TTC in June anyone

[CurlyRose]

Sorry to hear that swimmy, but at least with information you can now access help and try to get around the issues. How is Mr Swimmy taking it? Look after yourselves

 

[swimmyj1]

he didn't take it well. I think we both for so long have thought I was the issue that we never really talked about what if it was him. He got upset and told me no way were we using a donor and if I wanted kids I would just have to leave him he is done trying. I know hes just really upset about it and needs some time to process but it was really hurtful of him to say it. He's my best friend I couldn't leave him. We haven't even met with the specialist yet or made an appointment for that matter lol but now idk if I could get him to go trying not to get to depressed about it. Going to go kayaking when I get out of work in the morning that always makes me feel better. then hopefully him and I can talk.

 

[CurlyRose]

I should imagine it's a terrible shock, I know my oh would likely respond in the same way to start with, but a bit of time and space usually allows people to think more rationally. Perhaps take a bit of time off? Is there somewhere you'd like to go, or something you'd like to do, which would be difficult with a bump or tiny child? I can't imagine how hard this is for you both right now, but sending hugs.

As for me, bfn again, expected, still far too early, I'm somewhere between 4 and 10 dpo, depending on what length this cycle decides to be!

 

[swimmyj1]

Unfortunatly I just got back from a week off work we are going on a trip up north in the middle of july but it's going to be a family trip so that's going to make it more stressful I'm going to continue to temp this month and do opk's so I time my labs correctly but I think after that I'm going to be taking a break from it all. At least until we get some ideas of what to do from the specialists. I know there are things my DH can defiantly change about his lifestyle that would help (stop smoking, drinking and cut the caffeine) but I don't see that happening anytime soon.

Yeah even 10dpo can be early for a bfp. fingers crossed for you though! It would be great for someone to get some good news!

 

[Libbystepof4]

I'm so sorry, Swimmy! Hopefully the specialist will be able to help!

 

[RayinNY]

sorry to hear that Swimmy- maybe with a little bit of time to digest, he will feel differently. I hope that you are able to relax and enjoy the summer a bit now that you have some of the answers, at least

 

[mininun1]

So sorry to hear that, Swimmy. Hopefully you can take some time over the next few weeks to relax and de-stress a little.

 

[Nervous nelly]

Awww Swimmy sending u hugs, sorry to hear that 😔 he probably only said it out of love rather than meant anything bad by it, unsure of what do or say most likely. disappointed for himself and for u 😔Go see what the specialist says snd where u go from here. Pls don't lose hope no one knows what really goes on inside our bodies and one little fella is all it takes so u never know. I am thinking of u and sending u my best. 😘😘😘😘😘

 

[littlelily]

Aww, swimmy, sending big hugs. Try to have a break for a while and I'm sure your dh will come around to seeing the specialist and on the bright side, at least there are things you know he can do ( like stop smoking etc). If he was super healthy, it would be difficult to know why counts might be low.

There are lots of ladies who know a lot about all things SA you can talk to too when you're ready.

Look after each other and let us know how it goes xx

 

[littlelily]

Mini, we are due the witch at the same time, I forgot! Due on Saturday. Feeling 'out' but not for any real reason so fingers crossed for us all.

Same. Definitely not feeling pregnant but hopefully I'm wrong. Have you had any unusual symptoms?

Slightly crampy in my back and ovary area but only on one side which is a bit strange and super really extra tired but could as much be Af as anything. You?

Anyone else symptoms? Or near o?

 

[mininun1]

Mini, we are due the witch at the same time, I forgot! Due on Saturday. Feeling 'out' but not for any real reason so fingers crossed for us all.

Same. Definitely not feeling pregnant but hopefully I'm wrong. Have you had any unusual symptoms?

Slightly crampy in my back and ovary area but only on one side which is a bit strange and super really extra tired but could as much be Af as anything. You?

Anyone else symptoms? Or near o?

I'm very crampy today - I woke up extra early this morning because of them. Blah! That's pretty normal for me right before AF though. What about everyone else?

 

[CurlyRose]

I feel disappointingly normal today, aside from still sore boobs, but unsure if I've just been busy so haven't noticed, or if big free past few days allowed me to invent stuff. Either way, I've made the most of it with a lone drink this evening!

 

[Nervous nelly]

I am only cd7 so waiting for O and have a wedding this weekend 🙈lots of drink 😬🙈

 

[littlelily]

Enjoy the drinks Nelly x

 

[Lilly_m]

Cd9 here, just bd'ing and waiting to O!

 

[mininun1]

AF is due to arrive on Saturday, I'm very crampy and irritable so I'm sure she will arrive on time unfortunately. I did start drinking the red raspberry leaf tea last night, so come on, strengthened uterus! I need you for July's ovulation week!

 

[Nikki1205]

Hi im trying to concieve baby #2 first was unplanned so new to all of the ov tests and stuff dont really no what im looking for i came off the implant had af for 5 days so now im in my fertile window when should i start testing? Tia x

 

[littlelily]

Cramps and very gassy today (yuck) back pain from yesterday has gone. Only my 2nd cycle so don't know if this is 'normal' for me. Thinking they are probably AF symptoms ( due on Saturday)

Any news? Ramblings or musings?
What does everyone have planned for the weekend?

 

[mininun1]

Yes, I'm due Saturday for AF as well, but looks like it might even show up on Friday (yayyy...) Concert this coming Saturday for us, then farmer's market on Sunday - our weekends for July and August are pretty packed, we have family visiting in a couple weeks, which I am very excited about, especially since it won't interfere with fertile window. Haha! Is it bad that I'm ready for ovulation week already, just to try and get this show on the road, so to speak? What about everyone else?

 

[swimmyj1]

Well me and DH had a good talk and he said he's going to try and cut back on the drinking and cut smoking. He's been taking fertilaid for the last month but it takes 3 months for you to get results so fingers crossed. If my 21day labs come back okay we are gonna give it 6 more months of trying on our own and if nothing we will go see the specalist. if mine come back bad we will go before then lol. Sorry long rant ladies. I'm CD7 fingers crossed we just get a miracle baby lol I just cant wait to ovulate and find out lol.