Lightupthesky
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I am posting on my phone and I never realize how much I've written until I press reply! I apologia for the mini book I wrote you!
Ugh. I've been cramping on and off all day today. I read that implantation can happen as late as 13dpo but I can't help but feel like I'm totally out. My ladies are sore too, that's usually a sure fire way for me to know AF is coming for a visit. Also, I've broken out on my chin, which is odd because I've never bad acne before in my life! And worse, today I found a patch of black hairs on my jawline!!! I hope this is just a side effect of coming off the pill because ahhh! I'm definitely not feeling sexy today!
I can see a line!!!
Can you take another test? My fingers are crossed for you!!!
My friend gave me a book about preparing to conceive, so DH and I read through some of it last night. We found out some interesting things! For example, using any kind of lubrication (including saliva!) can prevent sperm from getting through the cervix (although apparently oils are ok, things like coconut oil etc) and using anything other than water to wash our lady bits changes the PH balance there so it's harder to conceive. Also, the diet of the man has so much to do with conceiving! DH started on a men's multivitamin this morning and we are overhauling his diet. Unfortunately for him, no more cookies or kraft dinner, at least until we concieve! We are doing anything we can to make this finally happen!
I've decided December is the month! I only want one thing for Christmas this year, a!
I can see a line!!!
Can you take another test? My fingers are crossed for you!!!
My friend gave me a book about preparing to conceive, so DH and I read through some of it last night. We found out some interesting things! For example, using any kind of lubrication (including saliva!) can prevent sperm from getting through the cervix (although apparently oils are ok, things like coconut oil etc) and using anything other than water to wash our lady bits changes the PH balance there so it's harder to conceive. Also, the diet of the man has so much to do with conceiving! DH started on a men's multivitamin this morning and we are overhauling his diet. Unfortunately for him, no more cookies or kraft dinner, at least until we concieve! We are doing anything we can to make this finally happen!
I've decided December is the month! I only want one thing for Christmas this year, a!
It was a no-go My temp plummetted yesterday and again this morning back down to my coverline and I started spotting yesterday so AF should be here by the end of the day. Thats interesting about the lub! My Cm over this past year has declined a lot so this past cycle during pre-O and O I was using "preseed" which is supposed to help the swimmers get to your tubes, but alas it did not work (so far) I still have six insertion sticks left (you're supposed to put the lub inside prior to intercourse).
I also heard that CoQ10 supplement helps sperm motility, we have pill containers with day of the week spots for pills and put in multivitamin for men and coq10 but so far he hasnt been taking them, he does take a multivitamin now and then but he's not very consistent, he also smokes pot every now and then if he has a headache or to help him sleep and though he doesnt do it very often, or very much of it (i.e he just takes a couple puffs from a pipe or whatever) I still think it may play a part in his swimmers motility as I have read it can slow them down.
*sigh
I really thought we would get it right away but oh well.
I wanted to wrap up my eight week scan picture and give to my family during our Christmas dinner as a surprise but now I guess I can just take a picture of (hopefully) my Christmas and wrap that up instead. .
I think deep down as much as I wanted a BFP this cycle, somewhere deep within I actually didnt want one this month cause thats when I conceived the one that was lost so it would be too similar, if that makes any sense?
I'm feeling good about December, they say each cycle any healthy couple has only a 30% chance of conceiving, so the way I see it, we now have a 60% chance in December cause thats month two
Onward and upward!