TTC after D&C (Soon)

[Tara158505]

Castaway - yes I sure do use preseed, hopefully it will help me out this cycle. Plus because of my meds I needed it!

Tara - I'm thinking cd13 for O too, will have to confirm with 2 more high temps and then FF should probably give me crosshairs. I'm just nervous that we didn't get enough BD in prior to ovulation.
I plan to BD the next 2 days just to cover my bases and then I guess I'll know next weekend if we caught the egg or not.

I know that's what I am worried about too since my o day changed and ff was WRONG about the 2 different dpos it gave me and I went by ff instead of my test and so I only got the days before and after I missed o day completely if this is correct so im not optimistic this month and im 8dpo still bfn no faints no nada!!

 

[mj2013]

You could still get bfp, this past December I got bfp with day before and day after O....it ended in a chemical pregnancy but you could still get bfp. Plus lots of doctors tell their patients to BD every other day, so I think you're fine. When will you start testing?

 

[Tara158505]

girl I have been testing since the mc a month ago it's driving me crazy every day seeing bfns not even a faint or a smudge lol I got a bfp on frer at 11 dpo with my last but idk when af is really suppose to come this cycle I assume the 19th or 20th but not sure so I test every am but like I said im not hopeful

 

[mj2013]

8dpo is very early.....a little too early to count yourself out! I would give it till at least monday at 12dpo before you start counting yourself out.

 

[Tara158505]

im trying its just hard I feel nothing different except anxious at times, which is how mine usually start too, but idk at 11dpo I had no symptoms either and really thought I wasn't pregnant I just had one frer left and used it and it came right up I thought I was crazy lol but I was sooo happy I hope I get a positive soon..

 

[Tella]

fxd you managed to bd enough and that a spermie has found your eggie!

cast im also just trying for every other day and on peak an am bd.

my opks are starting to get a line. its halfway there. so I hope for surge late today so that I can trigger tonight.

 

[CastawayBride]

CD 8, monitor says low, but I also got up to wee in the middle of the night, going to have to keep an eye on that b/c if it is after 3 I am suppose to be testing. I should be getting highs very soon though, if my cycle is completely normal

I will be seeing the Specialist today! I hope I like this guy, have not had much luck in this dept. We are then going out for a lunch me and my guy...

 

[CastawayBride]

fxd you managed to bd enough and that a spermie has found your eggie!

cast im also just trying for every other day and on peak an am bd.

my opks are starting to get a line. its halfway there. so I hope for surge late today so that I can trigger tonight.

Good luck! What CD are you on?

 

[GingerPanda]

Tella, good luck with the trigger!

Tara, 8dpo is SOOOO early! And every pregnancy is different. I didn't get a faint BFP with mine until before bed 14dpo. Hang in there!

Castaway, good luck at the specialist! And enjoy lunch! Yummm.

 

[CastawayBride]

Tella, good luck with the trigger!

Tara, 8dpo is SOOOO early! And every pregnancy is different. I didn't get a faint BFP with mine until before bed 14dpo. Hang in there!

Castaway, good luck at the specialist! And enjoy lunch! Yummm.

Thanks hun! I get to pick where we eat as, "I am the one getting probed".

 

[GingerPanda]

Damn right! What are you thinking? If I'm doing anything baby-related, I always crave Mexican, because that was what I craved when I was pregnant. Everything made me queasy, but I could inhale whole plates of Mexican food.

 

[Bondipod31]

It is really nice to see all the support you all share. I am new to the site. We started IVF in November and just lost our little one at 9 weeks (via D&C) on NYE. We wanted to start the year off new. I understand that the first step is getting HCG down to zero or a negative. We still have not received the pathology reports back. We did do genetic testing so I am very interested to know if they have a medical answer for the mc. Thanks

 

[CastawayBride]

Damn right! What are you thinking? If I'm doing anything baby-related, I always crave Mexican, because that was what I craved when I was pregnant. Everything made me queasy, but I could inhale whole plates of Mexican food.

Ha ha ha, thankfully I only get queasy, never sick from eating! We are looking forward to going out, I love Italian so probably that. For my birthday at the end of the month its gonna be goin down, hibachi style!!!

