TTC After Depo stories...any luck..advice?

[Nicole_93]

I'm extremely glad to hear that! I'm defiantly not forgetting to take my vitamins. I truly believe that those are the only reason this stuff is getting out of my system so quickly. Ahaha that's too funny! Well I think you'll be the one that has all the boys. My family i swear is all girls too! I don't think we can produce boys! I would of loved to have a brother, or something. I have one first cousim that's a boy and that's it! Ahaha
I would say just keep busy, that usually keeps things off my mind. Sometimes though, it's hard to keep busy when you have a lot on your mind. I'm sure everything will go well at the appointment. Keeping everything crossed!

So man, Friday was a scary and extrmely sad day huh? I can't believe all that happened. You are pretty close to France aren't you trying?

 

[Trying91]

Aww, i have 1 brother and 2 sisters. My cousins are a mixture of both lol. I'd love to have a boy, but I don't mind either way really just want a healthy baby. 1 more day till appointment : ) not long to wait now.

Yes we are pretty close to France Hun, devastating news. Iv said I'm not going to the Trafford centre this Christmas as you just don't know where will be next. It's so scary. Its also upsetting every one blaming Muslims too, I'm Muslim myself, I don't cover and I drink alcohol, my hubby is also Muslim he doesn't drink any alcohol. Personal preference I guess but it worries me so much my hubby going to work with all the hatred towards Muslims going on. He's a very easy going guy and accepts people from all walks of life for what they are.. I don't think he could of married me if he wasn't lol, he even wore a poppy on rememberance day, I actually felt bad that I didn't have one. I just think it's all sad and wish we could all live in peace and accept every one for who they are, sadly I think it's too late now though. They needed to be stopped right at the beginning, now they are all over the place and hard to find. Scary world we live in xx

 

[Trying91]

Oh Iv just ordered some concieve plus to try this cycle, just to try something new other than the pre seed xx

 

[Nicole_93]

Awee that's how I am. I want one boy and one girl, anything else is extra joy but I'll take all boys or all girls if that's what I'm suppose to have.

Sweetie, I'm so sorry. You should never be treated any different than anyone else. If you do, then those people are heartless. They're bad people in every race and religion. I just wish that one day, evertone In the world, no matter who you are, color you are, religion you practice, will all join together and be peaceful. I hate all of this

 

[Nicole_93]

What is that stuff? I haven't heard of that before

 

[Trying91]

Exactly Hun we will get what we are meant to have : )

I'm never treated any different Hun because I don't cover (don't wear the headscarf) and I'm white English, so unless people ask me they don't realise I'm Muslim. My husband wears normal English clothes but he's tanned and looks foreign, that's why it worries me him going out to work etc. So far he's never had any issues thank god. Oh and we don't beleive in shariah law ; ) I only heard of that through the British media lol, crazy!
I couldn't agree more about all coming together and living a peaceful life. These people are just monsters, hey well done to France yesterday though with their revenge : )

It's just a different fertility friendly lube Hun, obviously pre seed isn't working for us so just thought I'd try this, i was also thinking about not trying any at all but I think e will give this a go first. Drs app this morning : ) off to slimming world first to weigh in after taking my son to school, hope you all have a good day xx

 

[Trying91]

Iv been reffered to a fertility specialist, reffered for a scan to check for cysts and have to have cd 21 bloods again : ( I walked out to the car, sat in the car and burst out crying. Hubby has to get tested too, my progresterone was 18, 30 is a deffo ovulation 18 is possible but they can't garuntee it. My fsh is also low. I'm stopping trying now till iv seen them, not much point. I'm devastated xx

 

[Raine96]

Im so sorry to hear that Trying! I hope everything gets figured out soon for you!

As for me, i am still battling a cold. Cd 8 and AF is gone. Fertile window starts in 2 days. Weird thing though, im a heavy drinker when we go to parties and we went out on saturday and i actually didnt drink that much. I had 1 beer, 1 cup of vodka, and 4 smirnoff screwdrivers and was feeling pretty good and drunk but thought i was okay. Got in the car with my DD and ended up getting really sick. Had the worst hangover of my life yesterday and im just confused on why because ive drank waaaay more than that before and havent puked or had a bad hangover. Definitely not normal for me. But feeling much better today, just still have my cold.

 

[cutieq]

Trying I know it's not the news you were looking for but I'm glad you're under a doctors care.

 

[LatinGirl]

Trying Don't get frustrated. You were asking for a reason of why you were unable to get pregnant and now you have the answer. I know it is difficult, but at least you have doctors that can help you resolve your fertility issues. Don't give up hope of TTC. You have us to give you support through the journey. Below it is a link that will help you find a way to increase your FSH naturally.
https://www.wikihow.com/Improve-FSH-Levels
They mentioned Ginseng, Vitex and Maca as natural supplements. Here is good information about Ginseng and Maca: https://www.livestrong.com/article/275143-the-benefits-of-ginseng-root-to-female-fertility/
More info about Maca: https://natural-fertility-info.com/maca
In women, maca helps the body to promote balanced estrogen and progesterone levels. Estrogen or progesterone levels that are high or low at the wrong time can keep a woman from becoming pregnant or keep her from carrying to term. Excess estrogen levels can cause progesterone levels to become too low, this is known as estrogen dominance. Taking Maca may help to balance the estrogen to progesterone ratio which is essential to achieving and carrying a healthy pregnancy.

I hope the information helps you.

 

[LatinGirl]

Hello Girls, I'm still feeling cramps and back pain, but no AF yet. Since yesterday I start to feeling like breast pain. It looks like the bcp is not going to work for me.

