i've been told that if you are prone to miscarriage it is best to not DTD for the first weeks of pregnancy. i know a woman who lost one of her twins in early pregnancy due to DTD and the cervix contracting. GL though, FX'd!
i had such a drama at the doctor. my normal doctor was ill so i had to see someone else, she was so rude. i did a urine test and it was negative. she told me i'm not pregnant and she'll give me something to start my period. i told her i want further tests and she just kept saying "but you're not pregnant". i ended up walking out and making a complaint. she didn't even ask how long my cycles are, how late i was, if i'm getting any symptoms etc. now waiting for an emergency appointment for my normal doctor!