7DPO and lots of CM (sorry if TMI!)

[MomWife]

Yay frisky that your in your 2nd trimester! I'm sorry that your dh has done something like this. He must of been really drinking. I totally understand why you couldn't even talk to him. I would of said some very mean things to my husband. That's why when I get angry I don't talk to Him I just cool down and talk to him in a couple of hours.have you talked to him yet? If so does he remember what he did? xxxx

 

[friskyfish]

No, I'll talk to him tomorrow when he's home. Just a totally irresponsible thing to do. He's a liability when he's had a drink, which is why he doesn't do it often!
Sometimes silence speaks volumes....he will know I'm cross Haha Xx

 

[ab75]

My doc just said i had to get bloods taken 14 days after start of AF?? Started today so i guess i'll find out in 2 weeks.

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh frisky...... What a naughty hubby!!!! Sounds a bit like something my fella would do too!!! They can be so irresponsible.... I think the silent treatment will do wonders! He has a lot of sucking up to do!
Tina.... Have you watched GOT??? I'm watching it after one born every minute, super excited!!!!
I called the fertility hospital this morning and they have given me another app on tues 15th April so I'm really pleased eeeeeek, please keep fingers crossed I get some clomid!!!
I'm rather sad tonight to hear about peaches geldof, such a tragic loss and those poor boys she used to be a model with one of the agencies I used to work at. You ever ever know what's going on with someone.... Makes me cherish all I have xxxx

 

[friskyfish]

Yeah, it's tragic news....So young. Her family must be in bits....I can't imagine leaving my son without a mummy, makes me feel so sad Xx

Great news about your appointment betty, that's not too long to wait Xx

 

[tinadecember]

Ahhh the news about Peaches Geldof is heartbreaking isn't it? I wonder what the postmortem will come back as... I do expect something drug related if I'm honest because she used to have a problem a few years ago I believe.

Yes Betty I have watched G.O.T what did you think?? I thought it was amazeballs! Absolutely loved it, gutted though that we've gotta wait a week between each episode.

Made up hun that you've got an appointment for next week! that's the best news ever eeeek!

Frisky,why are men so bloody stupid when they have a drink?? he must have been insanely drunk though not to even know where he was. I hope he comes grovelling tonight with choccies and flowers. Is he admitting that what he's done is wrong?

I remember Mark coming home once after a night out and I didn't realise until the following day but he has done a wee in Evie's toy box. Everything was ruined and still to this day he denies that it was him haha xxx

 

[ab75]

Betty,glad you managed to rearrange another appt. I hope you get clomid.
Frisky,I would be annoyed too,hopefully he'll be very embarrassed and learn from it!
Found out last week that a friend back home passed away, her little boy was born a couple of months before Zoe and she went thru so much to have him. Cried on and off since i heard thinking about that poor little one wondering where his mummy has gone. Was just starting to pull myself together when I heard about Peaches,and now I feel sad for her little boys.
Had a look on google,apparently day 14 bloods are to check for ovulation....but i know i ovulate! Made appt today,but they are closed easter mon(day 14) so i am going on the tues. I'm thinking it is just going to be a waste of time, unless i have to go back at 21 days!? Xx

 

[ab75]

Oh Tina, i wouldn't have been happy,lol.
My b.i.l once wee'd in my sisters drawer when he was drunk. It was where she kept all her make up and it was ruined xx

 

[ab75]

Oh Tina, i wouldn't have been happy,lol.
My b.i.l once wee'd in my sisters drawer when he was drunk. It was where she kept all her make up and it was ruined xx

 

[tinadecember]

AB, I would personally call the doctors and ask if there's going to be a problem with you going on day 21, because if you know that you ovulate then like you said it's a waste of time! You want to know if your progesterone levels are high enough for a pregnancy to be successful and you can only find that out if you go on CD21 when progesterone should be at its highest.

Sorry to hear about your friend sending you big hugs xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Amanda..... I'm so sorry about your friend, that's so tragic. Sending you big life can be so cruel sometimes, we have to be so thankful for what we have xx

Tina, your story made me giggle!!! Men are so bloody naughty, could we ever get away with pissing in the toy box???? Doubt it!!! My OH has done it a few times when drunk, gone and had a pee in the corner of the room! One of these days I will put him in a hut in the garden!!!!

 

[tinadecember]

HAHA I know Betty! They behave like bloody animals when they've had a drink so maybe we should build little kennels in the garden and when they come stumbling home they can crawl into them and pee until their hearts content!

It is funny looking back now but at the time I was mortified. He even managed to get some behind the TV, He could've blew himself up the silly bugger!

