Wishing for a Christmas baby

[kissyfacelala]

 

[kissyfacelala]

actually I did a test this morning!! it was a !!!! as I suspected!

I know parsley tea sounds disgusting but whatever works! and gonna get DH to drink it too! it will lower his blood pressure! which in turn will also help him down there if you know what I mean! LOL

the joys of TTC!

 

[caro103]

well good luck with the parsley! :S

Cheeky, nope not heard from hippy at all but i'm sure she'll be back, think they were having a rest for a while?

No sign of me Ov yet, though BBs sore today and yest so think might be on schedule for Fri, just convincing DH to try this month. So far he;s insisted on condoms all so I can drink when on hols! only reason i agree really is that i wouldn't wanna tell his family (who we're going on hols with) before i tell my own parents, nor straight after getting BFP.

Good like in staying calm during the 2ww cheeky!

 

[caro103]

On a different note I've been doing lots research into short LP's, I've been charting for 5 months now and all but one has shown a LP of 9-10days, the one odd one was still only 12days...

I have a Dr appt next wk about something else but am thinking of mentioning it, what do u guys reckon? i don't think they'll take me seriously yet as not TTC for long, but I've noticed my AF's have been extremly heavy and painful since TTC so at the back of my overworking mind I do wonder, what if i'm concieving but not holding onto pregnancy...

mm might post this on general board too. cheers girls xxx

 

[kissyfacelala]

oh wow Caro! did not know that! i would definetely mention it to the doctor! short luteal phase can be a problem...

my cousin who has gone through all sorts of fertility issues and treatments says do not wait more than 6 cycles of TTC and her exact words were this....

As for the baby thing... I'm going to tell you what I was told by my doctors... after the BCP and trying 4-6 months on your own and it not working ... seek help... !!!!
If you don't... every month that passes by and you are not pregnant will be a month that the help received could have made it happened for you... so go see your family dr and get a referral to a clinic... maybe all they need to do is be the one's that transfer the sperm to the right place at the right time and blood work on a daily basis can tell them lots... so don't waste any more time... if you want that Christmas bundle you don't have any time left... trust me on this one... stop trying to do this on your own... God gave us fertility doctors for a reason... take advantage of the gift God gave ....I can see that not being pregnant is a stress for you and stress causes hormone levels to change... a fertility clinic can be something you keep to yourselves but can alleviate a huge amount of stress off of you knowing that you are in good hands... there is no shame in going to one... when I went I can tell you that the clinic was packed with women of all ages and races... times and women's stress levels have changed, our lifestyle isn't the same as it was for women 30-40 years ago... look at the stress you have at work... if you think that isn't affecting you... then you are just fooling yourself... I was doing fertility and couldn't get pregnant with their help even ... they asked me about my stress levels and when I told them how high they were I was told to make a change so I did... I switched jobs to a job that paid $20,000 a year less but it had no stress, just to get away from the stress.... and the next fertility treatment I was pregnant... the reason it didn't work for us is totally complicated though and my blastocysts were not multiplying after a certain stage... it's just natures way of saying that there would have been something wrong had it gone to term... it had nothing to do with the stress any more... but it was obvious that stress played a huge factor... think about what I'm saying to you... go for a consultation... you will only benefit from it...

 

[caro103]

thanks kissy, thats what everyone has said on the other board too, gulp, think i will have to ask! hopefully it'll be a quick fix

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Hello my friends. I am back. Not ttc this month. BUt my hubby and I are okay and taking it a day at a time. And it feels really good to relax and not worry for once. I am a worrier!! LOL. I do agree with you though Caro I am worried about wasting a egg but I am okay with that this month. Next month brings the FS and hubby and I are doing the what will be will be this month and back full wring next month.

Any BFP in the horizon this month??

 

[cheekybint]

YES I'M GOING TO GET MINE!!!

PMA PMA!

(Sorry following you around on here now lol)

 

[reedsgirl1138]

LOL!! I have a stalker!! YAY!! I know your getting a BFP this month as well!! I sent you all my baby dust!!

 

[caro103]

yay for PMA cheeky! babydust your way!!

I'm the same as you reedsgirl, just gotta get past 2mo without DTD and will have missed my chance this month and then can look forward to next month! Gonna tell the Dr on Monday too about short LP and see what she says. Next month will be the month!

 

[Danzer]

Hi ladies, I just wanted to pop in to say hi...hope that is okay! Wishing for BFPs for all of you soon as for me I'm doing fine, about 7 weeks along and just trying to be patient until my m/w appt in 2 wks!

Thinking of you girls and hope you are well! xx

 

[xLuciax]

Hey ladys how are we all? Hoping for a christmas baby too ovulating next week testing April 10th my birthday is december 10th my OH is december 29th so be so nice to have a baby in december also

 

[kissyfacelala]

Welcome xLuciax!!! the more the merrier!

good luck and

 

[caro103]

Hi Danzer, was wondering how you were getting on! Can't believe your 7 weeks already! you'll be in 2nd tri before I can catch you as we've given this month a skip

Welcome Lucia, nice to have you join us! how long have you been trying?

Kissy, any news on AF?

 

[kissyfacelala]

NO AF yet!!! if nothing by Monday calling my doctor.

Drinking parsely tea like there is no tomorrow and nothing!! but last night I had cramps very similar to those of AF and my temp was 36.6 this morning????

CD45....last cycle was 36 days

going nuts over here....

 

[caro103]

Aww grr, silly AF! hate it when she does show, but even worse when def not preggo cos you can't move on! hoepfully she'll show over the wkend, then onwards to next cycle!

 

[Shey]

for those that want December babies you will need to conceive this month or first week of april

 

[kissyfacelala]

thanks shey! but please tell us something we dont know!

 

[cheekybint]

Technically mine would be still a november baby if I've conceived this time round lol

 

[xLuciax]

Hey girls this will be month #2 of trying although it sorta seems more like month #3 but lets just call it number #2 lol. So hoping for a December baby, someone on this site recommended a tarot site not sure if any of you are into that sort of thing but, it wasn't these commercial tarot sites you see advertised was an independent lady, she does short email readings for £3.50 pretty accurate reading she said there would be a special event happening for me around November 23 - December 21 hmm wonder what that would be hehe. Pretty sure the woman that actually does the readings was/is a user on this site who just had a baby.