What are you doing on your wedding night? We get the bridal suite included in our package and my mum and a friend will also be staying in the hotel and have offered to have the kids in their room with them so that we can have a night to ourselves. Obviously we'll be looking after the kids throughout the day/evening its just that they will be sleeping in their rooms. Somebody said to me that they think if you have kids when you get married then you should get a family room or go home with the kids and it made me feel quite bad about my decision. My friends mum had her daughter for her on her wedding night and I thought it was quite common? Obviously we have offers anyway so its not an issue for us but OH's brother gets married in October and he's struggling to find someone who will have his kids. Now don't get me wrong I would never expect someone to have my kids (although I'm glad of the offers) but I don't think its unreasonable to want to have a night to yourself if the offers there, or am I just being selfish lol.