7DPO and lots of CM (sorry if TMI!)

[friskyfish]

Awwwwh betty, hugs to you
Some months are harder than others....I hope you feel better soon, the 2ww is horrible Xx

I wasn't this sick with Joe, I felt sick in the evenings but never threw up. And I can't remember my pregnancy with eve.

I'm drinking lots of tonic water to ease my tummy & all I fancy is cornflakes in cold milk...gonna get some now Xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh, cornflakes!!! Haven't had them in years!!!!! Cravings are so funny, I literally only wanted to eat chocolate and drink cold milk!!!! no wonder I put on so much weight!!!!

 

[Bettyt63]

Hello ladies.... How are we all today???
Thought I would keep updati g you on my crazy symptoms this cycle..... I think my body is playing some very naughty tricks on me!!! It's so unfair!
Well, last night I woke and was sweating so bad I was drenched and had to change my pjs.... This is really unusual for me and I don't have a cold or anything. Also when I wiped this morning there was a small amount of blood, I'm talking 2 dots so not a lot at all!!!!! Arghhhhhhh! This is so annoying, I don't even think I'm ovulating so why would I bet getting all these symptoms???

 

[friskyfish]

Oooh, that is strange betty. When is af due for you? Is it Monday?? Xx

 

[Bettyt63]

I'm due wed/thurs..... It's not gonna happen.... Just getting my hopes up....

 

[tinadecember]

Happy mothers day beautiful mummys! Hope you've all been spoilt rotten by your little ones.

Evie treated me to some new wedges from river Island haha that girl has good taste haha.

Betty, im sure it's possible for you to not ovulate some cycles then ovulate others? ? I wouldn't rule yourself out until your AF shows.

We've finally got our follow up appointment at the doctors tomorrow afternoon. I feel anxious. I keep thinking what in the world are we going to do if it comes back as low? ? Is there treatment that can be given? Xxx

 

[friskyfish]

Happy mothers day!!

Tina, don't worry, I'm sure it will be fine. Even If it is low, there is lots you can do to bring it back up. My friends fella had a really low count But he changed his diet, took supplements, started wearing loose pants, cool showers...and his count rose dramatically. They are now 4months pregnant Xx

Your wedges sound like a fab pressie, I got some from there the other day. I got daffodils & bath smellys off Joe Xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Happy Mother's Day all you lovely ladies.... I am being treat to a night away in a 5* hotel in Harrogate in may, whoooop!!!! Something nice to look forward to xxxx
Tina, I'm not sure what the treatment is for male fertility???? I know you mentioned that mark has started taking vitamins, have you googled what vits are good for make spermies???? Hopefully everything will be ok, you will have to keep us posted xxxx also I'm sure you are right about my ovulation otherwise I would never have gotten pregnant in the past, I was going to test today but decided against it, I'm 11dpo today so may test tmrw, I have one FRER left

On a more depressing note my mam isnt speaking to me and has decided to go off on her own today which has just made me really angry and sad!!! she suffers from severe depression and OCD and wont get any help, she always does this on any occassion, birthdays, christmas, mothers day etc.... its so draining and i cant help her.... this is something that none of my friends even know about only our close family know so I can only talk about it to my sister. trying to not let it spoil my Mother's Day, anyone experienced this or have any advice???

 

[Bettyt63]

Ps: I have shoe envy!!! I need some wedges in my life

 

[friskyfish]

Awwwwh betty, sorry to hear about your mum.
I've not experienced anything like this personally, but I know people who have & it's not nice. Depression is a horrible disease & effects everyone around that person. Just try & enjoy your day with your daughter. I'm sure your mum knows how much you love her & want to be there for her today, but if she wants to be alone, there's nothing much you can do Xx big hugs for you

On the onvulation side of thing's, Maybe you DID ovulate this month, Maybe the dots of blood was implantation?? My friend who was on clomid, she had problems ovulating...some months she ovulated, some months she didn't. Fingers crossed betty xxx

 

[MomWife]

Happy Mother's Day!!!

Betty, I will keep my fx for you that af will not show! My Mom is also dealing with depression. When holidays come around and I bring her gifts she acts like she loves the gifts but a few days later she says she wanted something else. My mom has 4 kids and I am the youngest. I am the only one that visit her at least twice a month. I talk to her weekly but she always say negative things. I have finally got to the point where when she calls me with an attitude I just say I am busy and call her in a few days. It is hard since it is your mom. When I have not talked to her in a week she always say that she was in the hospital. I do not like the fact that she say that she was ill since she wants attention. I know my mom is not going to change the only thing I can do is just try to deal with it. When she do not take her medication it is very bad and then she starts talking about harming herself. There is a nurse that comes by everyday to see how she is doing and making sure she takes her meds.

