TTC after miscarriage 2020

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  1. Lerp20

    Lerp20 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks all!

    I’m so anxious about this time round - my partner and I aren’t really celebrating as we know it may not stick!

    Any tips to calm my nerves?

    I know testing all the time won’t help!

    I do have slightly sore boobs and nauseous so feel like there’s good signs but you never know!
     
  2. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    So basically here’s my theory haha..seeing my [email protected] tests have not progressed and have gotten lighter it’s my thinking it’s leftover hcg. Frer being more sensitive are just catching whats leftover because of their sensitivity...today’s frer is no darker then yesterday’s frer..
    Bottom test today’s

     
  3. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    If the first ones have got lighter then it does look like it may be left over hcg or possibly a cp, you may have to keep testing before you know for sure.
     
  4. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    Yeah I agree. I’m going to leave testing alone for a good couple days and test. Thanks guys for your insight:)
     
  5. Bevziibubble

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  6. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    Started lightly spotting last night..praying it’s period so we can move on to officially ttc.:)
     
  7. Bevziibubble

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  8. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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  9. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Older mummy TTC our Rainbow baby

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    Hi hon I just wanted to say I'm so very sorry for ure loss.
    And sending u hugs.
     
  10. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Older mummy TTC our Rainbow baby

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    Congratulations on ure new pregnancy i really hope this is ure forever take home rainbow baby.
     
  11. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Older mummy TTC our Rainbow baby

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    Anyone ever had blood work done for recurring Misscariges?

    I had my first blood draw done on Tuesday on CD4. Im cd 7 now.
    I have to have my second blood draw done 7 days b4 AF but I will book that in as soon as I know when I have ovulated.
    I've been told we can't try this cycle because if the bloodtests so feeling a bit down.
    Was gonna take a break from ttc , and start trying again in Dec.

    But im freaking out over my age and leaving it cud be potentially throwing 3 eggs down the pan.
    And what if one of them 3 eggs is the one?
    So now thinking of trying next cycle after I get blood results.

    I am nervous about a future pregnancy and having a 4th loss in a row.
    I hope these bloods will give me a answer on why I keep having early losses.

    Im so scared tho that im gonna get told really bad news.

    Thats why I was wondering if anyone has had these blood panels done and what do they do next if the bloodwork comes back noroml.
    Can these bloods tell me about my egg quality?
    I think there just testing a bunch of hormones b4 and after ovulation and also my thyroid.

    Im so scared im gonna get told can't ever have another baby.
    Im trying to stay positive but its so hard.
     
  12. xMissxZoiex

    xMissxZoiex Leo, Wyatt, Owen & Milo

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    I think OPK is positive today!, fingers crossed for me!.

     
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  13. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    Good luck!
     
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  14. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Good luck catching that egg.
     
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  15. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Older mummy TTC our Rainbow baby

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    Good luck hon.
     
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  16. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Good luck!
     
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  17. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    Good luck! That’s a great positive!
     
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  18. xMissxZoiex

    xMissxZoiex Leo, Wyatt, Owen & Milo

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    Thank you ladies!!, it's going to be a long TWW!!
     
  19. MrsKatie

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  20. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    I hope it speeds up for you!
     
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