TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Fairybabe]

Hi Nicole,
Sorry for your loss. Sending you some hugs. And welcome to the thread. Lots of support on here!
Fairybabe xx

 

[sequeena]

hello please add me

i lost my child on the 12th of June gave birth to a baby girl and she died an hour later 26 weeks and a half preg im trying for a baby for Stepemeber i cant spell sorry

Don't worry about your spelling. So sorry for your loss Hope your stay here is short and sweet x

 

[MissMaternal]

BizyBee That's brilliant news!! I am so so pleased for you, after everything you've been through! Hope your levels are rising hun xx

 

[reversal]

sorry lawa hope this month is your month for a sticky bean

sorry for your loss nicole

I had my first day back at work after 3 weeks and it wasn't as bad as I thought everyone was very tactfull and i'm so pleased its another step to getting back to normal.
hope you's have all had a good day

 

[BizyBee]

Thanks girls.

Welcome Nicole. Sorry for your loss. xx

Reversal, glad your first day back wasn't bad!

 

[Vickieh1981]

hello please add me

i lost my child on the 12th of June gave birth to a baby girl and she died an hour later 26 weeks and a half preg im trying for a baby for Stepemeber i cant spell sorry

So sorry for your loss

 

[Lucy1973]

Nicole sorry for your loss, how awful. FXed for your BFP and healthy baby SOON.

 

[CJSG1977]

So very sorry for your loss Nicole! I hope that you can have a bfp soon and get to keep your beautiful baby! Trust me when I say that your angel will always be with you.x

 

[EpdTTC]

Very sorry for all that you have been through Nicole.

Megg-So excited for you and IUI. I just know that a month from now I am going to see you BFP announcement!

Bizy-OMG! Can't wait to hear if you've got one or two beans growing in there! Hoping all goes well for you tomorrow.

AFM-Can't believe I am almost 3 months already! It has been a stressful three months and I have been paranoid a lot, but I am grateful everyday. I have a scan on Friday and assuming all goes well, I think I will start telling more people at work, etc.

Here's to hoping everyone gets their sticky BFP soon!

 

[heather_dw]

First day on clomid and metformin.
Kinda excited!

 

[Megg33k]

Yay, Heather!

So sorry for the new losses!

Thanks for the well wishes on the IUI! I can't wait!!!

I'm updating now... I'm sorry I'm not around much... Work sucks the life out of me.

 

[Megg33k]

Okay... Spotting for the 2nd night in a row. Test was BFN this AM with FMU. AF hasn't been showing well on her own, but this is the first natural cycle I've had in a while. I have a few scenarios, and I don't know what to do.

1. Wait to see if the spotting turns into AF > It does (soon) > IUI cycle starts sooner
2. Take Provera > AF shows ~10-11 days from now > IUI cycle starts then
3. Wait to see if the spotting turns into AF > It doesn't > IUI cycle starts later

Obviously, I prefer #1.... but I have no guarantees! What do I do?

 

[heather_dw]

I think if it were me, I'd go for #1, although my cycles are pretty regular (except for a few months after this last M/C)

 

[Megg33k]

Mine aren't necessarily regular... I don't know if she'll show or not. I have no reason to believe she will, but I don't have any reason to believe she won't either. I mean... I had heavy spotting (at a stretch) for a few days which was considered my AF that time. But, I don't know if it really counted. I'm so confused.

 

[heather_dw]

can you split the difference and wait just a day or two and THEN proceed with provera or something else? Maybe the spotting is just an AF precursor (hopefully). A day or two shouldn't make that much difference, right? Why take the provera and HAVE to wait that long if there is a possibility of getting it sooner? Of course, I've no experience with provera either. Shows you what I know

man, i've been thinking about fertility and clomid since my doctor's appt yesterday. Babies on the brain. Yikes.

 

[Megg33k]

Yeah, Heather... I think that's the best idea. I guess I'll wait till Friday and then see what happens! Thanks!

 

[nicole1980]

thank you for your kind words everyone! much love x

 

[selina3127]

i've missed quite a lot!!!! yeahhhhh for amos glad things are going well, and congrats to all the new bfp's and sorry to all the girls with recent losses xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Lawa]

Morning ladies hope we are all well?

AF arrived this morning in full flow but the good news is my cycles seem to be back to normal 32 days with a 14 day luetal phase so we have some positives.

 

[Mummytofour]

:wave: Morning All!!
Huge congrats to Amos! Your mum must be sooo proud!

Megg....good luck for your IUI. I feel a huge BFP comin your way hunni!!

Lawa Great positivity hunni.
Nicole Here's to a speedy BFP for you!

Heather..good luck with the clomid mix!!!

Bizy....WOOOOOHOOOO!!!! Keep those numbers climbing!!

AFM... My GP has written to me stating that as I am over 37 and have kids, the NHS will do NOTHING to help me atall.
My only option is to go private! Initial consult = £250. Clomid cycle = £875!

Soooo....last night I ordered some Clomid from safemeds. I read a load of forums where people had good experiences with them, so this is my last hope.
I know alot of people will say "don't do it unregulated", but I can't afford to go private so the stupid NHS has forced my hand.

Sorry for the ME post!!!