OPK's and continuing evening primsrose and folic acid. I also have just bought some progesterone cream to use between ov and time of af. I have to try something cause I'm not getting help anywhere else.

I am still reading through stories on this thread, but condolences and cograts to those who have gone through this battle. Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly welcomed. and

 

[reversal]

so sorry for all your losses hope you get a bpf and a healthy baby or babies

 

[Amos2009]

OMG Lawa! Congratulations!!! I will be thinking about you tomorrow and fingers crossed for you!

Lindyloo- so sorry for your loss, but congratulations on your BFP!!

CJS- Have you had any testing done at all? I can't believe you have had that many losses and no one is helping? I had 5 mc's and I am now pregnant and am on baby aspirin, progesterone and neevo. No one test told me I needed to be on that, but SO FAR it might be the trick

 

[Megg33k]

OMG! Lawa! I wish I had an answer about the trial! I'm sure they'll know best!

I can't believe you haven't been treated more adequately, CJSG! Amos makes good sense!

 

[Amos2009]

Aww thanks sis! Now- has your work gotten any better????

 

[Megg33k]

Aww thanks sis! Now- has your work gotten any better????

It HAS! In fact, they cancelled the rest of my training and put me to work! I trained for... uhm... 10 hours? LOL

How's yours??? How's my niece/nephew?

 

[Amos2009]

Can you say information overload????? I am exhausted by the time I get home. Not sure if it's because I'm not used to working anymore since I've been unemployed for 7 months, or if it's baby related! I bleed heavy every morning, but by lunch it has stopped. Who knows what's going on in there!!!

 

[Megg33k]

Can you say information overload????? I am exhausted by the time I get home. Not sure if it's because I'm not used to working anymore since I've been unemployed for 7 months, or if it's baby related! I bleed heavy every morning, but by lunch it has stopped. Who knows what's going on in there!!!

Probably both baby related and not used to working! That child of yours... already giving you hell! LOL Every morning? That's bizarre! I wonder why!!!

 

[CJSG1977]

OMG Lawa! Congratulations!!! I will be thinking about you tomorrow and fingers crossed for you!

Lindyloo- so sorry for your loss, but congratulations on your BFP!!

CJS- Have you had any testing done at all? I can't believe you have had that many losses and no one is helping? I had 5 mc's and I am now pregnant and am on baby aspirin, progesterone and neevo. No one test told me I needed to be on that, but SO FAR it might be the trick

I have been tested for blood clotting diseases and had my chromosomes (and the dh's) and we both came back perfect. They know I ovulate and they know I can conceive so no testing required there. The first time I had my progesterone tested was when I was 4 and a half weeks pregnant and it was 42. The norm in 1st half of a cycle is up to 1.5. In luteal phase it goes up to 5.5. If you become pregnant they say between 10 and 15 in the following few weeks is good. But because my hcg had already dropped, when I had my progesterone back they already decided that my pregnancy was not viable and just left me to miscarry. I want to change gp's but I have just been referred back to FS and I dont want to lose that and have to start all over again...

Five m/c's too!!! So has the doc determined what is wrong or you going it alone?? I'm so sorry for your losses hun.

 

[puppymom32]

Amos no fears I said my sis did that all through out her pregnancy and I have a beautiful little niece to show for it. All will be well.

Megg Yay for work being better its cuz u r so smart and just that darn good.

 

[Lawa]

Hey ladies well me and the OH have decided to go ahead with the test anyway.

after doing some research the chance of the procedure causing a miscarriage is about 1%

But as some of you no my history isnt great anyway so we feel this is something we are prepared to risk to know the truth.

This is the last test I can have to see if anything is wron and if we miss this chance and I do MC anyway without the test we will be another 3 months down the line.

I know some people may see me being selfish but I am really not I am doing this fo all the right reasons I hope you see this!

Appointment is at 2pm this afternoon!

 

[Tulip]

I see it honey and frankly with your history I'm sure I'd do exactly the same. Best of luck to you (and hold on tight, little bean!) xx

 

[VGibs]

Grrrr my babygaga ticker isn't working! I wait all week for that thing to turn over!

 

[sequeena]

I am out Going to the doctors on Monday, wish me luck xxx

 

[zippy4]

Just wondering if you could add me to the list. I have had 2 miscarriages, one in June 2010 at 9 weeks and one i August 2010 at 5 weeks.

Think this thread is a great idea xx