Wishing for a Christmas baby

[cheekybint]

Hey all!

Love the new title HM!

Good luck with the tests today RG, let us know how it went

I'm getting myself all geared up for BDing this week. Although OH has pulled a muscle in his lower back and in a lot of pain so i'm not sure we'll be doing anything lol

Feeling strangely relaxed about it all this month which is odd, but i'm not complaining. Hopefully it'll last into my LP and i won't be freaking out and doing lots of tests!! 2ww is expected to start on Sunday, if i ovulate on time, so we'll have to wait and see. There's no tests in the house and i'm hoping to keep it that way until the end of the month!

Fingers crossed for everyone this cycle xxxxxxxxx

 

[caro103]

Reedsgirl-how did today go? did you get results right away?

Cheeky good luck in managing to BD to catch the egg!

If i'm totally honest I feel really down in myself right now, not sure its even TTC related though don't think its helping. Works pretty tough too so thats not helping, arrr if only I had my BFP i'm be soo happy! this really isn't like me either how do you girls keep your heads up?

 

[kissyfacelala]

i know exactly what you mean Caro!!! i am sad too....really wish I had that BFP and AF would show so I can start fresh again!

I talk to my cousin a lot...she has had fertility problems too and ended up adopting...only option for them...I can't really talk to my husband since he is taking a way more laidback approach to all of this...but I do not hold it against him since some things like this just need a woman's touch....we are the only ones that understand our bodies...he is positive about it all and is willing and able to anytime I want!! just doesn't understand all the timing and temping stuff...

as for us girls, the best thing to do is just to talk about it here and with our other friends...

I also try to keep my mind occupied with other stuff like work and the things I enjoy....

spring is on its way and gonna start going for walks again... clears my mind and the exercise doesn't hurt and just may help with the TTC

Relax and stay positive that is all we can do!

 

[caro103]

Thanks Kissy. Totally know what you mean about DH being laid back, they just don't get it. Having a hard time at work doesn't help either!

Hope AF comes for you so you can start again, unless you get a late BFP! xxx

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Evening ladies. Test went well and he said"TUBES ARE OPEN AND ALL LOOKS GOOD!!" So I am happy with that and just wait it out now...
I think that the time of year has alot to do with our "laidback" attitudes this month as I am really too busy to worry about it much right now..
I keep you all in my prayers and hope that is okay God works in strange ways and never gives us more that we can handle at one time so maybe we just all have full plates at the moment...mmm I would gladly clear mine off though for a sticky little bean!!

 

[cheekybint]

Fantastic ReedsG!! So pleased you got positive results, now just need that elusive BFP to finish off!


For anyone who's interested, i laid down some rambling in a thread this morning that i actually thinks makes some sense!

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/290666-shettles-method-taking-next-level-d.html

Let me know what you think lol

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Hey Mel I thought that was some interesting reading and commented on you thread...

 

[kissyfacelala]

Very nice Mel! I would love a girl so I can name her after my maternal grandmother but at this point I just want a BFP!

I wouldn't mind changing it up a bit in the bedroom either! Don't want TTC to seem like a chore!

 

[cheekybint]

I thought it made some messed up sense lol

I've babbled it down the phone at the OH and he sees where i'm coming from lol So from tonight onwards we're alternating position each night and i'm going to give up one orgasm every other night lol (the down side of my theory lol)

 

[caro103]

Hey kissy, your thread sure did make me giggle! hope you and your OH have fun tonight

xx

 

[kissyfacelala]

Glad to bring a smile to you Caro! Heaven knows we need to smile....

CD36 and my temp did not rise at all this month....so I know I am out this month!

can't believe I am saying this but where is that awful witch!! i want her now!! LOL

 

[caro103]

Evening girls, how is everyone?

I feel like my PMA may be returning! def on the climb out of the hole. And the weekend fast approaching has gotta be helping!

Cheeky, your thread is interesting! hope you and OH had fun trying out alternating xxx

 

[reedsgirl1138]

HOw is everyone today?? I have a flippin cold still and still waiting to O...so I am nice and boring right now. LOL

 

[caro103]

Lol, how are you reedsgirl? (apart from being bored waiting to Ov!)

Whats the plan for you now that you know your tubes are clear? keep trying? or they gonna try something else?

The closer I get to Ov'ing the more I wanna give it a shot this month! hehe, we'll see what happens!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Lol, how are you reedsgirl? (apart from being bored waiting to Ov!)

Whats the plan for you now that you know your tubes are clear? keep trying? or they gonna try something else?

The closer I get to Ov'ing the more I wanna give it a shot this month! hehe, we'll see what happens!

Well I am going to keep trying this month. And hoping to get to bd everyday this next week starting on Saturday which can be quite the chore as when dh doesn't want to I have to get "creative" to get him to cooperate. LOL. BUt my kiddos will be at their dads all week and this is my prime week so it would be wonderful to get a BFP this month if not on to FS next month and go from there...

When you due to O Caro?

 

[kissyfacelala]

hey everybody! it seems everyone is in good spirits except me....

waiting for

can't believe I had anovulatory cycle

want this cycle to end so I can start fresh!

i am sad about all of this....we did everything right this month too

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Kissy I am so sorry this was not a good cycle for you. Hang in there sweetie. When is the evil one due?

 

[kissyfacelala]

thanks reedsgirl!!

she is due any day now...CD37 today...hoping the weekend she will come

only good news that my DH physical and blood tests results are all good

and we booked our vacation to the mexican riviera in may! going on our third cruise...maybe the time away is what we need to get that BFP!!!!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

A cruise sounds like a wonderful way to get a BFP!! Good luck!!

Well looks like I am going to O early this cycle I already have a line on my opk that is almost as dark as the control line...so bring on the BD tonight!!

 

[kissyfacelala]

Good luck reedsgirl!! Catch that egg!!