TTC after miscarriage 2020

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by salamander91, Feb 11, 2020.

  1. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Older mummy TTC our Rainbow baby

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    So sorry hon. It really sucks.
    Im just waiting for AF now. Will be here Friday or Saturday.
    So onto next month](*,)

    I been using the femometer opks and they were really dark when I got my positive this cycke and last cycle.
    I tried the wondfo ones out this cycle and really like those.
    Also love the [email protected] ones and mommed.
    Just stay clear of the one step ones I never got on with them .
    I like the tests were the test line goes darker than the control line.
    All those tests I mentioned the line goes darker than the control line so very easy to know when u get ure positive.
    But the one step ones never got darker and I found them hard to read.
    A few worked well but some were terrible
     
  2. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    We all know better right? I wasn’t expecting anything on the test this morning. I wasn’t even going to test. But there is a darker line there. But it’s too light with too little progression. I hate this.
     
  3. xMissxZoiex

    xMissxZoiex Leo, Wyatt, Owen & Milo

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    I have the femometer ones right now and they're SOO faint, even the control line is very faint. I've just taken one (only CD7 so not expecting much) but its completely blank and the control line is even patchy. I don't know if i just got a dodgy batch of them but they're annoyingly faint!.
     
  4. xMissxZoiex

    xMissxZoiex Leo, Wyatt, Owen & Milo

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    I can see the line is darker today, sending big hugs hope you get answers soon! <3
     
  5. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    Thanks hun. I just don’t know what to think. Fmu was bad. Smu was great. I did a random afternoon pee. The ic is good but the frer is light again... it’s doing my head in! I don’t think I can expect a positive outcome with so much inconsistency.
     
  6. Lerp20

    Lerp20 Well-Known Member

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    Hi all,

    so it’s 7 days till AF is due but I took a test today and there’s a line! I’ve just taken a frer too and there’s a line.

    I feel sick. I know you are meant to be happy but I’m just so worried about it not working out!

     
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  7. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Congratulations. Fx its a sticky bean. :dust:
     
  8. salamander91

    salamander91 Well-Known Member

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    Congratulations lerp! :bfp:
     
  9. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    Congratulations :)
     
  10. LuvallmyH

    LuvallmyH The 1 whom many call Mom

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    Congrats lerp! Fx for a sticky
     
  11. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Congratulations!
     
  12. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    Sorry if this has been brought up already..basic back story..aug 7 went for ultrasound was to be 9 weeks scan showed baby with no hb measuring 6w 5d.. d&c on aug 8 and had no bloodwork to show levels were down to not preg.
    I’m getting lines in preg test and I’m guessing it’s leftover hcg still in my system.

    frer are not taken at consistent times bottom is this mornings with fmu other two
    We’re 2.5 hour holds. Does the length of Hold still matter and affect the strength of your line even if it’s leftover hcg?? Does that make sense?

     
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  13. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    Also we dtd 2 weeks after d&c and I was having a lot of ewcm but my ovulation cramps I usually get was there but didn’t intensify like it usually does unless I o on left sode‍♀️ Just feels highly unlikely I would get pregnant this soon after..4 weeks post d&c this Saturday.
     
  14. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Hi Nicoley...sounds like it could be either! Maybe test again in a couple of days to see if the line gets stronger or weaker?
     
  15. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    I had retained products from my mc and was getting lines for 7 weeks after my first medical management and the lines always seemed to be the same colour. The fact that they are getting darker makes me think new pregnancy. It is totally possible to get pregnant that soon.
     
  16. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    I’m going to try and get 2 more frer and see if there is progression in the morning.
     
  17. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    I just question new pregnanct because it’s from different hold times 8if that makes sense. So I just think if it’s not held as long the line will be lighter.
     
  18. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    I'd test with fmu over next few days and you should get an answer. Fx for you.
     
  19. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Yes I agree, FX for you x
     
  20. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    Good luck for testing :)
     

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