we were sticking together till we all got our bfp and guess what we have done it :)

[youngwife20]

Rach - i got the one u suggested! I ordered online so will be delivered . Did u order the stand with urs?

And trying wow so good hes head down and last midwife apointment thts great! I booked yoga classes to start 5th of jan to 9th of feb to keep me busy! Never tried yoga before

Ladies.. could u read my thread " do i tel my dad im pregnant even tho im in third tri" plz? And respond hee or there to let me know wht u think i shud do.. this situations rely effecting my mood and im havin issues being happy i just keep crying

 

[tryng4another]

youngwife i had a look at your thread. it was a hard call, but im sure u now feel u done the right thing. as someone said keep the ball in your court. the most important people now are you, baby and your husband.

hope you enjoy your yoga, it will keep a busy for a little time during the week. im sure ur so glad you have finished work now i advise u take it easy too now lol im really looking forward for oh to finish work for xmas, really starting to find just the easiest things so hard. then dd has been a little madam the last 2days with nothing working at the min. hopefully tomorrow she is in better form.

 

[youngwife20]

Thank you trying! i do feel abit better now!

and thank you bixie for helping xx

and trying yes i feel great that i can relax now and just look after myself lol happy days! and i hope your little princess is better for you tommorow! and aww not long till ur oh finishes for xmas then you can all relax together xx

 

[wishing4baby3]

trying- how cute is that! she put himm on her xmas lift lol your daughters so adorable! and wow less than a month and your baby will be here .

and wishing- shoppings coming along great! i think we have all the nessesities now lol but i want to get a sling thats a realy soft material instead of the back pack looking slings.

and we actualy still havent got the moses basket lol

im looking for a pink one. but all the moses i find its hard to get sheets to fit it!!

were did you get yours can you post the links?

we may be moving house soon so were not sure if we will bother painting the nursery.. as were looking out houses to buy which i find really exciting lol im gonna be 20 and own my own house lol but i hear its a long process lol so may not be done by the time shes born! lol xx



wishing- awww what a lovely birth story!! how are you feeling? what was the first thing you ate when you got home lol. how were you with visitors? were you okay with them or did you want your alone time? my auntis coming from america with one of her twins, and the babys great grandma is coming from nigeria and my other aunti might be coming from canada to see the baby. alot of ppl around lol xx

thankyou youngwife,im feeling great just a little tired but thats cause i cant sleep when she does as i still have run around after my other 4 lol,i just had my mum n stepdad and my ohs parents visit the day i had her because i made it clear i wanted my dd n ds have time settle with her first before everyone came and luckily everyone listened,just make sure they ,ake there own drinks n clean up after themself so you can relax,the first thing i ate when i got home was cottage pie so nothing exciting but i did enjoy duck n orange pate a few days later ,ive already upset friends too as they all want me go out up town but i wont leave laila just yet plus dont fancy the late night,some people just dont understand how different it is having a newborn than toddlers haha,ive also read ur thread on 3rd tri about ur dad,i honestly went through something simular except i aint spoke to my dad over it for 8 yrs now and even though my kids have been in the same room as him when my sister throws partys for my niece they aint got a clue he is there grandad n he aint allowed to speak to them so if you ask me he does not deserve to know for what he has put you through and if he didnt want be at ur wedding which should of been a dads proudest moment he doesnt deserve knowing even more,i know its hard but you need realise all this isnt ur fault and when ur baby girl is older n asks about him be honest and she will understand ur option without a doubt cheer up and concentrate on yourself n baby girl thats all that matters right now x x

 

[wishing4baby3]

trying she is doing great and very well behaved,she wakes between 2 n 3am for a feed and then sleeps till 6 to 7am so cant complain at all,she is a little gem,ONLY 15 DAYS left too for you are you very excited x x

 

[wishing4baby3]

rach bet ur getting excited now as ur scan is tomoz isnt it,il keep everything crossed n will try get 5 mins come on for your update x

 

[tryng4another]

Wishing sounds like she is doing well during the night 2weeks today and i cant wait at all

 

[wishing4baby3]

well put ur feet up now and chill as honestly you forget how much little me time you get when they arrive,i honestly get 5 mins to myself now n that having a bath or shower hahaha x x

 

[youngwife20]

Wishing - aww thank u so much for letting me know what u think and sorry for what u went thrru with ur dad xx and gosh i wouldnt leave my new born for a very long time lol apart from maybe when shes a few months il go cinema and live her with hubby but il be ringing to chek how she is alll the time lol

I bet u are very tired! I hope u manage to get a nap!! And time for ur self ! Xx

 

[youngwife20]

Oh and ive finished work wooohoo lol first day not in work and im bored lol x

 

[tryng4another]

wishing its easier said than done isnt it lol i cant just relax myself, got so much going through my head then katie is constantly messing about. the good thing is oh has his xmas leave starting on monday and i really cant wait. then he is off until january some time as he will have his paternity on top of it.im hoping when katie starts nursery in january i will get a little time to myself. though i know what im like i would be getting home and doing the housework as i cant just leave it lol

youngwife yay u have your time off now its really hard leaving them for the 1st time lol i think dd was about 5/6months when i first left her over night with my mum and it was hard. you constantly think about them lol i just kept texting to make sure everything was fine lol after the 1st few times though you will be fine. u end up not worrying so much. when i lived back home dd would stay with my dad a lot. in fact the night before my section dd will be staying with my inlaws at the hotel and to be honest im rather looking forward to it right now. so that night it will be a night totally for me sometimes u just enjoy the break

 

[Rachael1981]

Youngwife yay for being finished and for ggetting the moses basket! My sister bought me mine and bought the basket, rocking stand and bedding set. I've looked for your thread but thinks it's gotten buried, though it sounds like you're sorted out now.

I'm so excited for tomorrow it's unreal!

 

[tryng4another]

good luck for scans tomorrow rachael and bixie. will be looking forward to hear how it goes. also hoping that baby co-operates tomorrow rachael

 

[youngwife20]

Hi ladies in hospital. Rushed in an ambulance with bad stomach pains was on the labour ward they checked and shes high upp and ive had no bleeding and they monitered her heartbeat and shes doing great so there not worried soo they moved me up to the ward so will be here over night not sure what the pain is as im still in pain - i think it might just be stress or something so will jus get lots of rest - hope ur all ok xx

 

[Rachael1981]

hope you're ok xxx

 

[tryng4another]

Hope ur ok. If its stress then its good u have finished work now. Rest as much u can. Glad ur little girl is ok. Xx

 

[youngwife20]

Thank u ladies!! Im going home today!! They said my little girl was moving and kicking so much she bruised my insides! Which is why it was so painful..i didnt even think that was possible lol xx

 

[Rachael1981]

I'm team pink ladies x

 

[tryng4another]

Congratz rachael another little girl in the group xx

 

[tryng4another]

Glad ur getting home youngwife glad it wasnt anything serious. She must be 1 strong little lady. Xx