we were sticking together till we all got our bfp and guess what we have done it :)

[Rachael1981]

Any sign of the post mand yet tryng?!

Scamp - I would donate eggs to you too, assuming mine are any good that is!

I'm not testing this month unless I'm late. I tested on Friday, but that was simply because it would have been nice to get my BFP the same day I moved in with OH, but it wasn't meant to be. Ditched everything this month though, no temping, no OPK's, just every other day at least once AF has left!

 

[wishing4baby3]

young wife i was testing from 8dpo while ttc but after 8 months and 2 bfp at 10dpo and then m/cing i decided i wanted to get to the 5 week mark before seeing the bfp line but i still caved and tested at 16dpo this time,i found not thinking about it and being relaxed helped out with that alot as i started thinking i could be from around 10-11dpo but it felt like i was still in the first week of the 2ww because i hadnt thought about it too much,it was defo the quickest 2ww ive had since ttc x x

 

[wishing4baby3]

rachael that may be a good idea as it will be less stressfull n less on ur mind,i really hope that you get ur bfp now your more relaxed and settled in with ur oh x x

 

[Scamp]

:wave: Thank you
ltttc is long term trying to conceive

How is everyone today? I've just got in from work, knackered after being up so early, was off last week so need to get used to the 5am starts again.
xx

 

[tryng4another]

Postman been and nothing. Also im not going to town now cos dd threw up will have to wait until tomorrow now. Xxx

 

[Rachael1981]

Norty postman

Hope DD feels better soon. I'm getting impatient now

Scamp - You're Welcome

I'm waiting for AF to leave so we can christen our new home

 

[tryng4another]

She will be fine thanks resorted to watching annie lol happy christening ur house lol xx

 

[Rachael1981]

Oh it will be very happy, once AF goes

 

[youngwife20]

ooh thats a great idea! just gonna keep busy! trying for another- i hope your postman comes soon! im gettinf excited for you!

 

[youngwife20]

sorry about your mcing! -wishing4another- i defently think the longer the wait the better , have you all decided not to drink while ttc? or still drinking untill bfp? and wishing4another did you drink when u were ttc?

 

[youngwife20]

oopa got names mixed up! lol i ment wishing4baby3!!

 

[tryng4another]

I only had a glass of wine at xmas i stopped drinking since oct. Xxxx

 

[wishing4baby3]

thankyou youngwife im thinking that maybe my pill was what caused them as the do something to the linging of the womb to stop them bedding properly and i ttc the same month i came off it and with me getting preg staright after my last mc which is very lucky im thinking the bad bleeding helped to remove what was left from my pill,i could be wrong but it makes me feel a little beta about them lol,i would have nights out with the girls the wk of af to try pick myself up from not getting pregnant and de stress from it all and that was it wouldnt drink any other time through the month but with both my kids i didnt expect to get pregnant so quickly as with my little boy it took 2 weeks so if im honest i realised i was pregnant both times during a night out as i got very drunk easily and was sick for a few days from it,
tryng how is ur little girl hope she is beta now for you and got everything crossed ur tests arrive tomoz for you ,
rachael hope you have fun cristening your new house ,my oh had a thing of doing it in every room but it wasnt for me i like my bed to much
scamp how are you today x x x x

 

[youngwife20]

oh i stopped drinking for awhile but last week had some champagne coz it was my hunnymoon felt guilty though!!

and im glad you got pregnant quick and i heard that its ok to drink for like the first few weeks but i don't wanna risk it.. is it ok for my dh having a beer? i banned hiim from drinking because i dont want the swimmers effected.. maybe abit over the top.. lol and im in a greatttt mood today!!! because my hubby is very laid back more the it will happen when its ment to sort of thing but when i got back today from dinner with a friend he said " steph we should get you this thing called an ovulation testing kit " and he started explainng the whole thing about what it is etc i literaly was so happy i was like "Hunni i was gonna suggest it but didnt want u to think i was gettin to obsessed bout it" HEHE so were gonna get one this week. what do you guys recommend? hubby things clearblue digital kit will be good? he seems to know more than me now haha

was also thinking about getting hubby some vitamins too.. not sure if the guy needs vitamins?


im only taking folic acid at the momment ,, what are you ladies taking?

 

[tryng4another]

Morning every1 tests came and i got bfn

Hows every1 keeping? Xxx

 

[tryng4another]

Youngwife im only taking folic acid too xx

 

[wishing4baby3]

awwww im so sorry tryng,when did you get a bfp with your dd as could it still be early for you ,
youngwife ive heard drinking and smoking actually effects the male more as it does weaken their sperm,my oh didnt stop drinking either but cut down to once a month like me,i just think the odd night out doesnt hurt as it does relax you and helps get the positive feelings back that it will happen but even a meal out with oh or friends will do the same trick,i only took folic acid too but there are some ladies on pregnancy vitamins which includes everything you need even folic acid but they arnt cheap,it is also great ur oh is so up for doing anything he can to help you as my oh didnt want do any of that as he did say he thought it was too much but obviously i didnt think so,
just checking you ladies dont mind me being on here still as i know it must be hard seeing me talking about how im feeling and you all want it so much,i just dont want you feel like your having it rubbed in your face,so please be honest with me,i try not talk about my pregnacy too much for this reason but dont want be making things harder for you guys big to you all x x x

 

[tryng4another]

Im not too sure when i got it with dd i know i was late though lol last time it was complete relaxation wasnt keeping track or paying attention to when af was due it was only that oh had asked me and i was like erm yeh im late i think lol i do think i was was about 4weeks gone cos a week later i had heavy bleeding and had a scan and they couldnt see anything when i went back a week later there was dd and could so the heartbeat going. I know i tested with first response and this time it was

Its good ur still her putting in ur positive thoughts for us all ur a great help and we also helped u. I like to hear how ur getting on cos i know there has been a few times u have been worried. Plus its good to know ur symptoms too xxxx

 

[wishing4baby3]

well try stay positive then tryng as the hasnt shown her ugly face so far ,id give it a few more days plus your saying a week after you got ur pos with dd you had the scan with a heartbeat which doesnt usually start untill around 6 weeks so could you of been 5 weeks gone with dd when you got ur bfp ,
awww thankyou i just like to check because i know its hard on you guys too but as long as your happy im very happy to stick around ,its a shame all the other ladies dont come on here any more but at least we got some newbies x x x

 

[tryng4another]

Yeh i will give it a few days and if nothing then i might go see my doctor. He told me january to go back in march if i didnt get pregnant. I still could well be getting a different cycle each month so i wont be back to normal since getting my implanon out.
Yeh we have lost a few but we have gained some too every1 is a great help and we will all get there eventually lots of dust for every1 xxxx