Had a really weird dream last night girls, I don't know whether I've mentioned before that before Evie I had a molar pregnancy. They're very rare (only 1 in 1000 pregnancies I think) and happen when there's a problem during the fertilization part. It causes a growth of cancerous cells in your womb rather than a healthy little bubba. Anyway back to the dream... I was standing in a hospital and there was a little girl in front of me wearing a white gown with her head down. She had long brown hair and pale skin. I approached her to ask if she was okay and she said "Don't you know who I am?" and I said "No..." she replied "I'm the little girl you would have had" and I don't know whether it was shock from the dream but it woke me up. I feel baffled by it completely!!!

xx

 

[ab75]

OMG Tina, i went freezing cold and got covered in goosebumps when I read that! Maybe a sign of another one to come soon?!
I had a mmc on 04/08/10 & Zara was born 04/08/12, i think that she's that baby come back to me.
I have decided to go for 14 day bloods and i am going to ask to go back for 21 day bloods too.
Thanks for your wishes about my friend xx

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh god Tina that's freaky!!!!! I bet you were totally freaked out after that dream!!!! I didn't realise that's what a molar pregnancy was, so what did they have to do when they realised what it was???

Amanda, when I went for my blood tests I had to go on CD3, CD14 and CD21 as they checked other levels throughout my cycle and realised it was my progesterone causing the problem..... Eeeeeeek only 12 days to my appointment, whoop!!!

Ps: Tina, I love GOT!!!!!!!

 

[ab75]

Hope your appointment goes well Betty.
I am having to go on cd15 as cd14 is Easter mon and health centre is closed. Hoping that won't make too much difference!! Xx

 

[tinadecember]

Morning girls,

Betty, I had to have a D&C to remove the growth and that was when it was confirmed that it was a molar pregnancy as I assume they did a biopsy on it. It causes ridiculously high HCG levels so following that I was transferred to a specialist molar pregnancy hospital in Sheffield and had to send urine samples off once a week to make sure that my HCG was dropping back to zero as it should do. I did this for 6 months then was given the all clear to start trying again and got caught with Evie 2 months later.

Good thing really that you have a blood test to check your HCG levels because imagine if I'd gone to 12 weeks without knowing!

AB, maybe that's your GPs plan, just like what Betty did? He might get the results from your CD14 test and then send you for another one.... I hope so!

Anyone doing anything interesting this weekend?

Evie is going to a party tomorrow, a one direction disco party! She's super excited. It's one of our good friends little girl's 4th birthday so I'm making Mark drive because I need a glass of wine or 2!!!

Might get a chinese tonight, why not it is the weekend after all woohoo! xx

 

[ab75]

Morning, yes i hope so too.
I never realised that was what a molar pregnancy was either!
Not upto much this weekend. Having to rearrange rooms as the girls new beds are getting delivered in a couple of weeks so all their toys and bookcases are getting moved into the box room. Also need to tidy the loft. So that's sat spoken for then it's the big match on sun!!
Will prob have a few vodka's tomorrow when girls go to bed.
Enjoy your weekend everybody. (Hope your chinese is good Tina)xx

 

[tinadecember]

Ahh AB rather you than me with rearranging kids rooms! Evies looks like a bomb site, I don't know why I bother sometimes.

Betty is your appointment on Monday? How are you feeling about it?

Evies had me up since 4.30am Eurgh we're watching Robin Hood under a duvet on the couch. I need some sleeeeeep!!! Xxx

 

[Bettyt63]

Oh Tina, I feel for you! My little girl was awake twice through the night and woke up for good at 6am, I've been shattered all day!!! I hate not getting enough sleep!!
Anyway it's all good as I am now off for a week, whoop!!!!! My app is Tuesday at 11.30am so I'm looking forward to it but I just have this feeling that I'm going to be no further forward??? I don't know why, I guess I'm not getting my hopes up!
How is everyone?? It's a bit quiet on here! Where is everyone in their cycle??
I'm currently on CD12 and AF due on 3rd may my god we are nearly in MAY!!! How has that happened???

 

[tinadecember]

I can't imagine them not doing anything betty! If you go in there and say, listen I'm not ovulating, we've been trying for 2 years, we've done absolutely everything that we can. . They HAVE to do something. It'd be insane for them to send you packing without a next step.

I'm around CD25/26 I think. I'm guessing I'm not pregnant so expecting my AF by mid week. Lovely!

Can't wait for Thursday then it's 4 whole days off work for bank holiday I can't believe it! !! Xx