Weeeeelll still only one of me! The messages asking where baby is have started rolling in!
Mum told me yesterday my nan has shingles and wasn't going to say anything and was going to come see baby (when they decide to make an appearance) anyway! Got me quite annoyed that did! The last thing I want is for a newborn to get chicken pox!!
Waaa nooo sickly people around baby please!
Dp mum wants to be at the hospital whilst I give birth im like noooo waaayyy!! you can visot afterwards but please dont hang around.
I have this exact same problem! Its really stressing me as MIL is very overbearing and in your face.She has been slagging me off because I have said I do not want her at the hospital. She is very jealous that I am having my mum and hubs with me for the birth and has made it clear that its a silly idea! My mum and I are very close and I feel that she can give me the extra support that hubs may not be able to give...she's been there done that.
Anyway after numerous arguments with hubs I have said MIL can wait somewhere in the hospital not near the labour and delivery ward and I will make it clear to midwives that I don't want her popping her head in. I have also said she can come into maternity ward afterwarda only when I am ready and say she is allowed. I still do not understand why she wnts to wait...if for example baby arrives at like 9:30pm she has to wait until 2pm the next day when visiting time starts?! She is a 5 min drive from the hospital...it baffles me! I know she is excited as its her first grandchild...I totally get that but I wish she would respect my wishes and just back off. She keeps referring to baby as 'her' baby...it's something minor but it really annoys me! I guess the hormones don't help haha![/QUOTE/|
I had this problem. I ignored it thinking itd go away- then I had an emergency c section all within 10 mins of arriving so didn't have to worry as there was no time to ring anyone!