I found out we are having a boy. I am over the moon but really thought it was a girl I already got a daughter she's 3 and is really good now I'm having a boy I just can't get used to it. For one when I'm shopping all that catches my eye is girls clothes they defiantly have more things for girls I just cant get used to blue and I dont like any boys names! I know how lucky I am having one of each as not every one gets the chance and this is our last child. Did anyone else feel the same after having a girl?
No, I'm not prepared to have a boy, either, and frankly, I don't want a boy.
As awful as that sounds.
I've been through such hell with my two grown sons. I love them like crazycakes, but I don't want to do it again.
I want a girl. It will be difficult for me to accept another boy. But of course I will, if it comes to that. I'll be happy by the time he's born, i'm sure.
I'm nothing if not resilient.
* edit: my preference has nothing to do with clothes or anything like that. it just has to do with family dynamics, and with my own (and my husband's) strengths and weaknesses as parents.
We're decades older now than we were when my sons were little, and our energy is far less.
I just want a girl, dang it. I want a girl so bad.
