38 and TTC first baby, anyone else?

[Tui]

In that case don't hold out. Get peeing! No judgement here x

 

[pea-in-pod]

Just want to say hello! I'm also 38, trying for number 3. Well, trying to convince my hubby to try for number 3!!
I've had 4 miscarriages from starting till now, but I'm lucky to have two beautiful daughters! So I feel blessed either way. But really would love another!
Sorry to read of your miscarriage tui it's really heartbreaking isn't it. But the good news is: you know your body can conceive, so I do believe you'll get that baby eventually!
What part of beautiful nz do you live in?

 

[Tui]

Hi pea.

I live down south where it's quiet and green, lol. Sorry to hear of you losses. I'm glad you persevered and got two lovely little ones. I hope I can do the same.

You are welcome to join us. Good luck with talking dh round. Hopefully you can join the poas addiction we seem to have round here

 

[lola33]

Hi girls !

Glad to see people are talking around here !
I Lmao with the Bow chicka wow wow and that's what I'm doing this weekend too since O is like NOW
POAS addicts, no judment here ! and I like to have news for you. In general, I try to wait til AF is due, but sometimes I can't wait!
Well nothing to report here...
I hope you all have a nice weekend

 

[lola33]

Skweek : Your house is awesome !!! congrats !

 

[Left wonderin]

I'm all for poas once you share the results hope everyone has a lovely day

 

[Stenokat]

And a BFN just as suspected. Ready for the to fly through so we can get back to trying.
Hopefully we will have good news from those of you who will O this weekend in the next couple of weeks.

 

[Left wonderin]

And a BFN just as suspected. Ready for the to fly through so we can get back to trying.
Hopefully we will have good news from those of you who will O this weekend in the next couple of weeks.

Awh sorry about the bfn ... I hate seeing stark white looks like AF will arrive for both of us soon . Come on girls ov now we are cheering you on and need excitement in the Tww .... Symptom spotting , the works

 

[Nikki1979]

Stenokat - sorry about the BFN I am also on thyroid medication and need a 30% dosage increase as soon as I get a BFP.

Lola - Good luck with catching the egg this month.

Leftwonderin - maybe you have a shy bfp and hope the stupid witch stays away.

I got AF yesterday as well. Surprisingly it came early and for the last couple of years, my luteal phase has always been 13 days and this cycle, it was just 10 days. It could be screwey with all the supplements I am taking.

 

[Stenokat]

Nikki1979....it's nice to find someone else on here in the good ol' thyroid boat!

 

[skweek35]

Morning ladies,

Well I'm also a secret POAS!! hehe Did a test last night and again this morning (AF expected sometime in the next few days) and all BFN - which I'm happy with as we are about to move. Really don't think it would be fair of hubby to expect him to do all the packing and moving and also want to try keep bump a secret from my mom till almost 3 months - she just gets way too excited and tells everyone!!
So I'm totally fine with BFN this cycle.
Stenokat and Left - cycle buddies??

 

[Stenokat]

Morning ladies,

Well I'm also a secret POAS!! hehe Did a test last night and again this morning (AF expected sometime in the next few days) and all BFN - which I'm happy with as we are about to move. Really don't think it would be fair of hubby to expect him to do all the packing and moving and also want to try keep bump a secret from my mom till almost 3 months - she just gets way too excited and tells everyone!!
So I'm totally fine with BFN this cycle.
Stenokat and Left - cycle buddies??

Congrats on the move! You're probably right about the timing for a BFN.
Cycle buddies for sure!

 

[Left wonderin]

Well maybe not !!! FF took my crosshairs away this am In fairness my temps are not at all accurate this month ! I took them at random times and after random periods of sleep as LO was unwell and kept waking up during the night so alot of broken sleep ! So not quite sure where I am in my cycle !! If I ov on cd 11 or later ???? Who knows !! I usually have a 28/29 day cycle so AF Should arrive by Saturday at the latest .... If not ......... Its anyone guess what's going on ....... I've a couple of ic left so might do a hold and test for the fun of it !!! Seriously I'm 99.9% sure I'm not pg but there is always .5 of a chance I am lol........

I hope we are cycle buddies

 

[Wish2BMom]

Hi girls- mind if I join in? I'm 38 (39 in Dec), DH is 36. We've been trying 'for real' (with OPKs and charting) since Jan this year. I'm currently on cd10 but I usually O between cd16-18 of a 28 day cycle, so I still have a bit to go. AF got me a whole week early this past cycle - a-nnoy-ing!

I've had blood work done and an HSG and all clear here! DH's SA came back as 'fair', so we're going to have that retested this week. I had all of our paperwork ready and an appointment set up to see a specialist and I stopped...I wanted to see if we could do this on our own for a few more months, especially since things are seemingly ok with us. We'll revisit that in Jan.

so I'm just in the boring time right now.....

wishing to all of you!

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi wish and welcome I'm new too and still trying to get to know everyone your right to wait that BFP could be just around the corner

 

[Wish2BMom]

Thanks, left! yeah, my gut - whom I usually ignore - was just screaming at me to stop filling out the paperwork and to cancel the appt. So we'll see if it was just indigestion or something.

 

[Left wonderin]

Nope I don't think so

 

[Left wonderin]

This so going to be a SUPER lucky THREAD I just know it !! I'm on another thread ttc over 40 and its been so successful we have 6 babies and 3 on the way !! Not bad for over 40s and there is only 11 of us on the thread lol......

 

[Tui]

Morning everyone.

Welcome wish. You did make me laugh with your indigestion comment fingers crossed.

Left, hope your chart sorts it self out soon.

I got two different temps this morning so a bit confused. I think I've finally ovulated but will see tomorrow. Word of warning ladies, taking evening primrose oil screws with your cycle!

 

[Hattie75]

hey girls. just as we have so many new people on this thread heres a quick update of where I'm at.
Turning 39 in two months. Been trying 11cycles now.
The papers for the fertitly clinic are on the table. (Weird I feel like I am cheating on a test if I fill them out) Anyone else out there feel like this?
Had inital blood test and hubby had his checks - all good. I now have to all the tests again as they want them on day 3 of my cycle. So waitin until I can do that.

Question my period is really light and last only a couple of days. I do get a little show a few days before that though. Do I start counting my cycle from the day it is a proper flow?

At this stage we do the testing then wait to see if we qualify for funding.

YIP - More waiting!!!

On up side the job with nightshifts finishes end of the month. this should help with limbdo!!

Is anyone else going through the same process?Am in NZ so know every area is different.