27yo TTC #1 wanting buddy :D

[Sw33tp3a]

so i know its early but not really by much so im thinking the results r final i dont know..im 11 dpo ugh so i got impatient and i tested i bought a cheapie hpt 2 tests in the box for like $10 something but they are blue dye i was not aware blue dye ones were so unreliable as i posted a question about it and got replies back saying they were unreliable i also had a bunch of fluids right before i tested maybe im just using that as an excuse for my i have not heard though of these test getting false negatives rather false positives...but meh... i used em both up since i found out they r unreliable i got the expected on both the tests same urine though..supper bummed... i shall now wait for af if it doesnt show up then ill buy first response but i feel thats highly unlikley to happen... yeah.. i guess me and shall forever be together if i do get af this time around im down grading from TTC to NTNP which breaks my heart but i dont know maybe if i dont try so hard then something will happen not that i do try so hard i dont even use opks or check my temps because i know that would stress me out and i already stress myself out so much also if i do get af this time ill be making an appointment to go see a specialist ive had a couple tests before and my husband and everything came back normal so my doc said hes ready to send me to a specialist i just wanted to give it 1 more shot though you know..it just feels so frustrating..this is the one thing ive wanted in life ive always just wanted to get married and have a family iive never wanted the best career or what not not thats a bad thing just some people they really want certain things in life and this is mine.. im feeling so emotional..sorry for my rambling i wouldnt even mind if i couldnt have more then 1 bfp id just like to have 1 at least my husband always likes to talk about how cute our baby would be etc etc but its just not happening... again sorry for my emotional rambling but i feel a bit better getting it off my chest...sigh.... i cant believe im being so emotional

sorry hun your HCG may not be strong enough to test yet and you may still be prego. I hope you get that :BFP: and you are alowed to be frustrated beleave me thats how i have been the past few months.

 

[JaanRuk]

sorry hun your HCG may not be strong enough to test yet and you may still be prego. I hope you get that :BFP: and you are alowed to be frustrated beleave me thats how i have been the past few months.

Thanx for lifting my spirits hun im now really praying for that hope thats the case i really really do .. thats the downside to TTC feeling like this but what can ya do.. guess we all have our days i hope you get your bfp too hun i hope we all do if we all have to go through this at least we should get a bfp seriously

 

[Sw33tp3a]

jaan dont feel down and out. thats why im glad i found this thread and group. it was so hard for the past few months having no one to talk to and making my self crazy...its gonna be a long tww for me and i hope all is on here to cheer me on those whom are wto.

 

[Sw33tp3a]

also since my DH doesnt get home till after 9 at night and then we cant really talk due to us having homework and stuff to do when the kids go to bed at night. my husband adopted my kids when we got married and no he wants one of his own.

 

[JaanRuk]

jaan dont feel down and out. thats why im glad i found this thread and group. it was so hard for the past few months having no one to talk to and making my self crazy...its gonna be a long tww for me and i hope all is on here to cheer me on those whom are wto.

yeah i know what you mean before i never even knew about this forum i use to just bottle everything up then when af would show up id just have a breakdown ill definitely be here to pull you through that tww

 

[Sw33tp3a]

I hope you get your BFP though i be checking on here each day to see the update as well. you will get it!! dont give up though

 

[JaanRuk]

also since my DH doesnt get home till after 9 at night and then we cant really talk due to us having homework and stuff to do when the kids go to bed at night. my husband adopted my kids when we got married and no he wants one of his own.

aww thats really nice i think it would be a very sweet addition to the family , me and my husband dont really talk about the whole TTC either just because he does not quite understand everything.. and i just do simple TTC like checking for cm and getting a rough idea about when im ovulating checking my body signals like that so i keep all that information to myself but good thing i found this place because its nice to share and learn more from others going through the same things talking really helps

 

[Sw33tp3a]

also since my DH doesnt get home till after 9 at night and then we cant really talk due to us having homework and stuff to do when the kids go to bed at night. my husband adopted my kids when we got married and no he wants one of his own.

