just had bil over, asking what names we had id said we so far have manmanged to not argue re Alfie or Alex, and his eyes instantly lit up "perfect" "omg, my mum wud luv that, its so nice for here and for everyone back home" lol.. i was so releaved and he liked Alfie too, if i can get MIL on board with my choices dh will be over the moon as i think he was gunna try and choose something minging that theyd like, also turns out my other bil is expecting his first, and hes gone back over to where dh is from, still dont know what they are having though, it's all go lol x