We made the trimesters pass quickly!

[ab75]

Thanks, with Zoe I got full mat allowance, I was self employed and had paid enough nat.ins. with Zara I got £27 a week as I was still self employed but hadn't paid enough as I was on mat leave with Zoe, so who knows this time. Should find out by next week xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Good luck I hope you at least get something. Xx

What's everyone upto today? We've just had an email from the setae agents of our previous property telling us we will not be getting any of our £625 deposit back because they needed to decorate, the walls where in terrible state when we moved in and we have pictures in an email of proof, OH isn't happy, I've told him we need to appeal it.

 

[Carlyp1990]

Oh no mummy that's awful! The bond can't legally be released to them unless you agree though so that's good!

Ab I was working 16 hours when I got pregnant but I wouldn't have been entitled to maternity pay off them as I earned £6 under the limit so I just quit! I was working 7-10:15 mon-fri and it just wouldn't have been worth tiring myself out over it!
Iv just made ohs food the next 2 days, he has to eat 6 times a day for his new workout regime so I make him 4 meals per day in advance so he can warm it... saves me having to cook each time he wants to eat as he can't cook at all! Xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly your a good wife!

I know it's ridiculous, where I lived before I met OH I purposely left the house in a state (landlord was awful) and she tried taking my whole deposit but I disputed it with the tenancy deposit scheme and they only took 120 of it so I'm pretty confident they can't take all our deposit this time, x

 

[ab75]

Thats shit mummy. We paid £1000 deposit here and dh has heard that they try any excuse not to give it back. I hope you get it xx

 

[ab75]

Its crap Carly, not worth the effort. I'm glad I went off sick now!
Well done you. We're having our beef olives tonight! Yummy.
xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Yeah I heard that too ab, fx'd we can dispute it xx

 

[Ziggie]

I've had deposit issues before but it was someone I lodged off, she didn't have the decency to talk to me, just sent me an email after I moved saying she wasn't giving it back as she wanted to re-carpet!! Silly mare.

Well I've just had mw appt, all fine, baby is still sideways (I knew that as I can feel it's head sometimes lol, and I get kicks either side of my stomach!! Nothing above my bellybutton!)!! Got till 36 weeks to move though. Betting it won't little monkey.

 

[ab75]

Ziggy, Zoe was lying across the way when I went into labour, mw was concerned that she couldn't find her head in the right place, but she must've moved quick as came out no bother xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Glad the MW went well zig, fx'd baby moves for you Madeleine was breech up until week 38, I had a c-section booked and everything and then she decided she would turn last minute!

 

[ab75]

Lol, little monkeys xx

 

[Carlyp1990]

Fingers crossed baby moves for you Zig! I think this one's head down already because I keep getting the pains in my cervix I got when katie was head down although I'm sure that was alot later on!
All our reusable nappies have arrived now, i'm so excited to use them, they're so so cute! I'm hoping for another sunny couple of days do I can get them all washed and dried.
Iv got my mum coming round later as she's picking up my ranitidine and gaviscon prescriptions for me as it's a 30 min walk to the Dr's for me and I need it today otherwise I can't sleep without it :-/

 

[Mummy to be x]

Aw that's so sweet of your mum Carly x

 

[Swtpinkbabi]

So I had my visit with the doctor this morning. Instead of finally gaining weight, I actually lost some more . She said I'm having pregnancy as a weight loss plan the way it looks. Well as long as the baby is growing good I'm okay with it. The plus side is that I haven't had to buy new clothes, although I did buy a new maternity shirt and pants so I can look pregnant and not just fluffy sometimes. Its still hard to tell. I cant wait for my scan next friday, hopefully he wont be hiding his hands and face.

 

[Carlyp1990]

Pinkbabi that's crazy your losing weight! As long as your and your Dr are not concerned then it's fine though
I feel really agitated today :-/ everyone and everything is driving me crazy! Katie just came in and asked if i'm ok because I'm not acting like myself today... I feel so bad for her xx

 

[Ziggie]

Carly which nappies did you go for?! We are getting the bumgenius freetime going to order them from the nappy lady I think!! I liked the blueberry ones too, but couldn't find a good stockist

 

[Mummy to be x]

Carly that is so sweet of Katie, what a loving caring little girl you've got. I hope you feel better after a good nights sleep, I know I usually do

 

[Carlyp1990]

Zig we've just gone for ebay cheapies for now, funds are tight at the minute so thought we better just try those first and if we do get on with cloth we can buy a few more expensive ones as and when
Mummy she really is! She's such an amazing little girl, I'm so proud of her. Well it my turn for a lie in tomorrow which means katie will probably get oh up late anyway... she usually does! I'm up at 6:30 with her most days but she will stay in bed until 8 ish tomorrow xx

 

[Mummy to be x]

Enjoy your lie In Carly, I love it when we can have a lie in and we don't need to get up for nursery! I do wonder what it's going to be like having a new born and a 3 year old after sleepless nights from night feeds x

 

[UniqueBeauty]

Sorry to hear that about your deposit, they will try anything.

I am pretty pissed off tonight, I walked to mothercare today to get Jay a swim suit and arm bands for Saturday when we take him swimming so I rang OH to let him know, he said hey don't go spending all the money I don't have any wages this week. I said you better be f*cking joking? He said well I'll have about 50 quid (still giving his brother 200!) I said to him you're not touching the money I have here. So much for f*cking going up there and sending me money down here and meant to be coming out with 400 quid! Excuse my french I'm just so angry. I was meant to be getting this pram after waiting weeks and weeks to get it and what on earth am I meant to say to the woman now? How will I pay my rent, bills, debts? All together there's over 400 due in the next 2 weeks! So much for having a nice relaxing belated birthday weekend too.. bloody ridiculous. He better just be having me on or it's not going to be a very nice weekend when he comes down tomorrow night x