30-somethings TTC #1 Testing and Support Thread!

Welcome back Hippietea!

Good luck with the ICSI SpringFlower ~ really hope it works for you straight away!
 
hello girls, how are you?
Good luck Springflower, I just know you are going to get your bfp!
I go in for IUI this Friday, hopefully DH's SA is better
hugs,
 
Couldn't quite wait for Wednesday to come around, so I tested this morning. BFN No surprise. AF is supposed to arrive on Wednesday, but I'm thinking since my luteal phase is so short, I don't even think I could really get a BFP if I am pregnant until at least a few days after. I am only 8 or 9 dpo today.

Seeing a BFN was probably a good thing though. I needed to be taken back down to reality a little. I've been symptom spotting all weekend. Kind of pointless, since most symptoms can be attributed to AF on it's way- mostly very mild cramping on and off and crying at the drop of a hat. (Although I did have bloody gums this weekend, which I never do. I'm hoping that that is promising.)

So, we'll see if the witch shows her face in a few days. I hate waiting... I'm not very good at it!
 
Originally Posted by SquirrelGirl
I've done pretty well with not obsessing TOO much. I did have a weird spotting incident on 5DPO which made me pretty sad for a few days. Now I'm just kinda chillin' again. I have zero symptoms at all, which in and of itself is really strange!

But I definitely understand the post-O blues, and post-AF too! It's a hurry up and wait kind of feeling. Right now I'm just kinda feeling like it's already decided for this month, so why bother worrying about it right now. I'll find out in a few days if AF shows her ugly face.

Due to popular demand, June BFP Explosion Month is being extended for the entire Summer! Come on BFPs!!!

That's an awesome way to look at it (that it's already decided this month, so why bother worrying). I'm going to try to adopt that outlook this week!
 
Aw, Rompy, Shorty, sorry the ugly witch showed her face!! Go away witch!!

Still, world cup babies are still possible! Possibly a cup final celebration baby!!

baby dust to all!

Fairybabe xx

Thank you Fairybabe. Im over it now and looking forward to next month. Best of luck to you.
 
Couldn't quite wait for Wednesday to come around, so I tested this morning. BFN No surprise. AF is supposed to arrive on Wednesday, but I'm thinking since my luteal phase is so short, I don't even think I could really get a BFP if I am pregnant until at least a few days after. I am only 8 or 9 dpo today.

Seeing a BFN was probably a good thing though. I needed to be taken back down to reality a little. I've been symptom spotting all weekend. Kind of pointless, since most symptoms can be attributed to AF on it's way- mostly very mild cramping on and off and crying at the drop of a hat. (Although I did have bloody gums this weekend, which I never do. I'm hoping that that is promising.)

So, we'll see if the witch shows her face in a few days. I hate waiting... I'm not very good at it!

Every month I symptom spot and every month without fail I convince myself that I'm pg. And then the :witch: gets me! I'm trying not to symptom spot but it's hard not to. I'm not very patient either (which is why I have 7 tests waiting for me at home :dohh:)
 
hello girls, how are you?
Good luck Springflower, I just know you are going to get your bfp!
I go in for IUI this Friday, hopefully DH's SA is better
hugs,

Hey Brit

Ohhh it's this Friday, I will keep everything crossed for you. I really hope it works.

xxx
 
Hey Ladies

Hope you're going well today.

We heard from the court today that my OH has been excused from jury service, thats such a relief! We got a letter saying he'd been selected but it was smack in the middle of when we're having ICSI. Talk about bad timing!

I'm in the 2ww now, does anyone get a metallitic taste in their mouth then? For my last two cycles I have. Just wondered if anyone else gets it or am I on my own? Think its all this ttc'ing, I've now offically lost it!:wacko:
 
Hey Ladies

Hope you're going well today.

We heard from the court today that my OH has been excused from jury service, thats such a relief! We got a letter saying he'd been selected but it was smack in the middle of when we're having ICSI. Talk about bad timing!

I'm in the 2ww now, does anyone get a metallitic taste in their mouth then? For my last two cycles I have. Just wondered if anyone else gets it or am I on my own? Think its all this ttc'ing, I've now offically lost it!:wacko:

I'm 3 dpo and I've gotten that taste. I'm trying not to pay attention too much to it though since I've been fooled before. What day do you test again?
 
