7DPO and lots of CM (sorry if TMI!)

[wantjust1more]

Hello ladies and welcome edinburgh and momwife!
I hope you're all having a lovely day today. Days are gloomy the past few days and it's really affecting my mood. Doesnt help that i have a migraine for 4 days now!!! ugh

Apart from that I have nausea and cramps from time to time. But last night, oh my god, i thought my cramps was gonna make me pass out. It happened right after we BD'd... DH got up to clean himself up and I just curled into a ball and couldnt stop squirming. The pain was in my lower abdomen and vagina and had shot up to my stomach. The pain was so intense I was feeling nauseaus and close to vomitting. Has anyone had this? It lasted for 30 mins that gradually faded until I fell asleep. First time ever this happened to me.

Frisky and want1more, I'm sorry for your losses. I can just imagine what it feels like. Not being able to conceive and learning you have lost another cycle is already painful enough. I'm certain having to lose a child is a million times more hurtful. Hugs to you both.

frisky, iui is intra-uterine insemination

I've cramped, but never that bad. Sometimes i want to vomit after sex lol but hadn't happened Recently. where are you at in your cycle?


My biggest heartache is feeling like i want my babies back, and i haven't been able to get pregnant since we lost them. Just hurts me..

 

[Edinburgh]

Oh...had a really itchy right nipple last night! Haha does that count as a symptom?
Edinburgh, does everyone get implantation bleeding?? I hope not, as I've had none either Xx

Hi Frisky,
No, not everyone gets IB. I'm not sure what the stats are, maybe 25%. I think because I had it before I expect it again. Though I know they say every pregnancy is different, and just because you had it once doesn't mean it will happen again.
X

 

[friskyfish]

Ok girls, I've just caved in & bought a test...a really shitty cheap one! BFN of course, although I swear I can see a mega faint line! Haaaha....I always imagine a line...squint so hard that I see one!! Don't know why I bothered. I've come down with a sore throat today aswell...like I'm swallowing sand paper! Xx Hope your all holding up ok today Xx

 

[MomWife]

friskyfish, remember you are not out yet until AF shows up!

So far cramps has stopped as of yesterday evening. I am now 11DPO. AF expected arrival is Sept 2nd. According to FertilityFriend AF is due tomorrow. For the past 3 days I have been having CM, maybe my body is just trying to get adjusted being off of BCP. FX crossed for the rest of you ladies!

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh ladies.... I'm so sorry for your losses, I just can't imagine how hard that must have been for you both!! I'm sending you heartfelt hugs tonight xx
Frisky, I had itchy nipples last month!!!!!!!! How many DPO are you??? I think I tested at 11dpo and that was a big fat negative so you are not out at all yet!!!
Kitty, I have only ever had a severe shooting pain going up my vagina (feels like someone is stabbing a knife up you kinda pain) when I have had ovarian cysts, have you been checked out before for cysts and endometriosis??? Could be that???
Anyone else caved and tested or when are you planning on testing????? I have a good feeling for you ladies this month!!!!! I'm throwing baby dust your way!!!!
Goodnight girls..... X

 

[friskyfish]

Hi betty, I'm unsure to how many dpo I am, I'm guessing it's around 11 or 12days? Going off last month's cycle, I should start spotting on Friday & be in full flow for Monday.
I woke up at 1am feeling really sick...and had that same milky discharge again. Tmi sorry...also, I don't know if this is even a symptom, but my urine is really yellow?? Hahaha...I think I'm loosing the plot. I really want to test again, but I need to get a grip of myself and hold out till weekend !! Hope all is good with you & bump Xx

 

[Edinburgh]

The mad ass dreams continue. They give me lots to entertain you with though so I'll share this nugget - puts a whole new perspective on POAS.

So, in my dream, I got a BFP however, in order to achieve this I peed while driving an old school Mini to our local pool, and the special spongy seat made two lines appear in pink on the white steering wheel.

God, I'll never be able to tell you ladies my name in case you send round the men in white coats! It was fairly short lived though as the crows woke me up hollering at each other about half an hour earlier than my DD usually wakes me up.

