yummy mummies dating support group

[ZombieQueen]

I had a good chuckle at that Facebook thing! Men are such idiots.. I'm so jealous of your courage!! My 21st birthday is in march, my mom is pleading with me to do something fun, but as lame as it sounds I just want to be home with baby. I can't imagine leaving her.. I'm so boring

 

[Jennifurball]

Even though I have been actively looking online for a man I can't actually go out with anyone, I can't even imagine kissing anyone so you are doing well with all this attention, enjoy it and try not to over think things.

 

[moomin_troll]

I'm 25 in march (Thomas would of been 27) he died when he was 25 so it's a hard birthday seen as I'd always call him old man n say ile never be as old as u. But now I am :/
Anyway downer! Lol
For my bday I'm going out dressed up as male builders haha then for Thomas' bday going out dressing as rock stars.
Uve got to do something for ur 21st! U spend time with ur baby all the time. Life's too short to spend it alone and shutting urself away!
I demand u make plans lol

 

[moomin_troll]

Wow.. just very interesting stories..I wish I had one to tell but all I can think of is my baby's due date lol..can u say Miserable!

Ur babies due date isn't boring at all! That's as exciting as it gets x

 

[Jennifurball]

You could still involve LO in your birthday, maybe have a meal with close friends and family, being out will take your mind off things, I don't think of ex at all when I am busy, it is when I am sat at home with LO, my mind works overtime.

Sorry to hear about your OH.

 

[moomin_troll]

Even though I have been actively looking online for a man I can't actually go out with anyone, I can't even imagine kissing anyone so you are doing well with all this attention, enjoy it and try not to over think things.

I haven't even put half my crazy on here and it's so obvious I over think everything haha
I was terrified of the first kiss. A yr ago the thought made me physically sick. I got it over with and I felt nothing, which felt great if that makes sense lol

 

[Jennifurball]

I'm a bit crazy too when it comes to dating lol but I am going to give myself time to heal and not let the issues from my ex spill over to a new relationship. I really feel though that I am not going to meet anyone I like more than I did with ex, or someone I like enough to even get excited about a date.

 

[moomin_troll]

I'm a bit crazy too when it comes to dating lol but I am going to give myself time to heal and not let the issues from my ex spill over to a new relationship. I really feel though that I am not going to meet anyone I like more than I did with ex, or someone I like enough to even get excited about a date.

When my oh died we were the happiest we'd ever been. Just moved to a new house in Germany, our baby was 2 and planning our second and then it was all gone. I never thought I'd want to go near anyone else and the thought scared the crap out of me. It's been a hard 2 yrs and it was only 2 months ago that I decided I'd had enough of feeling lonely.
Didn't think I'd like someone again tho. Unfortunately I liked the wrong lad, date 1 lol and he canceled. Maybe he didn't rearrange at the time for good reason but I wasn't willing to put myself out there that much n risk getting hurt. Although I very much doubt anyone will be able to hurt me again.
It's a shame because I was really staring to like him even before we met.
We shouldn't be scared to put ourselves out their again. We deserve to let out hair down and have abit of adult time

 

[lemontree12]

the last time i dtd, my daughter was made, goodness how some much as changed, iv kissed one bloke since then. sometimes i think, i just want to get that first time over with and others i think i will wait until its with someone special, other than my ex its been 5years.

but talking about dating, on saturday i decided to give up up the dating thing and tried to delete my dating account, 4times i tried to cancel and it wouldnt. come sunday i had this message from a really hot bloke (well my type) we have spend nearly 3days talking all day, and he really has made me laugh again.

 

[moomin_troll]

the last time i dtd, my daughter was made, goodness how some much as changed, iv kissed one bloke since then. sometimes i think, i just want to get that first time over with and others i think i will wait until its with someone special, other than my ex its been 5years.

but talking about dating, on saturday i decided to give up up the dating thing and tried to delete my dating account, 4times i tried to cancel and it wouldnt. come sunday i had this message from a really hot bloke (well my type) we have spend nearly 3days talking all day, and he really has made me laugh again.

Wow that's great hope he turns out to be a decent bloke, but just have fun flirting again.

I am definitely in the mind set if just getting my first time out of the way.
Hopefully my mum will have both boys at her house over night in jan, ile be going out and i will be bringing the RAF lad home.

My thinking is get it over and done with, with someone I'm not bothered about so that way I won't get hurt. Because if u waited for someone special dtd and they screwed me over it would hurt a lot more knowing that it was a big deal to me.

Im getting my man head on and having sex with no feelings lol

 

[Jennifurball]

It doesn't happen to be match.com does it? I tried to cancel mine the other day but it won't do it! That is good news about the hot bloke.

I am actually gonna wait for someone special this time, restore my faith in men. Last time I split with my ex, before LO was around, I am ashamed to say I slept around to get over him but it made me feel worse so I am going to take it slow and do it the old fashioned way this time!

 

[moomin_troll]

I tried to be a slag once and had a one night stand.....I ended up marrying haha

U shouldn't be ashamed because u slept around, it's only sex

 

[Jennifurball]

Tried to be a slag haha.

At the time, I thought I was ok, dated loads, didn't sleep with all of them but ex found out and said I was a dirty slapper. He was just jealous cos he never pulled. Now I have it all to go through again. :/

 

[moomin_troll]

Funny how men are so quick to call women names because they omg shock horror....have sex lol

Haha yes I tried to be a slag, I'd just left an ex after 3 yrs of hell. I was only 19 and wanted fun. Met oh in a club n thought he was a dickhead but very cute. He won me over lol

It's so scary thinking wow I'm back in the dating world, which I've never really been in properly before.
This RAF lad likes me a lot more then I like him, but I refuse to have a relationship with someone in the military again, so he can agree to have some fun and see what happens or go our separate ways.
I'm scared to death of being single again but I'm going to make sure I have fun.
Obviously my main job is being a mummy so sometimes I need to let my hair down. I'm going to be in town dressed as an elf on Saturday. Ile be meeting up with a rugby team. 2 of which both 19 I've had a thing with lol
One was the first lad I gave my number to and we were texting for ages but nothing happened and the other was my first kiss. This could be a very awkward or funny night lol

 

[ZombieQueen]

I tried to be a slag once and had a one night stand.....I ended up marrying haha

U shouldn't be ashamed because u slept around, it's only sex

I found this hilarious for some reason!

but I'm definitely looking forward to hearing of saturday!! Why are you going as an elf?

 

[moomin_troll]

It's Christmas theme and saw a cute elf outfit lol tried it on today and love it! But it's so short haha

 

[ZombieQueen]

Short can be fun! Lol a little wild is healthy!

 

[moomin_troll]

If I had a body I was happy with I'd be more then happy flashing my butt (that's how short it is haha) but I can't wait! Lol started to feel ill got a sore throat! Bugs just can't stay away from me recently

 

[moomin_troll]

Well the night I met the RAF lad my mate was with his mate.
Anyway we have been asked on a double date in January we are going to a city near us for a meal an night out. Plus me and my friend are going for a spa day before hand

I'm not that into him but I'm looking forward to it

 

[lemontree12]

iv arranged to met this bloke next friday, iv got serious butterflies