Waiting for AF after M/C, anyone else? OCBM

[bluestars]

Haha dam those tests crys haha! I hate the two week wait!

LL- well didnt I sleep in later today so my temp is not what is should be hhaa. Aw well we dtd last night anyway. Not taken another o test yet. Still not signs of O. Really hope I do O soon though im away a week today! Xxxx

 

[Mrs A]

I had ERCP on 31st July. I'm currently on a month of the pill, before we ttc again.

 

[Aleeah]

Bluestars - I tried pre-seed (I say I tried, as I didn't tell hubby! I sneaked it in before!!) but I always either forgot to use it or used it too early. I've heard so many positive stories about it though, so I do think it's worth giving it a try. Like the others have said, you won't need as much as the packet suggests though, it gets quite messy!

I hope you ovulate soon, I'm sure you will, how is your cm? That's always my tell tell sign. How long are you out of baby dancing action for next week??

Literati Love - How are you feeling now? By Christmas we're going to have to move the whole thread to PAL I just know it!! It's funny you said the time's flying by when you're not symptom spotting, I found that too after my m/c, I think you're just so relieved to stop bleeding that you forget how many days have gone by. How bad do you get pms symptoms? My strongest (most disgusting too!) symptom is always diarrohea, horrible!!

Yes have scan next week, I'm trying to remain positive but it's hard to be so. I guess if things do turn out to be the worst, I'm much more prepared this time than last time. I've always been surprised in the past but this time I'm more ready for it. Also, at least I still have my appointment to see a fertility specialist in October, I'm keeping that appointment for now, just in case I need it (I really hope I don't).

Crysshae - Exciting that we're getting tests posted up now!! I don't see anything yet but I'm terrible at seeing lines at all (even in person!!). How many dpo are you now? It may well be too soon. I got negatives 1 day and the day after glaringly obvious positives with the bfp earlier on this year, guess because HCG doubles, you really can go from a negative to a positive very quickly. How are you feeling in terms of symptoms?

Nat - So pleased Nat is finally getting BFN (weird writing that!), so she must've needed that last bleed to get rid of the last of it.

Nina - How's the house packing coming along? When's the move in date? And how many dpo are you now??

Lindsay - You're nearly at 6 weeks now! How are your symptoms coming along?

I'm much the same, no further symptoms really, I've had a loss of appetite but that might be because I'm so busy at the moment. Slept better than I have in weeks last night , have brought a big stand fan up, I seem to get a lot warmer than I ever did before and think that might have been keeping me up at night.

xxxx

 

[Aleeah]

I had ERCP on 31st July. I'm currently on a month of the pill, before we ttc again.

I'm so sorry you find yourself here Mrs A. We've all been through it, so hopefully can support you as much as possible. We're all on a mission to get BFP's before Christmas, and I do hope you do too with us.

Did you go onto the pill to help bring AF on? Just curious.

xxx

 

[crysshae]

Mrs A - I'm so sorry to be welcoming you to this thread, but these are a great bunch of ladies with loads of support to give.

Blue - Exactly! Stupid tests and TWW. I hope you catch that egg!

Aleeah - I'm glad to hear you're able to get some sleep with a fan. I always have a fan on at night. I'm 11 dpo now. I've had a few symptoms, but they can probably all be chalked up to PMS and wishful thinking as usual.

Lindsay - How are you feeling?

Nina - Hope you're doing well. Any symptom spotting?

Nat - Hope you return soon.

LL - Thanks. When you have a POAS addiction, it's cheaper to use ICs. Time does seem to move a bit faster when you're not looking for every symptom. Yay for getting close to your next trying cycle!

Test was stark white today. So that first one I picked out of the package was just a bad one. It could've kept itself at the bottom so maybe I wouldn't have come across it until I actually had a BFP.

 

[Lindsay109]

Crys, I couldn't see anything on those other pics you posted. Hopefully it's just a little too early. You're right, those IC's can be cruel, lol.

LL, just one more week before you can start trying again!! That's so exciting!

Blue, good idea dtd anyway, best to be prepared How long are you going away for? Sperm can live for a few days, so even if you ovulate 2 or 3 days after you leave, you may have a chance.

Aleeah, I'm surprised your hubby didn't notice you'd used the pre-seed, lol. My hubby said the other day that he prefers dtd when we are not trying because we don't have to use the preseed... apparently it's too slippery, lol. That was the first I heard of that, so I'm glad he was a good sport when we were trying, haha. I have a good feeling about your scan, I think you're going to be happily surprised

Nina, how are you doing? How goes the packing? Have you tested yet?

Nat, I hope you come back soon!

Mrs A, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss There's a lovely supportive group of ladies here... I hope it will help you as much as it has helped me.

