Just to add as femme said,I had a 34 hour established labour with my DD and did not really focus in anything else as I was in pain and so so tired plus high on gas and air!!Hopefully this is the worst case scenario for her.xx
Jesus! Established labour for me was only 6 hours and I was completely exhausted!!! But definitely was not up for texting anyone during that time, I was too busy clicking my epi top up and talking crap at people plus wriggling around in pain. I had loads of missed texts and calls and I hadn't noticed my phone making noise once.
I'm sure she's fine, probably just having a rough ride since she was dliated but not effaced she could be in the middle of an induction? Contacting the family is what they always tell you to do, I'm sure it doesn't mean anything.