We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[eme]

Your OH is siding with HER?!?! Hun, seriously, this needs to be addressed head on tomorrow. You can't keep living like that and you can't let your children see him treating you that way. Allowing it or ignoring it is the same as saying it's okay.

 

[UniqueBeauty]

All I want him to do is hug me but I shouldn't have to ask him for one, why should I.

I may as well just go get into bed with my little boy.

 

[ab75]

You shouldn't have to ask and he shouldn't be siding with her.
Try to calm down for your little boy and your little bean. Your OH needs to realise, tomorrow, how he has made you feel xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I'll be waking up with golf ball eyes tomorrow. I just can't believe he's not said anything to me. His friend said he's sorry for what the girls said to me and the situation. Ugh I may just go bed

 

[ab75]

Why would he side with her!? You are the mother of his children!!
I hope you manage to get some sleep xx

 

[ab75]

Good morning ladies, hope you are all well.
UB, hope you get things sorted out today xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Morning thanks for being there last night
Basically what was my friend but probably isn't now has told my partner not to go over there anymore which was obviously my fault because I shouted at the girl we were talking about? she was talking about me behind my back and she even said I'm fully aware she's sat there. Who wouldn't shout at that? My eyes are so sore and puffy this morning. Where we live we have 0 friends so he's blamed me for last night and them falling out. When I piped up about him not touching me and the least he could do was hug his upset partner he said I don't deserve it but he caved in. At least i know it wont be happening again.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Oh my god I'm sorry but what an absolute dick head! Has he apologised for his terrible behaviour? I don't understand it, you did absolutely nothing wrong it's so unfair.

How are you feeling today? Hope your eyes aren't too sore

 

[UniqueBeauty]

No I had to say sorry believe it or not. My eyes are big and puffy and to top it off my boy threw his toy truck at me this morning and cut my lip open

 

[Mummy to be x]

Why on earth did you say sorry? That's just not right you did nothing wrong you shouldn't be made to feel like you did!

Ouch that sounds sore I hope he hasn't done too much damage the little monkey

 

[UniqueBeauty]

I'm just going to forget all about it but if she storms at me again and my partner doesn't stop her I won't be happy. These hormones don't help with crying because once I've started I seem to cry about everything! I was emotional with my son at the start too. My nausea seems to have eased though. Going ti have a look for baba on the doppler now

 

[ab75]

Sorry your having a rough time. Don't think you should have apologised! Xx

 

[Ziggie]

What a nightmare. You're supposed to be a team. A partnership! Never settle for second best.

As for me today... I'm still in bed!!!! I might be back in work Tuesday but I have 3 weeks leave booked after next week. Its going to KILL me when I go back. I will have been off work about 5 weeks. Insane!!!!!

 

[ab75]

Aahhh Zig lucky you, my dd2 woke up unsettled at 3am, got back to sleep then dd1 got up at 550am!! Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm just waiting for the mw, I think she may do my bloods, I hate that bit

Ziggie I bet your going insane!

 

[ab75]

Good luck with mw mummy xx

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Good luck with the midwife!

My next door neighbour just knocked on my door and said sorry to my OH for how she spoke to the girls last night but my what was 'friend' was drunk and was pushing it. My next door neighbours don't mess around and if they say shut up before I come down there and make you, they will. I know that they would take our side because they don't like the girls as they threw mud at their sons/nephews window a few weeks back when they were drinking and smashing bottles. I'm not sure what they're talking about. I feel a little embarrassed for crying so much because my hormones just took over!

UPDATE: The girl next door (butch lesbian so you don't imagine a girly girl ) will be having words with the girls now they're going to be sober. God help them It's nice to know your neighbours will stick up for you

 

[UniqueBeauty]

How's everyone feeling today? I can't believe how fast these weeks are going by. This thread has definitely helped.

 

[Kiwiberry]

I am so sorry UB for everything you are going through. That must be so hard to deal with. I can't say I would have handled that situation as well as you did. I am glad things have calmed down now and you have neighbors who are willing to stick up for you.

As for me, i had my 2nd scan yesterday! Baby's heartbeat was 177 this time and I am exactly on track with my ticker at 10 weeks 1 day (as of yesterday of course).

 

[ab75]

Glad your scan went well kiwi.
I feel ok today nausea wise, just very tired and I now have piles, so sore xx