How long have you been together? Before we moved in together me and the hubby were like that? I didn't see my friends much because my weekends were always spent with him, he was my main focus, but then we moved in together and everything happened quickly, we got a mortgage, married and had a baby in just over a year. Was a huge change, we only had a few months together as husband and wife before Addison arrived and then we were suddenly Mum and Dad. Not that I'd change having Addison, he's my world, but just find it so easy to forget to be anything other than a Mum.
You definitely need to make time for you, see friends and do stuff away from him, its especially important once you live together.
I think everyone gets like that, they fall in love and their main focus is their partner and its easy to forget to be yourself and not just one half of this couple you've become.
My husband and I were madly in love once, and I dont know what has happened, I still love him and he says he loves me, but its like all the effort and the romance that we used to have has vanished. I'd like to get it back, but I can't do it alone, he needs to make an effort. I have the obvious worries, I worry that he doesn't find me attractive, he says he does but I'm not slim, I'm getting older and I just dont feel as attractive as I used to. I think his lack of effort plays a big part in me feeling like this.
Its nice that your boyfriend is enthusiastic etc, but make the most of it while you live apart, the time apart makes the time together even better. Oh I remember it well, sometimes I wish my husband didn't live with me...I miss the excitement of seeing him, now there is no excitement cos I see him all the time.