I very nearly caved this morning and tested. I think I might have O'd 10 days ago, but going by dates alone it was maybe as late as 8 days ago. My CM has been so crazy this month that I honestly don't know exactly when O occurred.

I resisted the urge. Didn't get a definitive answer till 2 days after AF was due last time so I'm telling myself not to waste money I don't have or be crazy.

I will test next Tuesday and not a day earlier. There, now lets watch how fast my willpower crumbles.

Friskyfish, not to worry about your BFN, it's still very early, though I've seen a lot of ladies here say that bright urine was a symptom for them so that's heartening. Fingers crossed AF is a no show x

 

[friskyfish]

The mad ass dreams continue. They give me lots to entertain you with though so I'll share this nugget - puts a whole new perspective on POAS.

So, in my dream, I got a BFP however, in order to achieve this I peed while driving an old school Mini to our local pool, and the special spongy seat made two lines appear in pink on the white steering wheel.

God, I'll never be able to tell you ladies my name in case you send round the men in white coats! It was fairly short lived though as the crows woke me up hollering at each other about half an hour earlier than my DD usually wakes me up.

I very nearly caved this morning and tested. I think I might have O'd 10 days ago, but going by dates alone it was maybe as late as 8 days ago. My CM has been so crazy this month that I honestly don't know exactly when O occurred.

I resisted the urge. Didn't get a definitive answer till 2 days after AF was due last time so I'm telling myself not to waste money I don't have or be crazy.

I will test next Tuesday and not a day earlier. There, now lets watch how fast my willpower crumbles.

Friskyfish, not to worry about your BFN, it's still very early, though I've seen a lot of ladies here say that bright urine was a symptom for them so that's heartening. Fingers crossed AF is a no show x

Haaaaaaaahaa this dream is brilliant!! Made me laugh that one!
My dream last night involved me and husband at a festival. Then I had to go and squat behind a burger van, take a pee & do a pregnancy test!! Whilst hubby held a bin bag infront of me, in case anyone saw!! We got 2 lines the rest of the dream involved us finding new places to pee, and taking more tests...we took about 6 in total!! All whilst enjoying a music festival!! Haha VERY ODD!
I was gutted when I woke up....as I remember me & hubby crying tears of joy in dream.

I want to test....I don't know if I can stop myself before weekend!
Let's try & be strong & not cave hey? Xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh Edinburgh! I am laughing at your dream! Our minds do crazy things!!!! Just before I got my BFP I had the craziest dream.... I was in Vegas in a casino and I needed to do a test but all the toilets were open air (no doors, everyone coud see in) so I was looking for somewhere private to pee and was searching behind slot machines etc..... It was awful because I just wanted to do the test!!!!
Frisky, try and hold off testing!!! I know it's a killer but I really don't think some tests show up until AF is due!!! Can you wait till Monday?????
Keep me posted ladies xxx

 

[Bettyt63]

Ps: frisky, have you had this creamy CM after you have O'd in any other cycles???

 

[friskyfish]

No, I don't think so betty, I think I'd have remembered. As when I saw it, it grossed Me out! Haha. I've got shooting pains in boobs today. I must NOT test!!
Haha betty, it dream was similar to mine, apart from I had to pee behind a burger van, not a slot machine! Xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Try and hold off buying tests until Sunday and then test Monday am!!!! I have everything crossed for you xxxx

 

[friskyfish]

Arrrgggghhhh I know...but hubby is home Thursday till sat. I'll try and not test. Haha Xx

 

[Edinburgh]

I bought FRER tests last time and I have to say there were pretty useless. This time I'm trying the strip test cheapies (they do 10miu and 20miu grade tests) and you can get them from amazon and ebay. They are essentially the ones hospitals and docs use and mean you can test without worrying too much about the cost. Also, if you order them now, you won't get them till the weekend! With hubby home he can help keep you entertained and occupied

I am loving the dreams ladies, wonder what the whole notion of POAS in public is all about - maybe psychologically we want to be able to shout about what we're going through and not have to hide the ups and downs being experienced from those around us. Hopefully our unconscious self knows something we don't and that's why they are all positive!

