TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Megg33k]

Meggs, let me ask you....the first time I MC, the dr was like just wait at least 1 Af, 2 would be better, then this time, the dr (a different dr) said I should wait 'til the New Year.....do you, or anyone else that has an opinion, think it might not be a good idea to try before AF comes again?

They always said I could try right away.

 

[Fairybabe]

Was told wait til first AF showed, but i really got the impression that it was cos the docs were worried about being able to date the next pregnancy, rather than anything else.

I've seen the research published on the news too about the stats showing if you get preggers within the first six months post m/c there is a higher chance of a healthy pregnancy. Something to do with the remains of the hormones in your system i think. Darn well hope they are right!! Like was said above, i'm 34 now, don't wanna waste months hanging around...

Dietrad, i guess it depends on whether the doc said wait til new year cos of some specific medical reason relating to you, or whether he just wasn't up to date on the latest advice. My Doc said "we used to say wait 3 months to try, but the latest news says not to...so just wait for one af". Maybe give him/her a call and ask what he bases his advice to you on?

Good luck

Fairy xx

 

[Razcox]

We were told we could start right away, they like you to have at least 1 AF to help with dating and nothing more. I had a scan a couple of weeks after my MMC to check everything was ok and the nurse said my body was back to normal and that things do bounce back really quickly. I would say if you feel ready then give it a go. xxx

 

[Lucy1973]

Hey dietrad...

I was told after both of mine that I could try again right away. I only waited one AF after each to kind of get my head together a little, but it depends how you feel!

CJ I know what you mean, I am 37, and decided I couldn't leave months without trying. If I lost 3 God forbid, then I would have to wait for some testing and stuff, but I have my fingers crossed for this one, so far it is different from first two. I am just hitting the time now that I lost the last one, its a bit freaky! Shame pregnancy is going to be a bit stressful at first for us.

Sunshyn, I love it when preg ladies come on here and give hope, fantastic you are 20 weeks! Wow I am so wishing for a bump this time! Got a scan Thurday morning, extremely nervous....

Good luck all for loads of sticky BFP's this month!

 

[Fairybabe]

Congrats Lucy on your BFP and really hope the scan looks good for you and the LO on Thurs. As you say, 3rd time lucky!
Fairy xx

 

[Lucy1973]

Thanks fairy...hope you get your BFP soon.

 

[dawny690]

Spotting stop on the 4th day of it dont get it xxxx

 

[Megg33k]

Jeez... I think your cycle took queues from mine! Its crap! I'll be starting Provera today if my clinic ever calls me back!

 

[dawny690]

Im going to give my body til weekend and test again if nothing then I will start my provera too lucky I have it in ready xxxx

 

[ariesmandy]

i had a mc august 9 / 10 ..first loss.. i was 11 and a half weeks and baby passed away at 6 weeks. this is my 2nd cycle ttc and i think i may be pregnant..keeping fingers crossed and i may test tonight.

 

[Megg33k]

Ooh! FX'd Mandy!!!

Yeah, they told me they'd call in my Provera at 11:15, Dawn. Went to pick it up at 12:30 and they hadn't even called it in yet!

 

[ttcstill]

Congrats Lucy........ And much to you all........ I was told to wait 3 months but I didn't. I am trying now after first AF. I am confused though because I went drinking Saturday and so temps are way off for Sunday. Oh well if it is meant to be then it will be.
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[dawny690]

Ooh! FX'd Mandy!!!

Yeah, they told me they'd call in my Provera at 11:15, Dawn. Went to pick it up at 12:30 and they hadn't even called it in yet!

WTF Idiots (them not you) have you had a bfn babe or you just taking the provera? xxxx

 

[Megg33k]

Ooh! FX'd Mandy!!!

Yeah, they told me they'd call in my Provera at 11:15, Dawn. Went to pick it up at 12:30 and they hadn't even called it in yet!

WTF Idiots (them not you) have you had a bfn babe or you just taking the provera? xxxx

BFN this morning!

 

[dawny690]

babe xxxx

 

[CJSG1977]

Lucy you are nearly there hunni!! Scan coming up soon and all will be well. I know its scary with this pregnancy but you WILL keep this one

3rd time lucky wasnt the case for me....lets hope its lucky number 7 is!!! I have my appt with the specialist on 26th of this month. Lets hope its so they can monitor my pregnancy. But if not they can continue looking for the reason I mc. I'm scared they will say I cant carry. Would destroy me. I havent heard of many women losing as many as me....although I know they are out there. Just dont know if I can keep losing.

I wont waste months in between though thats for sure. Tried straight away and just had the 1st af which was EVIL!!!! But I'm CD11....OV soon

Megg I hope they've sorted the provera out.....

 

[Megg33k]

They freaking haven't sorted anything! 5 HOURS! Just called to harass them!

 

[Lucy1973]

CJ, I do know of one woman at work who had 6 MC's in a row, and then number 7 was lucky. I hope you are lucky number 7!!!

Megg

 

[CJSG1977]

I hope your right Lucy, that would mean everything to me.

 

[Lucy1973]

Just think how much more we will appreciate our children when we finally get them...... Really hope for you there are no more losses