Another thing with UPS is the base value of the item. If its like $60 dollars or less then you don't have to pay brokerage fees, just customs. If the item is over $60 then yes, you will have to pay brokerage.
I hate the stupid brokerage fees.
One of my OH's aunts who lives down in Texas made Claire a gorgeous quilt for when she was born. Anyways she shipped it via UPS, put the value as $125 and didn't mark it as a gift, marked it as 'goods'.
Anyways, she addressed it to "Baby Claire L" (with our last name) and then a bit later on UPS sent a brokerage fee letter addressed to "Baby Claire L". I am so not kidding! They wanted to charge her something like $50 or so, in brokerage fees for the quilt! I mentioned it to his aunt who is very much a "fight the power, stick it to the man!" type of person and she fought it. We got the brokerage fees dropped but they still wanted to charge Claire with processing fees or something like that.
His aunt warned us to not pay it, so when Claire was 5 months old she was sent to a collections agency. Yeah.
I have a serious hate on for UPS and their Brokerage BS. There IS a way to not have to pay them, but its long and drawn out and you have to pick it up at your local customs agency, if you have one in town.