Ohh I'm 4 dpo, so one day ahead. Think I'm down to test on 23rd June. I'm sure I'm not pregnant as I had this for the last couple of cycles as well. I too got fooled the 1st time! Am not going to let it bother me and I'm just going to wait my dependable AF to appear :coffee::haha:
 
Ohh I'm 4 dpo, so one day ahead. Think I'm down to test on 23rd June. I'm sure I'm not pregnant as I had this for the last couple of cycles as well. I too got fooled the 1st time! Am not going to let it bother me and I'm just going to wait my dependable AF to appear :coffee::haha:

I am going to try to hold out till AF comes. I have seven tests at home though so it's like dessert...they may not last long :dohh:
 
Whew, it seems like a lot of you have had the symptoms I'm spotting at the moment, so its a good thing I read them cos I've been getting a bit too carried away, despite efforts to try not to.This is my first real 2WW so I have been enjoying the fantasy but this week is getting to me a bit now. I can see how exhausting it's going to get after a few cycles.:sad1:
 
Hey Ladies

Hope you're going well today.

We heard from the court today that my OH has been excused from jury service, thats such a relief! We got a letter saying he'd been selected but it was smack in the middle of when we're having ICSI. Talk about bad timing!

I'm in the 2ww now, does anyone get a metallitic taste in their mouth then? For my last two cycles I have. Just wondered if anyone else gets it or am I on my own? Think its all this ttc'ing, I've now offically lost it!:wacko:

I'm 3 dpo and I've gotten that taste. I'm trying not to pay attention too much to it though since I've been fooled before. What day do you test again?

I've never gotten that symptom. Honestly, I'd only read that as a PG symptom, so I'm really surprised to hear you've both had it before! It's like how my boobies suddenly decided to get sore to trick me! Stupid fake symptoms!!!!! :wacko::wacko::wacko:




hello girls, how are you?
Good luck Springflower, I just know you are going to get your bfp!
I go in for IUI this Friday, hopefully DH's SA is better
hugs,

Hey Brit

Ohhh it's this Friday, I will keep everything crossed for you. I really hope it works.

xxx

Oh, I wish you both so much luck with the IUI and ICSI! Huge :hugs: It's so exciting!!!


Whew, it seems like a lot of you have had the symptoms I'm spotting at the moment, so its a good thing I read them cos I've been getting a bit too carried away, despite efforts to try not to.This is my first real 2WW so I have been enjoying the fantasy but this week is getting to me a bit now. I can see how exhausting it's going to get after a few cycles.:sad1:

Oh yes.... it's quite a roller coaster, so put your seat belt on and prepare for the ride!

Thank goodness we have BnB, otherwise, I don't know how I'd handle all of this. So much better to know we aren't the only ones...

Hope you all have a wonderful night. I'm off to :sleep:
 
on a side note, there really needs to be a roller coaster smilie!
 

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Sorry I haven't been about much recently, stupid work is making work hard!! On the plus point I asked for a pay raise and got a good one. So I'm happy! Every little bit helps with our baby making fund :haha:

Congrats Springflower - hurrah for a pay raise!

Sorry Rompy :hugs:
Squirrel and Lucky - are you excited to test this week?! Are you guys symptom-spotting at all?
Anyone get the post-O blues? Kind of like you get excited to hit your peak and then you do and then it's all over till next month? Or maybe I'm PMS'ing!

I am trying not to symptom spot...have been burned by it too many times before. Not too many symptoms to spot anyway! Sore boobs, but as well all know, I am ignoring my boobs this month.

Totally get the post O blues...this is the time of month where I get all negative and lose my PMA...which is what I am doing...despite my faith in June Explosion, I don't think it's gonna be my month. We shall see!

I figure we could use one of these right about now!!

Yay for the group hugs! Also Squirrel - I love your siggy - but want June Explosion to continue into Winter for me (your Summer is my Winter!).

Lucky - also meant to say thanks for you post a while ago. Had a really bad time with the BFNs and AF arriving, just thought it was my time last month but it wasnt to be. Put it all in perspective now but you really helped.

