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babyb54
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Yesss! lol! A girl I went to high school with got married on the same day as us. At one point early in the engagement she had posted on facebook that "My future fetus's name will be [so and so]. Now just to convince [OH] to want babies, to agree to the name, and hope it's a girl!"
Fast forward to now, and she's due in ~3 weeks with that little girl she wanted. And not to be rude, but they're no where near as stable as DH and I are (we have stable, career jobs vs. they both work part time in retail, we own our house vs. they rent, neither of them finished their college degrees, etc etc).. I know that's catty and awful of me, but it's frustrating!
And our neighbors are opposite us - HE has fever and she's the one with reservations about having them yet.. I'm so jealous of her! hahaha
babyb54
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Sorry you're having such a rough week girly.I am having a hard week too even more so now I have turned 31I just want it to be my turn I am so ready for it and really getting worried about how hard it may actually end up being to concieve
anniepie
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Is it me, or is it a bit weird to post something like that on FB??
babyb54
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Definitely not just you. haha I thought so too!
twag i feel for u chick, i feel like i have been waiting too long as it is, having all kinds of emotions lately, i really really want a LO and hate waiting, i think my OH's worries about money has rubbed off on me i know we'd be fine, i have some money saved up so why am i worrying? grrr i think its because a hormonal sod atm 
Sunkissed
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Can I jump in? I've been off the pill 16 months and was hoping for a surprising accident 
but no luck. Not really sure what we are waiting for so in the mean time I went back to school and am almost done with my MBA. Hopefully we can start ttc or at least ntnp soon. I'm so impatient.
but no luck. Not really sure what we are waiting for so in the mean time I went back to school and am almost done with my MBA. Hopefully we can start ttc or at least ntnp soon. I'm so impatient.
welcome 
ParisJeTadore
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ur OH not given u a reason why u have to wait?
Everyone in the book! Some of them have been:
Our dog isn't old enough (?!)
We have to pay off our car (another two years
)I want to spend more time alone with you
We won't be able to travel back to OH's hometown as often (bc of the extra $$$ with children)
Our kids won't know their grandparents on OH's side (bc they live half way across the country)
It goes on and on....very frusterating and makes me feel like there will always be a "reason"...
ParisJeTadore
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I know! I hate even vocalizing those feelings but there's definitely a twinge of envy when I see all these women who seem to get pregnant so quickly. I was out with a former co-worker yesterday and I asked him about some people we use to work with. He responded by telling me that three separate people had married last year and now all of them are pregnant! I'm happy for them but can't seem to figure out how they had such willing husbands to go along with it!
ParisJeTadore
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It's sweet but...you know, kids can only add to the experience in a positive way, right??
MackMomma8
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I think the same thing too!! How are their OHs ready to go (and younger than mine!)!?!?!?!?!??!
id love to know that too
lads who are 4/5 years younger than my OH and they are ready 
anniepie
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Everyone in the book! Some of them have been:
Our dog isn't old enough (?!)
We have to pay off our car (another two years
I want to spend more time alone with you
We won't be able to travel back to OH's hometown as often (bc of the extra $$$ with children)
Our kids won't know their grandparents on OH's side (bc they live half way across the country)
It goes on and on....very frusterating and makes me feel like there will always be a "reason"...
Sorry chick, but this made me piss myself laughing!!! WTF??
In all serious, though, I do feel for you
CeeDee
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ur OH not given u a reason why u have to wait?
Everyone in the book! Some of them have been:
Our dog isn't old enough (?!)
We have to pay off our car (another two years
I want to spend more time alone with you
We won't be able to travel back to OH's hometown as often (bc of the extra $$$ with children)
Our kids won't know their grandparents on OH's side (bc they live half way across the country)
It goes on and on....very frusterating and makes me feel like there will always be a "reason"...
Sorry to hear that! That must be so frustrating. I hope my OH doesn't do that when it's time for us to start trying.
