Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

[Lucie73821]

Hello all! Happy holidays!

So last night dh's parents had a holiday party. There were about 30 people here, 10 being under 18. Right in the middle of the party, dh's cousin had a seizure and fell down. Then he stopped breathing. Thank god that one of dh's cousins is a respiratory therapist, one is in nursing school, and one of his uncles was a police officer. Those three took over and handled the situation as best as it could be handled. What was really bad is that we couldn't get the kids (ranging in age from 3 to 16) out of the room because dh's cousin fell right in the entrance to the living room, blocking the path out of the room. We ended up having the kids just gather in the corner and turn around. Thankfully the two youngest (3 and 5) were too little to really understand what was going on. But some of the older ones got really upset. As we were waiting for the ambulance to arrive, one of dh's other cousins (he's around 12 I think) started throwing up in the living room. So imagine it, we've got about 15 people, most kids crowded in the living room, a man down being given cpr at the entrance to the room, and the rest of the family huddled in the dining room which is right past the living room. It was a very very scary time. Thankfully the paramedics got here, and he was breathing by the time they arrived. They ended up taking him to the hospital, and I guess he is ok and is resting at home now.

And to think, I was so worried about dh's aunt bringing up those books she sent me, and here a man (only a year older than myself) almost died. I am truly thankful that there were people here who knew how to handle the situation, for the paramedics that arrived so quickly and did a wonderful job, and that dh's cousin, for the most part is ok.

I hope each and every one of you lovely ladies has a wonderful weekend.

 

[tryforbaby2]

Merry Christmas Eve to You also!!!!

2011 WILL be our year!

This, too, is also my second Christmas waiting for a bfp! This will be my last Christmas waiting for a sticky/healthy bfp!!!

Hope you have a great time Titi!!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

My gosh Lucie!!! That was quite a horrifc eventful evening! Glad to hear he is ok and hopefully the children arent scarred mentally!

I wish you a very Merry Christmas!!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

P.S. Titi......LOVE the picture!!!

 

[soph77]

Merry Christmas Lovely Ladies!!!! Love to you all.
I love this bunch of amazing ladies so much xoxoxo

 

[tryforbaby2]

Merry Christmas All!!!!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

Wow, Lucie...... yikes!

Soph, Booo to the stupid witch and the ex. meh.

At last night's family get together with OH's side, there's a couple new babies. The women kept asking me to watch them so they could do something else. I just said No..... lol. Couldn't help myself. Hey, they made the babies, they can take care of them.... There's a zillion other people to ask, so I wasn't going to deal with it. I felt like doing an evil giggle.... oh well, made it through the rest of the night. Fortunately everyone focused on my sprained foot, so I think that kept anyone from being nosey about kids!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Grrr SG! Did they laugh when you said no?.......lol

Fortunately its just us for christmas. I like snuggling in and playing games all day and eating snacks with not a worry about anyone......


Glad you made it through OK! And OUCH! for your sprained foot!

 

[SquirrelGirl]

Naw, a couple of them looked surprised, but didn't seem to think about it too much. hehe.

 

[tryforbaby2]

I think I came off and said No, family wouldve been alittle ticked at me! But I am glad they didnt harass you!

Counting down the days until testing....boo woo....not like its going to get me anywhere....I am so congested and gassy It's terrible!!!

Played Wii all day long. I am tired now!

 

[Ejay]

Hi Ladies

Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas.

Sorry Soph and Titi the witch is such a cow at Christmas time.

We have had a great time down at OH's parents, Megan our puppy has been a star, will have to sort out some pics to post for you all.

The only down side was some relations of OH's who had to keep asking when we were going to have human babies, don't you just hate it!! OH was a star and kept changing the subject and diverting the attention

Oh well on to munching more leftover turkey and watching more cheesey movies on the TV

 

[Ejay]

Squirrel I love it

 

[tryforbaby2]

Ejay, your OH sounds like he was just a peach!!!!!
Hope the cheesy movies were good!!!!


7dpo for me today, not feeling like this is a good cycle.

Hope everyone is doing good!!!