CD9 today, wont start testing with OPK until CD14. Trying to not get too obsessed with TTC this month although still sticking with SMEP for one more month. Have conceive+ to try out and considering purchasing soft cups but better get a move on....

Hey Waiting, so glad that I helped a little bit :hugs: It's so hard isn't it. I have to say, I used softcups for the first time this month and really liked them. Don't know if it helped, but they were super easy to use and it can't hurt! Good luck love xx

Hi all please can i be added i am not feeling hopeful this month but will be testing on 29th june if witch has not shown up by then

For sure, will add your date now :flower:

hello girls, how are you?
Good luck Springflower, I just know you are going to get your bfp!
I go in for IUI this Friday, hopefully DH's SA is better
hugs,

Good Luck Britt! Hope it goes well - let us know! :hugs:

Couldn't quite wait for Wednesday to come around, so I tested this morning. BFN No surprise. AF is supposed to arrive on Wednesday, but I'm thinking since my luteal phase is so short, I don't even think I could really get a BFP if I am pregnant until at least a few days after. I am only 8 or 9 dpo today.

Seeing a BFN was probably a good thing though. I needed to be taken back down to reality a little. I've been symptom spotting all weekend. Kind of pointless, since most symptoms can be attributed to AF on it's way- mostly very mild cramping on and off and crying at the drop of a hat. (Although I did have bloody gums this weekend, which I never do. I'm hoping that that is promising.)

So, we'll see if the witch shows her face in a few days. I hate waiting... I'm not very good at it!

Yeah, waiting sucks! And how frustrating is it that pg symptoms are identical to AF symptoms - so unfair! Bleeding gums could be a good sign though...fingers crossed! I am 9dpo today as well I think xx

Whew, it seems like a lot of you have had the symptoms I'm spotting at the moment, so its a good thing I read them cos I've been getting a bit too carried away, despite efforts to try not to.This is my first real 2WW so I have been enjoying the fantasy but this week is getting to me a bit now. I can see how exhausting it's going to get after a few cycles.:sad1:

It's an up and down kinda thing...but I have to say it some ways it has gotten a bit easier - I think the first month was hardest as I was so sure I was pg. Anyway - it may happen for you really quickly and you won't ever have to worry about it! Hope so xx

on a side note, there really needs to be a roller coaster smilie!

Love this! Perfect for TTC xx


My OH's birthday yesterday, we had a nice night going out for dinner then watching a DVD.

Feeling ok, not really symptom spotting, and pretty sure that it ain't gonna be my month - but at the moment feeling ok with that.

Gotta go make a vege lasange for dinner - it's so cold today, I feel like some nice warm comfort food!
 
I'm not feeling too hopeful about this month but for no particular reason :nope:. Don't we all wish this could be easier! But at least we're in this together :hugs:
 
Hey Everyone,

:happydance: Congrats on the payrise Springflower.

I tried clearblue ovulation tests for the first time this month (they were on special offer at the supermarket!) anyway I got a v strong line last night - sooooooooooo excited!! - We have BD the last two nights and will again tonight and I should be symptom spotting along with all of you in a few days.

Maxxi, I'm with you on the dessert tests! ha ha. I have 4 bought ready to pack and take with me to South Africa :blush:

Love the rollarcoaster Squirrelgirl.

J x
 
Hey Everyone,

:happydance: Congrats on the payrise Springflower.

I tried clearblue ovulation tests for the first time this month (they were on special offer at the supermarket!) anyway I got a v strong line last night - sooooooooooo excited!! - We have BD the last two nights and will again tonight and I should be symptom spotting along with all of you in a few days.

Maxxi, I'm with you on the dessert tests! ha ha. I have 4 bought ready to pack and take with me to South Africa :blush:

Love the rollarcoaster Squirrelgirl.

J x


Enjoy South Africa!!!! Hopefully you'll have more symptoms than me :wacko:
 
Squirrelgirl; I really like the rollercoaster!
LuckyD; I hope so too! I have learned a lot this month and if AF arrives I will be trying out OPK's next cycle.
 

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