As for me, I'm definitely queezy now. Also had a craving for root beer yesterday which was really weird because I do not like root beer, lol. Other than that I'm feeling much the same. I've been feeling much more relaxed and positive about this pregnancy the last couple days... I'm not sure where that came from, but I am happy about it and I hope it lasts.

 

[crysshae]

Sounds like baby likes root beer! I'm glad you're feeling happy and positive. And if you're craving something you don't usually like, that's definitely a good sign baby is growing in there just as should be.

 

[bluestars]

Hey yeah been dtd last night and again tonight. Got another peak positive on opk again todayand totally screwed my temp this morning so I duno what or where I am ahaha. Will do the deed again tonight. Cm is there. Im not 100% sure if its dead sperm (sorry) or actualt cm... haha. Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Woohoo Blue!

Semen doesn't really stretch, and if you drop it in water, it disappears. EWCM dropped in water makes a ball and drops to the bottom.

 

[Lindsay109]

Sounds like baby likes root beer! I'm glad you're feeling happy and positive. And if you're craving something you don't usually like, that's definitely a good sign baby is growing in there just as should be.

I hope so!

 

[bluestars]

Crys you have been playing about with too much wet stuff haha. Im not convinced I have anout of anything to test the theory... hehe. But thats a very interesting fact haha.

Meant to say. Sorry to see you here mrs A hope you are doing ok and welcome. Great bunch of ladies here for support when and if you need it. Also great for random chats too. Xxxx

 

[Mrs A]

I went on the pill to try to quickly regulate my af and to ensure I don't fall pregnant before I've had an af.

Thanks for the lovely welcome, it really is nice that we can all support each other

 

[Lindsay109]

Hey yeah been dtd last night and again tonight. Got another peak positive on opk again todayand totally screwed my temp this morning so I duno what or where I am ahaha. Will do the deed again tonight. Cm is there. Im not 100% sure if its dead sperm (sorry) or actualt cm... haha. Xxx

Yay!! Hopefully you'll ovulate in the next day or so and then you won't have to worry when you're away

 

[bluestars]

Hope so linds!

Thats a quick way to regulate cycle mrs A and a good plan hehe. Xxx

Nd food craving is amazing sign! Xxxx

 

[bluestars]

Third peak fertility on cbfm !! I don't think this can be right surely???

Any of you lovely ladies used cb? Not chancing it though the deed has been done haha!

How are you all doing?

Nina Howar you ? Any clearer yet ? Xxx

 

[crysshae]

I don't know anything about the cbfm. Sounds like you've got it covered though.

Doing well. DH and I had date night last night and tried a restaurant we haven't tried before. The atmosphere wasn't what I had expected, but the food was good. Working this morning. Thinking I should probably clean the house after. DH will be taking his first long ride on his new motorcycle with his buddies this evening.

How are you? Getting more signs of O now??

How is everyone else?

 

[bluestars]

That sounds lovely crys! (Not the house cleaning ng part) .

Donalds and I's anniversary on monday hes taking mee out then.

Loads of ewcm! Like most ive ever had I think.... lol apart from that no I dont think any other signs

Possitive starting to show on cheapie o tests too now xxxx

 

[crysshae]

Happy almost anniversary! Those are very positive signs! I have high hopes for you this month!

 

[Aleeah]

Sounds lovely Crysshae. And know what you mean about cleaning, hubby was working today so I've been going cleaning mad, then did a mad fitness DVD, embarrassingly it's a pregnancy one and the woman was 7 months pregnant and I couldn't keep up!! I have stick legs and they were shaking!!!! Hhhmmm, if this pregnancy continues I need to get back to exercise!

Bluestars, hope you're setting the romance as definitely get to lots of baby dancing, especially if you have tonnes of cm. I thought I'd ovulated sooner than I had following the m/c but then when I did ovulate I couldn't believe how much cm I had. Do a good sign for you too, I was going to buy a cbfm after this cycle, so can't help with that but if your cheapie ovulation sticks are going positive I'd say it's happening now. Are you temping? Good luck missy, now go catch those little swimmers!!!

How's everyone else?xx

 

[Lindsay109]

Blue, I am not familiar with the cfbm either... but certainly sounds like you are about to ovulate. Also sounds like you've got all your bases covered! Happy Anniversary! What are you going to do for the special day?

Crys, sounds like a lovely date night I hope the rest of your weekend is good!

Aleeah, I'm having trouble keeping up with my regular exercise routine too, lol. I feel very out of shape these days... I find I have to take things a little slower to catch my breath.

We're off to help my sister and her boyfriend today, they are moving in together soon and bought some new furniture from ikea and need help building it. May go out for sushi afterwards... yum!