I'll test next Tuesday Betty, that's the latest date I expect AF to arrive. I'm only just off BC so my cycle seemed a bit shorter than my normal 28 days last month but it might have just been things settling down.
I know first hand how scary any kind of bleeding can be during your pregnancy and although it's hard you have to stay relaxed, super positive and just look after yourself ok? I had a lesion at the implantation site with my first pregnancy (I told you I was a bleeder!) and so after the initial IB passed, at about 5 and a half weeks I started bleeding and it was bright red and copious. I thought it was all over and was devastated. The early pregnancy teams are brilliant though and they finally found out what the problem was and that the little bean was where it was meant to be. The only thing we could do was wait for week 8 so they could scan and check for a heart beat and make sure that despite the blood loss, bean was developing OK. Goddamn slowest, hardest 3 weeks of my life. Everything you read says blood, particularly red blood, is bad and that bleeding is a sign of bad things. But what no-one tells you is that actually about 25% of all women get some kind of bleeding in the first trimester as things settle into place, your blood volume increases and that umbilical chord really establishes itself.
So, try not to panic and if you can see the bright side, you should get to see your little bean a bit earlier than you would otherwise.
Frisky, exercise as normal for as long as possible, it'll help you feel good, relax you and fill you and any potential beans with lots of happy endorphins. Just don't lift heavy weights, do any inverted yoga/pilates poses or go mad with the Ab stuff. Cardio is totally fine, especially if your body is used to it. Just drink lots of water, listen to your body and remember to obey if it's telling you to stop!
I too am off work today, hence the mini-novels. Mum usually has shortie on a Thurs as my DH works today too but she's on hols at the moment so I'm home. DD is napping and then we're off out to enjoy some cake and (decaf) tea with a friend. Would be better if the weather was less gray and drizzly but that's Edinburgh for you! It's just nice to not be at work.