Tina, frisky is right, don't get down. Just know if it is low there are many things that can be done to change it.

Frisky, cold flakes sounds good! Just made me hungry!

I will have my ultrasound tomorrow ladies!!! Hope everything goes ok.

I hope all of you lovely ladies will have a nice day.

 

[ab75]

Happy mothers day. I got flowers,slippers and teddy bears from the girls before i went to work(work in B&Q).
Betty i'm hoping that was implantation for you.
Hope your appt goes well Tina.
I'm going to doc tomorrow for tests(???)and an apology,I thought he already apologised but apparently he wants to reassure me that it is a good practice!

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh momwife, I'm so sorry to hear your mum is not well it's such a crippling illness and affects the whole family.... My mum won't even take anything to help her so you're constantly walking on eggshells. When she is good it's brilliant and she is good to be around but when she is bad it's awful
Hope everything goes well with your scan please post pics of baby momwife!!!! Will you find out today if its blue or pink?????? How exciting
I'm 12dpo and decided to test this morning..... BFN very sad face

 

[tinadecember]

afternoon ladies,

Betty, my mum also suffers from depression although I don't know much about it because she tries to keep it a secret from everybody. I know she is addicted to different medications and when she doesn't have them she gets so low & upset and feels like the whole world is against her. It's tough trying to reassure her that everything will be okay because nothing that anybody can say to her will pick her spirits up. Sending you big hugs, sorry about the BFN there's still time though! When is your AF due?

Momwife how exciting about your scan, make sure to post piccies! Speaking of piccies, frisky we STILL haven't had a bump pic from you!

Good luck with your doctors appointment AB, are you getting blood tests for your progesterone levels?

We're off to our appointment in a couple of hours, cross your fingers for me girls! xx

 

[ab75]

Afternoon!
I'm not sure what i'm getting done Tina, doc just said he had read my notes and he wanted to do more tests. I'll let you all know what he says when i get back. Good luck,hope your appt goes well.
Betty,still time for that to turn into bfp, when is af due?
Enjoy your scan Momwife. Xx

 

[tinadecember]

Girls, it wasn't the good news we were hoping for. There's definitely a problem there, they've called it moderate oligozoospermia and we're being referred to an infertility specialist. I don't know how to feel. Feel a bit numb and teary because I know mark is upset about it. Frisky, Betty do you have any idea about how to read sperm analysis results? Because I can't make head nor tail of them and the doctor wasn't especially clued up either. Here's his results
https://i1317.photobucket.com/albums/t639/tinadecember1987/20140331_162239_zps45661d95.jpg

 

[Bettyt63]

Tina.... Please don't panic. It's good you have been referred as you will be in good hands my lovely and they will give you all the help and support you will need. I really don't know anything about sperm analysis just because all our problems have been with me did they say when you would get an appointment at the ARU???
It's good you finally have some answers.... Big hugs to you
Thanks for telling me about your mum too, it makes me feel a bit better knowing that it's not just affecting our family.... The only difference with my mum is that she blames me for everything, she says it's my fault she is depressed, I know it's not but its still tough when she is really nasty to me, I just have to try and block it out but it makes me very stressed
Momwife, how was your scan???? Pics??? Blue or pink????

 

[friskyfish]

Tina, try not to panic...I'll dig out my hubbys results & compare....if your unsure, see if another doc will see you to explain in more detail. It's annoying they don't do this, we need things explained to like we are children sometimes as otherwise it just doesn't make sense.

I'll be back on later...having a terrible time with Joe tonight, he's been so naughty & disrespectful to me....I'm shaking with stress!! X

 

[tinadecember]

Hiya Hun, the doctor just said he would refer us so I'm guessing we will receive a letter in the post in the coming weeks.

Been doing a lot of research in the last couple of hours and all of his results are under the "normal" levels and state that it would be difficult to conceive without help. I feel relieved that we know the problem now and I'm so glad that we've found this out after 9 months of trying rather than 2 years down the line. I feel incredibly lucky to already have one child because I can't imagine having to go through this trying for your first. Xxx

 

[friskyfish]

Well dont loose hope Tina, your in the right hands now....Things can be done as it happened to my friend xxx

Betty, just seen your post regarding test.....It's still early days, af isn't due till wed Xx