 

[CastawayBride]

It is really nice to see all the support you all share. I am new to the site. We started IVF in November and just lost our little one at 9 weeks (via D&C) on NYE. We wanted to start the year off new. I understand that the first step is getting HCG down to zero or a negative. We still have not received the pathology reports back. We did do genetic testing so I am very interested to know if they have a medical answer for the mc. Thanks

So sorry you had to go through this over NYE....

Yes, once HCG is out your body should be able to cycle again. For some it takes as little as a few weeks, for other unlucky people (me) it took 3 months. Hang in there hun!

 

[brighteyez73]

im trying its just hard I feel nothing different except anxious at times, which is how mine usually start too, but idk at 11dpo I had no symptoms either and really thought I wasn't pregnant I just had one frer left and used it and it came right up I thought I was crazy lol but I was sooo happy I hope I get a positive soon..

Tara - My FX for you

 

[Tara158505]

Thanks ginger and bright,

I got my bff (big fat faint) today at 9dpo!! I took 4 different tests, dollar tree first since I know how sensitive they are and the faint line came right up, so nervously as shit(because of all those good positives on dollar tree and still bfn on frer) I took frer it is faint but positive I couldn't believe it still kind of don't lol, then I took wal mart 88c test its just now starting to get a faint, then the osom that is supposed to be extremely sensitive (10-20mius sometimes less its in the instructions the percentage that got positives at each level) and its very faint as well but I am only 9dpo but sooo freaking excited and scared at the same time so I guess I will nervously wait til I get a good BFP!!

 

[brighteyez73]

Thanks ginger and bright,

I got my bff (big fat faint) today at 9dpo!! I took 4 different tests, dollar tree first since I know how sensitive they are and the faint line came right up, so nervously as shit(because of all those good positives on dollar tree and still bfn on frer) I took frer it is faint but positive I couldn't believe it still kind of don't lol, then I took wal mart 88c test its just now starting to get a faint, then the osom that is supposed to be extremely sensitive (10-20mius sometimes less its in the instructions the percentage that got positives at each level) and its very faint as well but I am only 9dpo but sooo freaking excited and scared at the same time so I guess I will nervously wait til I get a good BFP!!

Tara congrats!!! I am so happy for you!!

 

[Tara158505]

thanks bright, dh wants me to hold of on saying anything to anyone for a while, not that I can last long, but I understand why I am still worried but at the same time it's hard not to be happy and get excited even though I know the risks involved, even if I wait til 3 months that means nothing I could still lose it so I want to enjoy it while I can I don't know why I can't seem to pull back the excitement though since I do know what can happen, but at the same time at least I know im ovulating and I can get pregnant still!! like I said could still end in chemical or mc but I can't let that keep me down and not let me be happy!! thanks everyone for helping me through this!! i'll keep everyone updated on how it's going and I hope it doesn't end as soon as it got here because I don't know when af is suppose to come so I am still worried about that but I am thinking 19th or 20th that would match up with my lp!! I hope so!! oh should I keep taking b vitamins after the positive I took todays does but they are very low I didn't notice til I got home and I was just going to take 2 a day til I found out if this cycle was a bust or not then start b50 complex and maybe vitex but hopefully this one will stick but I also have been taking prenatals since about time of ovulation..

 

[RaeChay]

It is really nice to see all the support you all share. I am new to the site. We started IVF in November and just lost our little one at 9 weeks (via D&C) on NYE. We wanted to start the year off new. I understand that the first step is getting HCG down to zero or a negative. We still have not received the pathology reports back. We did do genetic testing so I am very interested to know if they have a medical answer for the mc. Thanks

Welcome bondi- I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I too had a loss over the holidays, and I know how painful and disorienting it is to be so sad while cheerful people are all around you. I can't imagine how hard that must be to lose a baby after having gone through the stress of IVF too, and the excitement that getting pregnant after all that would bring.

When is your next appointment? I haven't had blood taken, but I've done several home pregnancy tests to see if I have leftover hcg in my urine. That is something you could try if you were anxious to know.

Hugs to you.

 

[Bondipod31]

Thank you Castaway and Rae for your kind words. I greatly appreciate them.

I will go for another blood test next Wednesday. I assume hcg will be zero or negative. It was down to 74 this past Wednesday. I called the office today to ask again about the pathology report. It is still pending. I am feeling a bit frustrated but I think that is because it is something to focus on instead of thinking of the loss.
I am interested to speak to my Dr. to understand timing and next steps.
Have a nice weekend all!