Stay strong... don't test! Yet!

 

[friskyfish]

Hellooo, how are we all?
I think I'm gonna test in the morning or Friday morning. Reason being, I'm going out with hubby Friday night & want to know if I can drink or not!! Haha although, if it's negative, I won't drink anyway as there's still Maybe a smidge of a chance? Also, hubby goes back to sea on Saturday, if by chance it IS positive, I would like to tell him face to face.....There's not a chance I can hold on till Monday. I've done well only testing once so far compared to other months! Haha

Edinburgh, I've not got any frer tests in, just some cheap ones from Asda for now.
As far as symptoms go, today I had really sore nipples when I woke up. And they are starting to hurt again now...could be sign of af though.
I feel different this month. It sounds weird, but I have felt calm in myself & really content. Like I have some kind of weird inner peace going on. I can't explain it. It's weird.
Haaa that inner peace will be right out the window if I get a BFN!

Edinburgh? When are u testing? X

 

[Bettyt63]

Frisky!!!! So are you testing tmrw??? Please keep us posted and I'm wishing you lots of luck!!! Eeeeeeeek!!!! It's so exciting!!! Would be a fab leaving pressie for your hubby!!!
X

 

[friskyfish]

Frisky!!!! So are you testing tmrw??? Please keep us posted and I'm wishing you lots of luck!!! Eeeeeeeek!!!! It's so exciting!!! Would be a fab leaving pressie for your hubby!!!
X

I want to have the willpower to wait betty. But I havnt ....so yeah I'm gonna test either tomorrow or Friday I think xxx

 

[MomWife]

Hello ladies!

For the past 4 days I have been having creamy cm. I am now 12DPO with more new pimples on my breasts, and face. It seems like everyday I get more pimples!!!Yesterday I had a slight pain in my right breast and no more cramping. I just know AF will show her face on the 2nd.

 

[Edinburgh]

Morning ladies, for the second day on the trot I'm awake at stupid o'clock. DH and DD are still fast asleep. In a moment of madness at 6am I caved and did a test, surprise surprise, negative. Last weekend I was pretty hopeful, with a weekend of odd symptoms. Today though all that is just gone and I have a bit of a pre-period bloat going. I don't think this cycle is for us.
No crazy dreams to entertain you with today, if I had one I don't remember it! Maybe it was just a full moon or something
Good luck Frisky, will keep my fingers crossed for you. It's annoying the whole abstaining thing when AF does then show her face.
DD is grumbling now, must go!

 

[friskyfish]

Morning ladies, for the second day on the trot I'm awake at stupid o'clock. DH and DD are still fast asleep. In a moment of madness at 6am I caved and did a test, surprise surprise, negative. Last weekend I was pretty hopeful, with a weekend of odd symptoms. Today though all that is just gone and I have a bit of a pre-period bloat going. I don't think this cycle is for us.
No crazy dreams to entertain you with today, if I had one I don't remember it! Maybe it was just a full moon or something
Good luck Frisky, will keep my fingers crossed for you. It's annoying the whole abstaining thing when AF does then show her face.
DD is grumbling now, must go!

Good morning,

Awwwwh sorry about your bfn. But your really not out till AF shows, I'll keep everything crossed for you my love
I caved in last night & tested....i swear I could see a faint line again. Is it possible on these tests to have the faintest of lines & it still be positive? I'm not testing again now until Saturday morning. I feel I spend all my life staring & squinting at pregnancy tests!! I'm gonna drive when I go out Friday just in case..haha. That will be a new one for me!

Momwife, how are you feeling today? I too am experiencing alot of creamy cm, I don't usually get it before af. So, let's hope it's a good sign?

Well today I'm off work, so I'm going to get house nice for hubbys return later. And have a bloody good rest. My son is home tomorrow too, I've not seen him in 2 weeks, so I'm mega excited

Have a good day ladies, stay positive xxx