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I no what you mean its difficult I only had 20 day cycles and always and always ovulated on cd8 and 9 so I just roughly knew when to take my chances. Its crazy though our bodies are amazing but so confusing. Yeah it's been hard ebf but so so worth it all the same xx
Can i ask a question? Did you ovulate on cd8 or cd9 with the pregnancy you've just been through?
I only ask because i read ovulation b4 cd10 isnt good because the egg isnt mature enough.
I actually ovulated twice on cd8 back in 2020, it was after a chemical pregnancy and we did catch again even with a cd8 ovulation but that was a chemical pregnancy too.
Since ttc this time around the earliest ive ovulated is cd11, and the latest was cd20 but that was after covid.
My youngest was concived with a cd10 ovulation so when i ovulated last cycle on cd11 i was hopeful but obviously it was another bfn cycle.
Im cd6 now and getting some watery cm. Af stopped fully on day 5.
Ive started opks today and there very negative. I was getting worried with the watery cm i was going to ovulate too early. But hopefully it will hold off until day 10 earliest.
This is cycle 16 ttc now.
I'm noticing that I almost always feel a pinching cramp in my uterus area at 5 dpo, typically on the left but sometimes on the right. When I google, it of course comes up with implantation, but that can't be the case when it happens every time...Maybe gas pains?
Anyway I'm 6 dpo today and for a brief moment I felt optimistic when I woke up this morning, like maybe this is finally it, but the feeling went away as quickly as it came, so now I don't know what to think. This is cycle 18 for me and I'm so tired..it seems like so long! I don't know how people do this for several years! I pray it won't be much longer now. Every cycle it doesn't happen, the age gap grows that much wider. I never wanted such a big gap between my kids, but my heart still aches for another.
Ive had that happen on few cycles. Like a sharp stabbing pain at 5dpo. Ive also had it at 8dpo and that got me excited. But then when testing it was bfn. I hate it when i bodies give us false hope like that.
I hope this cycle is the one for you love.
This is cycle 16 for me and i feel the same as you. So tired. So fed up. I worry because of my age. I turn 44 a week b4 Christmas and the longer this take the less chance ive got of it happening at all.
Its so horribe isnt it.
I pray this is the cycle the ONE for us both love
Im already fearing those bfns, or lines that fade away. Its just all so consuming and so hard.
Sending so much love too you.
I’m pretty sure, AF arrived as scheduled and lasted the typical 5 days. Here’s the test from today. Might need to go to the store and buy a first response.
Still seeing that line. So strange but congratulations. Hope this is a sticky!
@Suggerhoney this is our cycle I know it
I pray so so much that you are right. I feel you will get your bfp this cycle but im alrady getting that feeling this cycle isnt the one again!.
Cd6 today so waiting for ovulation now. But i dont have any hope at all tbh. Just know it will be bfn or if anything another loss. So hard to be positive anymore
Somewhere between 7-9 dpo. Today’s morning test was negative. Night however
I see something on the top one.
Deleted my post, not sure if Iv offended anyone in the past I just needed some help.. good luck to everyone still waiting to test, hugs to anyone who’s af arrived and congratulations to bfp’s.
Hi love i havent been on here properly for a few days. Are you ok. Can you re post your post love. Always wondering how you are.