WTT Girls BAW Thread - September

[Chris77]

Oh Tracy, that sucks! I'm sorry!

 

[golcarlilly]

thanks Chris it is totally crap, I still feel bad for my sis that she is with someone who would do that to her but what can I do? I am DREADING the wedding (she hasn't set a date yet but i think it will be next year!)

 

[Chris77]

I'd be dreading it too.

 

[LeaArr]

Why do these ppl do this to themselves and others!!
Have you spoken to the husband involved?? Tell him how uncomfortable its made you feel

I want to, but I don't know what to say to him. I think I'm too upset at him to talk to him without saying something I would regret.

 

[LeaArr]

thanks Chris it is totally crap, I still feel bad for my sis that she is with someone who would do that to her but what can I do? I am DREADING the wedding (she hasn't set a date yet but i think it will be next year!)

I don't blame you. That sucks girlie.

 

[golcarlilly]

right I am going home, see you all tomorrow, I will try and get on here a bit more!!

 

[LeaArr]

Have a good evening. Take care

 

[Chris77]

Bye Tracy, have a good evening. :wave:

 

[Sambatiki]

BYE TRACY!!

Lea - Maybe when you are feeling calmer. Just explain that you never EVER want to be put in that situation again.

 

[destiny27]

just popping in quickly :wave:

 

[Chris77]

Hiya Destiny

 

[destiny27]

hi chris you ok??

 

[Chris77]

Yeah, I'm good - for a Monday. U?

 

[destiny27]

I'm ok just tired, fell asleep this afternoon but feel better now

 

[Chris77]

Ah yes, a nap is always worthwhile! I take a nap at every lunch. We have a ladies lounge - so I just lounge on one of the chairs and sleep.

 

[destiny27]

 

[LeaArr]

Man oh man. I'm ready to go back to bed. Everyone I talked to has told me to give my friend an ultimatum, Tell your wife, or I will. I don't want to put myself in that position though.

 

[Chris77]

No, I don't blame you, I wouldn't want to be put in that position either. Gosh, such a sticky situation. When, my SIL told me she let another man kiss her (when her husband was in another room) I didn't say anything - to her or her husband. I told DH just to have it off all of my shoulders but neither of us said anything. I think maybe this was just one time thing with them (out of intoxication) and probably won't happen again. Maybe you can say, 'If I see this happening again, I will tell your wife.' Or something along those lines....

 

[LeaArr]

That seems almost reasonable.

 

[LeaArr]

That's actually the best suggestion I've heard so far. I feel better, thank you so much Chris