TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Yay for 37 weeks Becks!

I hope your hormones get sorted soon, Lisa. You are most likely making plenty of milk. She is probably just increasing your supply.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal xxxx Lisa I'm with you on the hormones I've cried every day for the last three days, they seem to be running riot at the moment. Hope it all settles for you soon. Xx

 

[Creative]

I confess to being a hormonal wreck too. Chris got really fed up with me yesterday and warned the kids that "mums a hormonal mess, so watch what you say"
I cry at the slightest thing at the moment and find myself getting cross about mess etc. I think for their own safety my family should retreat into hiding!

 

[Oasis717]

Totally the same! I haven't been like this the whole way through but now seem to be a hormonal mess too. Hope it doesn't last til the end! Xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Must be the month for it ! I'm so irritable and emotional . Poor OH can't put a foot right ! I know I'm irrational but can't help it ! On the plus side I appear to be over the worst of my MS heading into 19 weeks have not been feeling sick ( well significantly so ) for almost a week now a couple of dry heaving incidences a day but that I can deal with

 

[Oasis717]

That's great! I'm so pleased for you as, the same as when I carried a boy last time, mine has lasted the whole way through. It's eased up slightly this last week dare I say. With both girls it was gone completely by 18 weeks. Strange!! Xx

 

[Oasis717]

My 37 week bump xxx

 

[garfie]

Beautiful bump Becks



X

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Fi xxxits nice to have a reminder isn't it after xx

 

[garfie]

Yeah I suppose so - but when I was pregnant it (all those years ago) it was all disposable cameras for me - so some you could see the bump, some I had no head, no feet etc

Next time will be different though - you will get sick off me posting bump pics

Though I have to say I think you are carrying lovely and neat



X

 

[Oasis717]

Thankyou xxLol I only have one pic of me pregnant with my eldest and with dd12 I got so fat I ripped up the only pic I had years ago cause it was an absolutely awful pic! I went on to loose 6 stone after dd 12. So yes nice to have a reminder as I've only put on baby weight this time the same as with ds 4 I don't mind taking a pic xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Lovely neat bump

 

[josie1234]

Lovely bump Becks xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks girls, funny to think it won't be there much longer! Hope everyone is ok xx

 

[dancareoi]

Still missing being pg. sad knowing I'll never be pg again. My heart says I want another but my head says we've had 2 years of heartache and worry and to try again would probably have the same heartache again and we can't put ourselves or our kids through that again.

Maybe once hormones have settled I.'ll feel a bit better about it and be thankful for what we have, 4 beautiful, healthy children

 

[Oasis717]

I'm sure you will Lisa, I really understand how you must feel and I know ill be the same. Of course it's sad to think that's your last. We plan to try for one more after Brooklyn as my girls were from my previous relationship so it's a little different for us. Just pray we are as fortunate again as we have been with Brooklyn xx.

 

[crysshae]

Beautiful bump, Becks!

Lisa, I understand how you feel. Our 4 year old was supposed to be our last so I went through that too. And here I am again. Lol.

 

[crysshae]

I hope you are all doing well today.

I started bleeding this morning. When my temp skydived yesterday, I had a feeling, but I decided to do the "stop temping...it just causes worry" etc thing and did not temp today. But I didn't have to see that lower temp as the blood was there when I went to the restroom. I was upset most of the day yesterday, but I'm surprisingly okay today. I guess I had already come to terms with it, and the blood was just confirmation. I'm not sure I'll continue trying at this point. I haven't talked to DH about it yet. When we talk, I'll see how he feels and how I feel from there. Maybe God is telling us our family is perfect just the way it is.

 

[Creative]

oh cry that's really sad. I know I have said it before, but once I stopped POsticks and counting days etc that it happened for me. I'd really come to terms with the fact that it wasn't meant to be and then probably my body relaxed and let it happen.

 

[dancareoi]

So sorry cry .

How many children so you already have?

Although I don't think it matters how many you have, there is always that strong maternal feeling to want more!

I would love to have another, but know I would feel he same againas i do now about wanting another. I suppose there comes a time when you have to call it a day, but that will never be easy. That's where we we are now, we are calling it a day, even though it breaks my heart.

I keep wishing I could go back in time, just a few weeks, so I can have those last few weeks again.

Really hope everything works out for you. Look after yourself xx