78 days LATE. [no sign of AF] 1 Angel <3

[mzswizz]

ok. well atleast its just a cyst problem and nothing major. Hopefully it happens sooner rather than later so you can start on your next cycle already.

 

[danniemum2be]

hey girls sorry i havent been on in a few days been so busy. had to change my appointment till tuesday morning as i couldnt make it today. now 42 days late xx

 

[mzswizz]

well atleast yours will be the day before mines so we shall get results back around the same time

 

[danniemum2be]

im so fed up of waiting now, had the worst cramps yesterday expecting to get AF but nothing xx

 

[mzswizz]

i can just imagine the women who go for months not knowing whats going on like af is 100 days late i would freak!!

 

[danniemum2be]

i just want an answer either way, if im not pregnant then i wanna know why ive missed 2 periods, and if they try and say its stress i will go mad, ive been so much more stressed then i am now but have NEVER missed a period before except when i was pregnant x

 

[mzswizz]

I totally understand. Just like me, i wont stress unless i missed AF. So seeing that AF is missed for way too long who wouldnt be stressed!

 

[miss_elle]

so when people say "stress" has caused a late period, is it that it can delay ovulation rather than making your LP longer?

so, if you've had a positive opk then surely it means that stress can't be a factor?

 

[mzswizz]

Stress can only delay ovulation. So i guess if ov is delayed then it would affect af being delayed.

 

[danniemum2be]

i wasnt stressed until i was late and getting BFNs so why hasnt she turned up! x

 

[mzswizz]

I have no clue. I think we all got stressed trying to figure out whats wrong. Cant wait for your doc appt so you can finally get some clarity.

 

[danniemum2be]

i know me too, although my doctor is crap so doubt i will get any sort of answer till i get aby blood test results x

 

[mzswizz]

Just so happens my doc is a fertility specialist too so hopefully he can figure it out.

 

[danniemum2be]

aww thats so lucky. mines rubbish, LO had awful eczema all over her head when she was a baby and everytime i went back he just kept offering me the same cream. went to the walk in centre they took one look at it gave me a different cream and it was so much better within a week. hope he doesnt try and palm me off when i go like he usually does x

 

[mzswizz]

How come you dont just switch docs? Thats what i did when my former ob/gyn was a bunch of crap an wouldnt help. Its like what is my insuranve paying you for then?!

 

[miss_elle]

i went into the local chemist today and asked about the accuracy of pregnancy tests. he just turned round and said "if it's negative you're not pregnant. tests aren't like they were, they're very accurate."

knocked the wind outta my sails

 

[mzswizz]

Tests arent as accurate as they should be. Some women have to get blood tests done.

 

[miss_elle]

very true. ive been reading up about a woman who got to 5 months pregnant and could feel the baby moving, but was still showing negative on tests so the doctor refused to see her.

my cervix is very very tender, we had trouble BDing as it was just too painful. however, tmi sorry but my orgasms are intense, never had anything like it before my nipples have got very sore today as well.

 

[minuet]

I say a doctor who refuses to see a woman who believes she is pregnant, is a really lousy doctor.

And in the case of being so late and still coming up BFNs, I'd think a doctor should order a blood test and/or an ultrasound.

 

[mzswizz]

miss_elle- sounds v promising. I remember when i was pregnant, it was painful to dtd because it felt sore/tender. And i think docs should automatically schedule for an u/s just for confirmation.