TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Creative]

Don't get me wrong, there is support through out this forum but this particular thread has been so comforting probably because we are all over 40 and are in the same boat. so Thank You All!!!!!!


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i totally agree. This is my home too!!

 

[dancareoi]

This temping lark and sympton spotting is starting to do my head in!!!

Last month i had second temp rise and cramping and still BFN. This month I have had a second temo rise today at 7 DPO and when I overlay the charts they look the same, so already thinking i am out and getting down.

I will chart again next month, although we are away for a week so it won`t be qyute so accurate as i won`t take thermometer away with us - we are away 2 weeks at end of august so i won`t bother charting then - maybe something will happen then!

baby dust to all.

 

[Xanth]

Don't get me wrong, there is support through out this forum but this particular thread has been so comforting probably because we are all over 40 and are in the same boat. so Thank You All!!!!!!


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i totally agree. This is my home too!!

I love you all too

 

[Xanth]

This temping lark and sympton spotting is starting to do my head in!!!

Last month i had second temp rise and cramping and still BFN. This month I have had a second temo rise today at 7 DPO and when I overlay the charts they look the same, so already thinking i am out and getting down.

I will chart again next month, although we are away for a week so it won`t be qyute so accurate as i won`t take thermometer away with us - we are away 2 weeks at end of august so i won`t bother charting then - maybe something will happen then!

baby dust to all.

ooh I had a second temp rise today. Was hoping it might turn into a triphasic chart. You never know. Fingers crossed

 

[dancareoi]

This temping lark and sympton spotting is starting to do my head in!!!

Last month i had second temp rise and cramping and still BFN. This month I have had a second temo rise today at 7 DPO and when I overlay the charts they look the same, so already thinking i am out and getting down.

I will chart again next month, although we are away for a week so it won`t be qyute so accurate as i won`t take thermometer away with us - we are away 2 weeks at end of august so i won`t bother charting then - maybe something will happen then!

baby dust to all.

ooh I had a second temp rise today. Was hoping it might turn into a triphasic chart. You never know. Fingers crossed

i am also very tired, and for the last 3 days, and in particular today have increased creamy CM - sorry if TMI - but no other symptons.

Each month seems different, so this is probably just another month of my body playing mind games - i am 7 DPO today - aarrrrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhh

just looked at your chart - temp drop followed by temp increase - looks good!!!

 

[Xanth]

This temping lark and sympton spotting is starting to do my head in!!!

Last month i had second temp rise and cramping and still BFN. This month I have had a second temo rise today at 7 DPO and when I overlay the charts they look the same, so already thinking i am out and getting down.

I will chart again next month, although we are away for a week so it won`t be qyute so accurate as i won`t take thermometer away with us - we are away 2 weeks at end of august so i won`t bother charting then - maybe something will happen then!

baby dust to all.

ooh I had a second temp rise today. Was hoping it might turn into a triphasic chart. You never know. Fingers crossed

i am also very tired, and for the last 3 days, and in particular today have increased creamy CM - sorry if TMI - but no other symptons.

Each month seems different, so this is probably just another month of my body playing mind games - i am 7 DPO today - aarrrrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhh

just looked at your chart - temp drop followed by temp increase - looks good!!!

I know what you mean. I've given up trying to symptom spot now. I convince myself they're all signs lol

 

[dancareoi]

This temping lark and sympton spotting is starting to do my head in!!!

Last month i had second temp rise and cramping and still BFN. This month I have had a second temo rise today at 7 DPO and when I overlay the charts they look the same, so already thinking i am out and getting down.

I will chart again next month, although we are away for a week so it won`t be qyute so accurate as i won`t take thermometer away with us - we are away 2 weeks at end of august so i won`t bother charting then - maybe something will happen then!

baby dust to all.

ooh I had a second temp rise today. Was hoping it might turn into a triphasic chart. You never know. Fingers crossed

i am also very tired, and for the last 3 days, and in particular today have increased creamy CM - sorry if TMI - but no other symptons.

Each month seems different, so this is probably just another month of my body playing mind games - i am 7 DPO today - aarrrrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhh

just looked at your chart - temp drop followed by temp increase - looks good!!!

I know what you mean. I've given up trying to symptom spot now. I convince myself they're all signs lol

i do too = first month trying i was sooo tired and couldnt stop going to the loo - BFN.
Second cycle - cramping and second temp rise - BFN
Everything that happens I put of FF chart - the pregnanyc estimator is showing a lot lower points than it did the last 2 months.
As i said before, we will be away for 3 weeks in summer so i won`t bother charting then, hopefully I will be able to chill a bit and relax - maybe conceive a holiday baby!!
We are in Butlins first week of summer hols, we have a 3 bed room, so we will have a little privacy. At end of summer we will be stopping in a bungalow, so plenty of privacy there!!!
Got something else to add to my FF chart - gassy!!! (sorry if TMI!!!))) Good job I am alone!!!!

