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TTC after m/c before AF

Thank you for the uplifting outlook!

The way I look at it is... nature wouldn't have you be "more fertile" after a miscarriage for no reason at all:) I think doctors just tell you a general recommendation without looking at your specific situation. I'm not going to use OPK strips this month as I've read they can be unreliable after a MC since your hormones are all over the place but I'm not going to prevent pregnancy either. At least it'll give that slight chance to look forward to to get through these couples of weeks (especially since my normal cycles average 35 days). After that it is full steam ahead.

Thanks!
 
Exactly. Some women aren't more fertile right away, and it can take a while, but it's definitely not something to worry about in terms of elevated risks from everything I've heard and read. I would agree about not using OPKs or temping, your body might fluctuate more day-to-day and leave you very confused and frustrated, better to take a relaxed NTNP approach (i.e. BD every other day or so).
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart
 
That's awesome sshylady! Good luck! April 3rd is one of my daughter's bday too. :)
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

That's great, your chart couldn't be clearer! :)
 
That's awesome sshylady! Good luck! April 3rd is one of my daughter's bday too. :)

Really? That's awesome!!! I sure can't wait. Patience is a virtue, but it's hard when you wanna know...:nope: Then you test early and your like, :dohh: why did I do that and I know its too early for a reading on an hpt.. Keep me updated on your results :hugs:
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

That's great, your chart couldn't be clearer! :)

Thanx so much!! I feel symtoms already! I am hopeful due to timing. From what I have read, :sex: two days before ovulation is suppose to be better than :sex: on the day before or the day of ovulation. Just so happens we :sex:two days before ovulation. I really beleive I am pregnant tho. AF is not due until April 3rd and these symptoms do not feel like AF symptoms. Cramps are duller and I feel full, bloated, and gassy in a different way than when AF is on the way. :happydance::dust:
 
Hi all
Hope everyone's ok? Welcome to the new ladies, am so sorry for your losses :hugs: and hope you all get your rainbows before AF arrives :flower:
I'm now somewhere between 3-7 dpo and will start testing next Sat
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

Whoop! Whoop! Fingers crossed for you Sshylady.
 
:wave:

I was given the all clear on Thursday, 2 weeks after natural MC following MMC.

I still had a :bfp: on a Superdrug test yesterday FMU but OPKs are negative (and today more than yesterday) so just hoping they will go positive eventually.

My libido is on the rise, which is a good sign and had a bit of EWCM today.

:dust: to us all!

xXx
 
I am hoping for the all clear when I go for my scan on tues as I passed baby today after bleeding for 11 days and still bleeding. When did you stop bleeding? xx
 
I stopped bleeding probably 10 days after passing the baby but I had only really been spotting before the intense 4 hours of agony and gushing that led to that. After that it was just like a period with a longer taper-off period.

I hope it's over for you soon. It was 2 weeks before I got the all clear.

xXx
 
So sorry for your loss Debbiedobs. I bled for 2 days after passing the baby naturally like I am having my period. So from start to finish I bled for 5 days.

Xx
 
I've bled lightly the whole time except for three times, twice with contractions on the 20th and 21st with lots of clots. Then yesterday morning with no pain, but I passed the baby. Bleeding is like a period but its starting to get heavy again. A bit fed up now with seeing red every time I go to the loo. Very frustrating.

Hope everyone is okay, and staying positive.

xx
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

Whoop! Whoop! Fingers crossed for you Sshylady.

Thanx lady!!! Well....I am still in the race!! I am now 5DPO and temps are still high!! Praise God!! My chart is below.:happydance::hugs:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart
 
Hi ladies can I just say firstly I'm so sorry for your losses and I really hope you get your BFPs soon :)
I'm wondering if I could join? I'd really like to make some buddies to chat to xxx
 
Hi ladies can I just say firstly I'm so sorry for your losses and I really hope you get your BFPs soon :)
I'm wondering if I could join? I'd really like to make some buddies to chat to xxx

Welcome!! xx
 
I got my ovulation line on FF BBT Chart!! I O'd on CD21. Timed :sex: good! :happydance: Maybe I will get a :bfp: I am only on DPO3 too! So I will need to wait to :test:AF not due til April 3rd which is one of daughter's birthday...LOL :dust:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

Whoop! Whoop! Fingers crossed for you Sshylady.

Thanx lady!!! Well....I am still in the race!! I am now 5DPO and temps are still high!! Praise God!! My chart is below.:happydance::hugs:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/31e927//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

FX'd for you!! xx
 

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