 

[Claire92]

Hellooo ladies popping by to say hellooo how are you all doing good luck to everyone on new cycles this month . for the ladies still waiting on AF arriving and returning to normal stay positive nature is a funny little thing 😂 on my end ill be at 36 weeks on thursday 😳 booked in for c-sec on the 15th of december tho hubby and freinds keep saying they think i will go sooner 🤔 id be happy if he made an appearance in the next fortnight cant believe ive had my full ttc bfp and pregnancy journey to share with all you ladies i dont think ill ever stray away from this thread 😁💜

 

[Claire92]

Trying just read your last post so sorry that it wasnt the news you where hoping for but i pray this is just a hurdle that you will get over and get your rainbow baby sooon sending my love xxxx

 

[Nicole_93]

trying I am so sorry about your news, if I could I'd give you s great big hug right now! Maybe when your bloods were taken, that month you might of had an odd month? You don't ovulate every month so maybe it was just that particular month? I'm glad you are seeing a doctor now though, they will be able to help you. Have you ever tried clomid or provera ? I heard many success stories so I'm hoping you will get the help you need to get that sticky bean! Keep your head up girl, modern medicine is amazing and you will have a little one again soon. Don't loose hope! All of us girls are here for you.

Also, I hope that he gets treated just like everyone else after all this, there's a huge difference between Muslims and Isis. I actually just read that the Muslim population is about 1.6 billion people. Out of that 1.6 billion, .00625% of those are Isis members. And yet, we are all jumping the ship saying that they are all bad people which is so incorrect and false. If that were the case, we would all probably be dead by now. I hate how judgmental people are anymore. There's good and bsd I'm every race and religion, we just like to blame as a whole. It's so unfair to people, I just want peace and happiness with everyone. I know plenty of awful "white people" who go around shooting schools up, killing and raping children, etc etc. yet, no one says "all whites are bad people". So why is it so easy for my people to blame all Muslims? Makes me sick sometimes, I don't like people for this reason. Sorry I'm ranting, just so much going on and it's mskimg me sad and upset to the extreme.

Claire I'm so happy for you, I always love reading a success story and seeing s woman's jounry for nine months. It's so beautiful. I can't wait to see your little one, I'll defiantly be expecting pictures!! And yes, my AF is coming back to normal rather quickly I believe and I couldn't be happier! I was dreading this process but so far, all is going well. So fingers crossed things keep going smoothly!

 

[Trying91]

I'm ok thanks girls, well not really but I will be. It was our 7 wedding anniversary yesterday, my hubby got me a huge bunch of flowers and secretly arranged my mum to come mind our son so we could go out for a candle lit meal, it was lovely. Then I drowned my sorrows in wine when we got home lol I had a glass with the meal then a bottle at home.. I don't feel great today! Lol.

My dr wonders if I ovulate some cycles and not others, she said its weird I have regular consistent cycles and positive opks every cycle to not be ovulating. She's ordered more blood tests for cd21 this cycle to see if they are any different but she's not hanging around she's doing the referel to the fertility clinic straight away. She said they will want 2 cycles of cd21 bloods anyway so may aswell get them done.. Hubby isn't looking forward to his test lol.
I just can't beleive the depo has screwed me up so much. I'm not tracking this cycle I really need s break from it and there's not much point because I'm probably not ovulating anyway, we are just gonna bd for fun whenever we like till we have our appointment then we will start trying proper again. I think it will be clomid they will use, I asked my dr could she not give me anything but she said with a level of 18 she can't garuntee I'm not or am ovulating so it will be down to the fertility clinic when they do more tests etc what they give me. I'll still be coming on here though : )

 

[Trying91]

Thanks for the info Latin on the vitamins etc. After doing some google research Iv decided to start taking vitamin B complex 50mg a day. Starting on a low dose as I don't want to do more damage but hoping it will balance my hormones and boost my progresterone, as even if I did ovulate with a progresterone of 18 it has to be over 30 to stick! I'm going for my cd21 bloods again so will see if it does manage to boost my progresterone at all. I lost 4lb on slimming world this week too so concentrating on my weight loss till my fertility appointment now xx

 

[LatinGirl]

Trying Congratulations on your Anniversary!!!! I am glad that you are still hanging out with us. Good thinking about taking a break this month and bd for fun. Way to go with does 4 pounds of weight you lost.

 

[Trying91]

Thank you Latin : ) those 7 years have flown by!
Oh I'm deffo still hanging with you girls, you all keep me sane in this crazy journey! Also can't wait to see Claire's little one : )
Thanks Hun, I'm trying really hard to loose weight now. I need to do anything that can help us. My hubby asked yesterday what will we do if we can't have any more? I said well nothing? He said well we could pay for ivf or look into adoption. I never realised he wanted it so much : ( bless him, Iv said I'm sure it won't come to that once they can sort my hormones out. I'm hoping anyway. Looking forward to my cd21 bloods to see if the vitamin b complex helps boost my progresterone at all xx

 

[LatinGirl]

Yesterday my hb brought me flowers home and took me on a romantic date night. He is so sweet to me. We had a wonderful night last night too.

 

[Nicole_93]

Trying I'm glad you are keeping your head up. That is so awesome that your hubby is so supportive! You two sound so darn cute together. I am keeping you in my thoughts each day hoping you get that sticky bean! Miricales happen every single dsy. I'm glad we all can help you and you are able to talk to people going through this. Support is always s wonderful thing to have

Latin that sounds so cute!! I'm glad you had a good night with your hubby also!

I went to my doctors, turns out I have a bladder infection so that why I have been going to the bathroom so often! Thankfully I got some medicine for it!!