aww thats really nice i think it would be a very sweet addition to the family , me and my husband dont really talk about the whole TTC either just because he does not quite understand everything.. and i just do simple TTC like checking for cm and getting a rough idea about when im ovulating checking my body signals like that so i keep all that information to myself but good thing i found this place because its nice to share and learn more from others going through the same things talking really helps

thanks ya this is my first time configuring and studing how to know when i ovulate and such so im hopefull and i have been useing a calender thing to track so i know what day im on

 

[Sw33tp3a]

i read on another forum though to take EVENING PRIMROSE OIL its in a pill form at walmart or your local pharmacy its like $6 but it helps in keeping on moist for the days up to ovulation after ovulation u dont take it and the girls in that forum on another chat site so far have all got BFP within the 1st or 2nd month of doing it. if i dont get mine this cycle i will try it on my next.

 

[Sw33tp3a]

i dont know what time it is were you are but i will be off for a bit. gotta make my hubby dinner. ill message you in your personal box my facebook page if you wanna chat on there/

 

[JaanRuk]

i read on another forum though to take EVENING PRIMROSE OIL its in a pill form at walmart or your local pharmacy its like $6 but it helps in keeping on moist for the days up to ovulation after ovulation u dont take it and the girls in that forum on another chat site so far have all got BFP within the 1st or 2nd month of doing it. if i dont get mine this cycle i will try it on my next.

ive heard about this primrose oil but i was skeptical also didnt know about all the bfp's its worth a shot thanx for the tip

 

[JaanRuk]

i dont know what time it is were you are but i will be off for a bit. gotta make my hubby dinner. ill message you in your personal box my facebook page if you wanna chat on there/

for sure hun im going off too now for a bit but will add you when i come back tc

 

[Sw33tp3a]

ok thats cool i will be on here for a will till we hit the hay but if i dont catch ya on here ill ttyt..... hoping you dont see the

 

[Kristysbump]

HI,

Im 25 and TTC #1 Its been 7 months now and still no BFP Just wish it would happen. I have even taken to buying a few baby items in hope that it will happen soon. At least i will have everything and be prepared.

( Im very positive that it will happen and a few years ago I lost a ton of weight and found out i was pregnant but (thats another story) so i know i can just have to keep thinking a healthy body is a fertile body)

 

[miss_nat84]

Welcome to our thread Kristybump oh hun that's a long time to be ttc I hope you get your soon! Are you bbt charting or anything like that?
Sending lots of to you xx

 

[Kristysbump]

Thanks sweetie, Im using OPK's and doing the right things at the right time even a week either side but nothing.

Could be weight reated ???

Good luck to you. It's so fun when your starting out and this could be your month

Personally i kinda got over it at 4 months but have kept busy buying a baby item every week. And it doesnt bother me as much.

I know we will all get our BFP's just want them sooner rather than later

 

[miss_nat84]

Were you on any sort of birth control or anything hun? And have you been BBT'ing to make sure you are ovulating? Hehehe it is fun starting out but I know I will be disapppointed if I don't fall as quick as I'd like too it's hard not to get your hopes up isn't it! :/
I'm sure everything will be just fine hunni I'm have a good feeling u will get your soon xx

 

[Kristysbump]

I was taking YAZ. I have heard good things about it. What about you ? Its important to have the expectation that it could take a while but it happens to most people when there not even trying which is worth holding on to. I did mis a few months without OPK that i knda wish i didnt. But i get a positive on them.

Guess my bean is not sticking

What about you ?

 

[Sw33tp3a]

for sure hun im going off too now for a bit but will add you when i come back tc

how are today is there anything new regarding the she needs to stay away and give a

 

[JaanRuk]

how are today is there anything new regarding the she needs to stay away and give a

hey hun im ok today nothing is new not feeling any symptoms of af to show either just feeling nothing...usually i get cramps the day before ...fingers are crossed... how is your day goinn