 

[soph77]

Fingers crossed fro you Julia x

 

[Moondance]

Hey girls, just popping in to find out how all my fave ttc girls are doing!
I'm still single, the ex hasn't asked for me back and I'm okay with that. I don't think I want to be with a person who would so willingly break up with me because I got kittens, and who would dump me because I allow my dogs to sleep on my bed (they're tiny Poms and I told him at the start of our relationship that I did that, he didn't care until the day he slept in my bed with them).
Then all of a sudden its "I don't see how we fit into each others lives".
Whatever. Over it.
At least I got the worlds most beautiful Thoroughbred out of the deal! I've been riding a bit more lately and working with my horse. Together he's teaching me to ride bareback.
Patience of a saint that animal. He stands for ages while I attempt multiple times to haul my fat hiney up onto his back, then he walks around so carefully so as not to dislodge me. He's the most beautiful thing and he adores me.
Any man I ever meet up with in future is going to be told first off the bat, "one thing you have to keep in mind -- any man I'm with comes SECOND to my animals", because thats how its always going to be. My animals have always been there, when people haven't. So they're my priority.

Oddly, the site I met my ex on, I met another guy at the same time, and we were talking on messenger. Its like he suddenly KNOWS that I'm single or something and has been trying to get in contact with me. So weird.

 

[tryforbaby2]

I think that is exactly what I am going to do next week when my sister has her 2nd baby within one year. Have an insanely good cry

Next plan of action:

I am pampering myself jan into feb. Once I get AF I am going to tan alittle to clear my skin again, get my teeth whitened, get a manicure and pedicure, a body massage at the spa, start my nutrisystem diet food and workout at the gym again.....If I cant be pregnant I am going to look fantastic while doing it!
Maybe it'll boost my self-esteem up again!
Plus we have an adoption appointment for information scheduled for Jan 19th, if we accept the challenge, training will start the 25th of Jan. Calling for my annual OBGYN appointment and also starting my RE appointments again! Told DH this morning he has to do his SA and produce again for the IUI!

I have got plans this time. No more pussyfooting around. I am tired of NOT being pregnant!
And I am tired of feeling sorry for myself!!!

2011 HERE I COME!..........................

 

[tryforbaby2]

Moon, he didnt deserve you. Point blank.

Now on to bigger and better things in life. Its nearly 2011 and we each need to take a stand for ourselves, no matter what we want in life. Only WE can change it! We need to be happy for ourselves again inside and out....baby or no baby....men or no men.....(ideally we need the men and their sperm....but you catch my crazy drift! ).....

I wonder if putting extra OOMMPH.....ya know....ooooommmmpppphhhh....into our daily tasks, like going the extra mile looking for a job or at work, calling old friends to say hi and I am thinking of you, seeing some family you havent seen in quite a while, organizing your whole house and life, pampering yourelf and stuff like that if that may help?....or am I just going TTC crazy nd this is the side effect from too much ttc?.....

Moon, I'd like to hear you happy again, love. But try and concentrate on yourself and what makes you happy first.

 

[Moondance]

OMG girls, I found out the ACTUAL truth, he keeps spouting all these reasons and they keep changing, finally got him to explain to me what the TRUTH is.

He was apparently trying to get me pregnant from the beginning, before I even consented. And he had inside his head, all planned out, a time period in which he would try with me to get pregnant, if I didn't get pregnant within the allocated time period, then he'd move on. And I didn't get pregnant within the allocated 1 year of trying, so he dumped me.
I told my dad and his jaw dropped.

How bent is that??? He was using me to make him the baby he so desperately wanted, and somehow in all the time we were together (20 months) he didn't fall in love with me, or any of that sort of thing, just had me as this person who could give him what he wanted. And because I didn't, its over.
What kind of bullcrap reason is that to get with a person???

 

[tryforbaby2]

Honestly......

It is BS and I am surprised you would agree to get pregnant by a man you have only been with for a short amount of time, especially without living together and such. I feel bad for you Moon, because that was a horrible thing for him to do to you. Whats the next plan of action?

 

[Lucie73821]

OMG girls, I found out the ACTUAL truth, he keeps spouting all these reasons and they keep changing, finally got him to explain to me what the TRUTH is.

He was apparently trying to get me pregnant from the beginning, before I even consented. And he had inside his head, all planned out, a time period in which he would try with me to get pregnant, if I didn't get pregnant within the allocated time period, then he'd move on. And I didn't get pregnant within the allocated 1 year of trying, so he dumped me.
I told my dad and his jaw dropped.

How bent is that??? He was using me to make him the baby he so desperately wanted, and somehow in all the time we were together (20 months) he didn't fall in love with me, or any of that sort of thing, just had me as this person who could give him what he wanted. And because I didn't, its over.
What kind of bullcrap reason is that to get with a person???

Excuse me for being blunt, but he sounds like a complete jerk. I think you'll be better off without a horrible person like that in your life. That's just my two cents...

Happy New Year Ladies!