I have to agree with the girls who say you won't care. You really won't !! Also you probably won't even know you're even doing a poo, when it comes to it ! They have pads there for the exact purpose of whisking away anything that shows up. I didn't know that I did, until I asked the nurse why she kept rolling the pads into balls and tossing them, I thought I was bleeding a lot.....Same with farts, TRUST ME when I say you just won't care ! When I was at that crucial moment, i couldn't have cared less if my Dad walked in and had a look ! It's not worth stressing about, you'll see...