TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[puppymom32]

Congrats Choc sounds like BFP all the way. My dr said that your cervix is sensitive when pg so that or ib could be the cause of the blood. Yay Yay

 

[chocolate]

Thanks ......... Im now getting cold feet after the initial excitment, Im not going to treat it as a real positive until I retest and see that faint line get darker! Although I keep telling myself that if Im not pregnant then Id love to know whats causing the out of breath feeling!! Now thats not a pre-af symptom!

Megg, dont add me just yet, let me confirm it with another test in am first. Although it will be a FRER again, I hope those tests are reliable as seen some horrid stories of evaps and dodgy tests!

 

[sincerevon]

Ohhhh! Chocolate! I'm so excited for you! I hope you get a big, bright BFP in the morning!!!

 

[shaerichelle]

Tasha I would complain about that doc.

 

[WannaB]

Choccie that is exciting hunny bunny!

Tasha your doc shouldnt be a doc with a bed side manner like that! I would definatley put in a complaint and get a new doc asap! If you want 20 children then thats your business, in the end they are there to provide you with a service and you as a customer should expect and get better service than that! Big hugs to you hun!

 

[chocolate]

Tasha that is awful, I would put that all down in writing and complain! They are not supposed to judge people at all, and it doesnt matter how many children you have already, they should be helping and supporting you in a non-judgmental way and be tactile!

 

[Tasha]

Thanks girls. I will be complaining in a few days.

Chocolate (love your username btw ) I have everything crossed for you, so exciting.

 

[dawny690]

Tasha I would totally complain xxxx

 

[Megg33k]

Chocolate - I'll hold off till morning! I'm still SOOOOO very excited for you, though!

Tasha - I sat jaw-dropped reading about what happened to you with the doc! Excuse the french here, but WHAT A FUCKING BITCH! I would have hit her... I know I would have. My doctor is bad enough that I don't ever want to see her again, but even she isn't THAT bad. Definitely complain! OMG!

My doctor is so stubborn that she refuses to look at or acknowledge the 2 ultrasounds showing my MMC... There was no question as to what was going on... The MMC was diagnosed via U/S by a medical professional other than my OB/GYN... But my OB/GYN is so intent in her belief that my weight could keep me from ovulating, she refuses to acknowledge my loss and still contends I don't ovulate. My charts that prove I ovulate don't matter, because she "doesn't believe in charting." It makes me furious!

 

[WannaB]

Ooo does that mean if I dont believe in mc's I will never have another one??!!

 

[Megg33k]

Yes, yes it does, Michelle! I so hate my doctor.

 

[Tasha]

Thanks girls. Megg I was actually in shock with all, I just moved to that surgery (as I moved house) so for the visit to the doctors that took me by surprise. Your doctor sounds like a right cow too, what is it with doctors, just because research says x,y,z they believe it to be true with everyone, you obviously ovulate and had a miscarriage hugs so just ignore her I think.

 

[Megg33k]

I'm still appalled with your doctor, Tasha! I would take mine being a stubborn cow any day over yours being so awful! I definitely choose to ignore mine... I'm avoiding her like the plague if I'm to be honest! LOL Luckily, I don't need her at the moment! If I can get a BFP, I can get in to any doctor within a relatively quick time period. Prenatal appointment can be booked "new" within a few weeks. But, "new" gynecology appointments can take 3 months, sometimes longer! So, I can make it all better if I just get a BFP without her! I can choose whomever I want then!

 

[Tasha]

Sounds like a good plan Megg. Although our doctors both sound like they both come from the school of rude-no-it-all. She also said how pre-eclampsia only usually affects old women, I wanted to reply well thats all right considering old women dont tend to get pregnant I think there are ways of saying things and she should of said that there is an increased risk of pre-eclampsia the older you are, saying old women made me think of 80 year olds with baby bumps and pre-eclampsia

 

[Megg33k]

@ 80 yr old women with bumps dealing with pre-eclampsia! Definitely good ways and bad ways of saying things and our doctors are not blessed with the former! We'll both get there... without our awful doctors!

 

[chocolate]

Megg -wtf is up with your doctor?! Can you change doctors? I mean surely a doctor that cant understand that you must have ovulated to GET pregnant, shouldn't be a doctor?!!


I got another line this am, only slighter darker than yesterdays though, but Im going to re-test on Sunday to see if its darker. Ive also booked in to see my doctor on Monday to check about the medication Im on and if I should continue it, and am hoping she will send me for a blood test too. I then have a scan already booked for 7 weeks to check for a heartbeat, which is great as the specialist (man) said I probably wouldnt get one ...... but I spoke to the booking lady and she booked me in straight away

So please do add me!!! My fingers are crossed this time, I keep telling myself I will be very unlucky to suffer another mc if it was just down to a chromosonal problem, but I am still expecting it, so not getting attached ....... therefore I need to find a hobby or new interest to keep my mind off of visiting the pregnancy boards and thinking about it!!!
But I am happy to have a fuzzy headache, sore boobs and waking hungry! Will be happily waiting to be sick - Ill regret saying that!!

I hope to see many more bfp's on here, and will still be staying to chat on these boards too and to catch up with everyone

 

[Megg33k]

chocolate - My best chance at a new doctor is for prenatal care. If I can get my BFP, I'll basically have my choice of doctors pretty quickly. "New patient" appointments come quickly for prenatal care... but "new patient" appointments for gynecology can take 3 months or longer! So, yes and no. As long as I get my BFP, I'll definitely have another doctor. Until then... I'm pretty well on my own! I think it's probably okay though! I'm not in desperate need of medical care at the moment!

I'll add you straight away! I don't think you have much of anything to worry about this time around, but I understand that you're concerned!

 

[chocolate]

chocolate - My best chance at a new doctor is for prenatal care. If I can get my BFP, I'll basically have my choice of doctors pretty quickly. "New patient" appointments come quickly for prenatal care... but "new patient" appointments for gynecology can take 3 months or longer! So, yes and no. As long as I get my BFP, I'll definitely have another doctor. Until then... I'm pretty well on my own! I think it's probably okay though! I'm not in desperate need of medical care at the moment!

I'll add you straight away! I don't think you have much of anything to worry about this time around, but I understand that you're concerned!

oh I see - I was lucky that I have managed to change doctors to a lovely lady that has experienced a miscarriage herself.

Thanks Megg, thats what im trying to tell myself to keep me sane! But Im not going into with closed eyes either, although thats much nicer!

 

[Megg33k]

Yeah... I'll go to the ends of the earth to find a doctor I like when it comes to the safety and delivery of my baby. So, I'll get whatever I'm looking for when the time comes! No worries!

Definitely some innocence lost after a MC... but do try to enjoy your pregnancy as well! I'm sure you'll feel much better at 14 weeks!

 

[BizyBee]

congrats Chocolate!