 

[Xanth]

Hahaha I had that problem last night. We are both 8dpo today? I won't be testing early this time. I'm going away tonight. Only to our caravan for the weekend, but I'm not taking any hpts. That way I won't be tempted lol xx

 

[Creative]

BFN at PO day 13 so I think I will be "trying again next month"

 

[dancareoi]

Hahaha I had that problem last night. We are both 8dpo today? I won't be testing early this time. I'm going away tonight. Only to our caravan for the weekend, but I'm not taking any hpts. That way I won't be tempted lol xx

I am 8 DPo and caved and POAs - BFN - no surprise there.

i just if I was PG I might get a very very faint line, but nothing

I will try and hold off over the weekend and wait til monday/tuesday. My usual LP is 10 days although last month it went to 11.

On a different note, it`s 3 years ago today that we lost our first LO at 8 weeks.

 

[Xanth]

BFN at PO day 13 so I think I will be "trying again next month"

Have you got a pic?

 

[Creative]

no pic, but is was so pristine white that there wasn't even a hint of anything.

 

[dancareoi]

That was the same as mine, not a hint of anything - I know i shouldn`t have done it as only 8 DPO, but I got carried away.

Really thought this would be my month.

this TTC sucks!!!!

 

[dancareoi]

Hahaha I had that problem last night. We are both 8dpo today? I won't be testing early this time. I'm going away tonight. Only to our caravan for the weekend, but I'm not taking any hpts. That way I won't be tempted lol xx

have a good weekend. Wish i could be away for the weekend to take my mind of all of this TTC nonsense. Back to the drawing board.

 

[Xanth]

Awww ladies. I'm sorry to hear that. Well if I'm not pregnant this month ive got my few months break. I'll still be here cheering you on though xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Awww ladies. I'm sorry to hear that. Well if I'm not pregnant this month ive got my few months break. I'll still be here cheering you on though xxx

well it`s saturday night and i am 9 DPO resisted the urge to test with FMU this morning. I have one clear blue early test that can test 4 days before AF, so it would work now, but I don`t want to use it.

I have felt this way the last few months, although I want to know, the not knowing gives you hope. If I had a BFN today I would be so upset, at least this way i get another couple of days without feeling totally disheartened.

My AF could be due to start tomorrow, I have had 10 day LP for a long time, but last month was 11 days. My AF usually started with the smallest amount of blood, that makes you think it`s not really coming, although you know it is. So i would expect to see that tomorrow or monday.

The last couple of months, it is not enough for spotting(sorry if TMI) but just a bit when wiping, so you try and tell yourself it is implantation, but you know it isn`t really.

Not looking forward to next couple of days.

 

[Creative]

Well I was expecting AF overnight and she never came.I've been running around organising a wedding all day and just come in and AF still is not here. I did POAS first thig, but it was a BFN again. I have felt slightly queezy the last few days, but I would have thought it would have shown as a BFP before now if I was pregnant.

 

[Xanth]

Awww ladies. I'm sorry to hear that. Well if I'm not pregnant this month ive got my few months break. I'll still be here cheering you on though xxx

well it`s saturday night and i am 9 DPO resisted the urge to test with FMU this morning. I have one clear blue early test that can test 4 days before AF, so it would work now, but I don`t want to use it.

I have felt this way the last few months, although I want to know, the not knowing gives you hope. If I had a BFN today I would be so upset, at least this way i get another couple of days without feeling totally disheartened.

My AF could be due to start tomorrow, I have had 10 day LP for a long time, but last month was 11 days. My AF usually started with the smallest amount of blood, that makes you think it`s not really coming, although you know it is. So i would expect to see that tomorrow or monday.

The last couple of months, it is not enough for spotting(sorry if TMI) but just a bit when wiping, so you try and tell yourself it is implantation, but you know it isn`t really.

Not looking forward to next couple of days.

I shall be POAS in the morning. I've waited long enough haha

 

[Xanth]

Well I was expecting AF overnight and she never came.I've been running around organising a wedding all day and just come in and AF still is not here. I did POAS first thig, but it was a BFN again. I have felt slightly queezy the last few days, but I would have thought it would have shown as a BFP before now if I was pregnant.

How many DPO are you Creative xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Well I was expecting AF overnight and she never came.I've been running around organising a wedding all day and just come in and AF still is not here. I did POAS first thig, but it was a BFN again. I have felt slightly queezy the last few days, but I would have thought it would have shown as a BFP before now if I was pregnant.

How many DPO are you Creative xxx

CD1

Feeling very very down and low tonight. Checking my FF chart and it appears my LP is only 9 days not 10 as I thought - so that is a problem.

I am going to try and see my doctor this week, as we are going away next week and I don`t want to leave it any longer.

I know vitamin B6 can help, but i am taking pregnacare pre-natal.

I am totally devasted - somebody out there really hates me - taking my baby away at 13 weeks and now this

why me, what have i ever done - i feel like my heart has been ripped out.