TTC after Methotrexate shot

[PreshFest]

Hi ladies, Im currently waiting for ov but Im confused as to which day I should class as cd1, af was late last month and my ticker shows what day I should be in had it arrived on time. However I had nothing on the day it was due or the day after but on day 3 I started spotting (not enough to need a pad just liner) then af finally started full flow on day 5.

Would you class the start of the spotting or the start of full flow as cd1?

Thank you for your help xxx

I would start the spotting as CD1... Just in case. That way you can be actively ttc for a few days longer. If you start from where you started flowing, then it might be thrown off and you could miss it! So I'd start at the spotting and just keep in mind that things might be a bit off

 

[PreshFest]

Ugghhh!! BFN today. Hoping it's still too early to get a positive. Oh well! I'm nauseous, though, so that is making me very frustrated. Will test again on Thursday...

How are you all doing??

 

[Renzalxx]

Which scan pic did I post?

The one that is your profile picture...

LMFAO!!!!! I am so silly!!!!!!! I see it now!

Haha baby brain is kicking in

 

[PreshFest]

Ladies... I MIGHT have a bfp this morning. I see the faintest of lines. So faint that I'm not really sure it's there. The very bottom of the line, basically the bottom millimeter is darker than the rest of the line, though. That is for sure there.

I'm not sure what to do. My last pregnancy was ectopic, so when I get a bfp I'm supposed to go straight to the doc to get my bloods done and then back again two days later. Should I just call it a positive and go? I would know TODAY if I really was pregnant or not, so that's the upside!!

I just feel like I'm being crazy. And like I want to see the line so bad so my brain is making it up....

 

[JPARR01]

Omg i have super line eye!!!! Post the photo!!!!!!!!!!

 

[PreshFest]

I'm honestly too embarassed to post it!!!! How pathetic am I?? But I do see a line Going to the doc in an hour for a blood test.

 

[JPARR01]

I posted mine when I took one.... I swore I saw a line and everyone saw it!! JUST POST!!!!

 

[PreshFest]

ok, I'll try to post it. I'm at work, so it might not work...

BUT. It was so faint in person that the photo is REALLY faint. So... I know you all know exactly what I'm feeling right now, so I shouldn't be embarassed.. This is just so not like me!! So, be kind, ok??

 

[JPARR01]

We would never judge!! xoxoxo

 

[PreshFest]

ugh. Can't post it... Can't I just upload from my computer? I don't get it...

I have to leave right now for my blood test anyway... I'll keep you posted.

 

[JPARR01]

Let us know how you make out! FINGERS CROSSED!!!

 

[epump]

ooohhh...keep us posted!! Good luck! xoxo

 

[PreshFest]

BFN!!! On to next month!! Grr.

 

[TrAyBaby]

Oh no Presh i was just about to post a good luck message to you then noticed your bfn post. What tests did the docs do? Is it a bfn for definate or is there still a chance this month? x

 

[PreshFest]

My hcg level was <1, so it's a done deal. I'm definitely not pregnant. I'm just SO relieved to know that I almost don't care about the result. I got so worked up over it and i don't know why! Hopefully I can remain calm and stress free next month. Any one have any good pointers on how to successfully do that??

 

[Renzalxx]

My hcg level was <1, so it's a done deal. I'm definitely not pregnant. I'm just SO relieved to know that I almost don't care about the result. I got so worked up over it and i don't know why! Hopefully I can remain calm and stress free next month. Any one have any good pointers on how to successfully do that??

Bummer Presh, fingers crossed for next time.xxx

 

[coxy1978]

awwww, sorry to hear that Presh!

Good Luck for a new month!

I think I would be a hypocrit to give any advice about how to stay calm and not obsess.... im a total obsessive worrying maniac since the ectopic...never been like this before. I constantly think there is something wrong with this pregnancy! i wish i could just relax but i cant!

 

[TrAyBaby]

coxy i know how you feel, im constantly stressing out about this pregnancy thinking that something is wrong or going to go wrong. In fact this week my symptoms have all seemed to subside or go away. So i called my doctor in a panic but she was on holiday. I spoke to another one and told her my history but she was rather rude and unhelpful. She wouldnt let me have another scan to put my mind at ease, unless i was in pain or bleeding, but after a while she said she would give me another beta blood test. I have to ring for those results in a few hours. But thats not very helpful. I need to see my bean to make sure everything is ok. Im going crazy and so stressed out that this cant be very helpful for my bean. My sister had 3 m/c in a row and a few of them were missed m/c so she didnt find out till her 12 weeks scan. Thankfully she is 22 weeks pregnant now though. So after my stressful few days my wonderful OH has suggested that we book a private scan to put my mind at ease as he doesnt want me to worry. So we have one booked for this saturday at 9:30 am, fingers crossed everything is ok. I wish i would have major symptoms just so i know everything is going the way it should.

 

[coxy1978]

aw TrAy, i really sympathise! I think we feel very similar.
Im suffering with excessive sickness and ive had the odd couple of good days here an there where ive not vomitted as much and even tho the sickness i present I STILL think the drop in symptoms means my pregnancy is failing.

However ive been pretty sick again today... feel like im going round in circles. Cant wait til my 12 wk scan either, and if little beanie is alive and kicking (and if my right tube hasnt ruptured from my paranoia of second baby growing in it) I am going to finally let myself celebrate!

xx

 

[TrAyBaby]

got my results back from the beta from wednesday and they were at 161214 so pretty high. But my mind still isnt settled yet SO have my private scan in an hour